Women are often surprised to feel elevated levels of l!bido (s3xual desire) during pregnancy. Many of them fear losing their babies as a result of s3xual intercourse, which leaves much to ponder over and wonder about, especially for those undergoing their first pregnancy.
The question that must be asked here is; does s3x have any negative effects on the mother or her unborn child?
In some cases, s3x during pregnancy can harm the mother and her child, as doctors have indicated that, if the husband has an STD (s3xually Transmitted Disease), the mother, and thus her child, can be infected. On another note, women with a history of miscarriages or preterm labor are also advised to refrain from s3xual intercourse during their first trimester. Adverse effects can also take place if the placenta is not in its natural position.
OGBYNs have confirmed that there is absolutely no harm in s3xual intercourse during pregnancy as long as the pregnancy is normal, and this applies even to the last few minutes before labor. They also confirm that the mucous membrane that surrounds the fetus protects it from any infection, and that the strong muscles of the uterus guard the child against any physical harm. Nevertheless, the child may be affected in some cases as the mother may feel them kicking after she climaxes. This kicking is not related to the child being aware of what is happening or feeling any pain, but is rather caused by the elevated speed of the mother’s heartbeats after intercourse.
Do you feel that s3x during pregnancy is difficult for you because you fear for your unborn child, or because you suffer from low energy levels or lack the desire to have s3x?
Naturally, during the first few months of pregnancy, you will experience reduced levels of l!bido and this is because of the morning sickness and fatigue that you suffer from. Once these symptoms disappear, your l!bido will gradually return to its normal levels and you will then be able to practice and enjoy s3xual intercourse, unless there are other health issues that get in the way.
Most s3x positions are safe during pregnancy, given that you and your husband are comfortable and that the position does not apply any pressure on your pelvis.