VIDEO: Ogun State University S*xTape Scandal Video EXPOSED

Just watch the video above and see the sinful act this young boys and girl did. It's real hard for me to write about, because I'm surprised and shocked, . The girl in this video is said to be a 200 level student of ogun state university but the identities of the boys are still unknown to us. As you can see in the video the dirty action is being filmed by another guy who is probably the room-mate of the dude performing the freak act.

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Calculator and books can be seen on the bed, this is to show that the girl probably went to that room to study but things changed and dirtyaction started..

ADVICE NEEDED: I SLEPT WITH MY BOYFRIEND’S FATHER AND HE IS FAR BETTER IN BED THAN HIS SON….WHAT SHOULD I DO?

My story is brief and straight to the point:I’m a 38yr old lady who is independent but I regret not getting married in my mid and late 20s when men were in serious demand for my hand in marriage. I kept saying I was not ready and now I blame myself for all am going through after I turned 33 five years ago. But I met this young guy, he’s 30yr old. I love him and I told him my real age and he’s ok with it, maybe because am financially stable and spend my money on him Fast forward to last December, I met his father and one thing led to another and the man passed a night in my apartment. It was very hot! He performed far better than his son in bed…


My boyfriend’s father is 57, divorced and he is madly in love with me. He even give me money to increase my biz not like his son who collects from me. The man is ready to marry me but my problem is that I’ve slept with his son and I still do it with him once in a while just to satisfy him so he doesn’t suspect his father. But I can’t continue to sleep with father and son though I’m enjoying the father’s “juice” more. Pls what can I do? -

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Lovers Who Turn Out To Be Conmen : The New Survival Tactic For Nairobi Men

When Margaret, a young lawyer in Nairobi, met Mark, a young man from Southern Sudan, it was a case of love at first sight.

He was not only composed and handsome, but also seemed intelligent and focused. He claimed to be a programmes officer with the UN.

He had been injured while serving in Sudan, he said, and was being treated at a Nairobi hospital. He said he had no family or close relatives, having lost them during the war in his country.

Margaret was touched by the story and determined to assist him emotionally until he

10 reasons why lovers date their ex

1. Nostalgia

If you want to return to the good ol’ days, wear some jellies and listen to a mixed tape. Don’t use nostalgia as a reason to run back into the arms of your banished boo. Though you never believe it when you’re suffering, there will be others. Lots of others.

2. They’re Good in Bed

Sure, you had some good times with your former lover. But remember: your ex had time to get familiar with your body and kinks. You two might not have had earthquakin’ romps in the beginning, but you’ll probably only (conveniently) recollect the nights of burning passion that came later. Someone else can get you there—but these things don’t always happen overnight.

3. You’ve Changed

Maybe you were in a bad place when you dated. Perhaps you destroyed everything and realize that you missed out on something awesome. If you’re aware of your errors and want to give it another go, it’s worth a shot. Just know: your ex might not be so forgiving.

4. They’ve Changed

Allow me to contradict my previous statement-people (usually) don’t change. It is possible though. For example, did you date an alcoholic whose addiction tore your relationship apart? If your ex has made a conscious effort to fix the problem (therapy, AA, etc.), a second chance is worth consideration. Key word here is “consideration,” however. Don’t enter this situation blindly.

5. Your Family Wants It

It’s a tale as old as time: your family can’t stand your current squeeze and begs you to reconsider your ex. Your family may know best, but inquire why they clamor for your former love. Maybe they saw something that a detached diva like yourself missed. Or, more likely, it could be that they’re nosey and bossy. It’s worth a conversation, but don’t let their opinions be the do all, end all.

6. You Had Amazing Chemistry

While it’s easy to forget this, chemistry does not equate with compatibility. Being able to stare longingly into each other’s eyes doesn’t mean you have what it takes to last as a couple. An explosive, magnetic chemistry with another person is often just fickle hormones talking.

7. You Don’t Think Anyone Else will Love You

This is a dreadful feeling. I wish I could say something wise to evaporate the gut-wrenching insecurity we all experience at some point or another, but I’ve got nothing. So I’ll just say this: don’t run back to your ex if you’re doing it to feel better about yourself. This is the sign of an unhealthy relationship. It may take awkward first dates, an OkCupid account, a matchmaker and a fortune teller, but it is totally possible to find another love. Promise.

8. You’re Bored

No. No. No. No. NO! Just no. This is evil. Don’t toy with another’s emotions because you can’t get laid. Don’t delve back into the valley of the past just for cheap kicks.

9. You Just ‘Have a Feeling’

This one is tricky. Usually, this feeling stems from chemistry, nostalgia or boredom, but we’re too wasted on a crazy cocktail of hormones to identify the source. Talk to your friends and try to figure out why you’re really craving this person. Is it a legitimate reason? Side note: movies don’t portray love accurately and are not a good measure for relationship accuracy. So do not base your feeling on a wine-fueled evening watching The Notebook.

10. It’s Convenient

You have the same friends. You like the same music. Geez, we might as well just fall back into the same pattern! Hold up—no. Don’t do it. Maybe this is a sign that you two were meant to be just friends in the first place. Because guess what, those things that irritated you back then aren’t going away. Bottom line: you’re not doing anyone any favors by re-enlisting in a love war.

Guys Only: 10 Types Of Women You Should Never Date

This is exclusively for the guys.Have you ever wondered why the women you date always turn out to be annoying or weird in some way? Have you ever thought that perhaps you have been choosing the wrong type of women? Below is a list of ten different types of women you should avoid, according to an article I just came across. Read carefully and see if you can learn one or two things.

See the List below;

1. The Chatterbox–This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

 

2. The Desperate babe-This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

 

 

 

3. The Overly-Critical Woman

Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

 

4. The Bimbo

This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

 

5. The High Maintenance Chick

If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

 

 

   

6. The Clingy Girl

This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

 

7. The Baby’s Mama

This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

 

8. The Gold Digger

The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

 

9. The Club Girl

Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

 

10. The Feminist

This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.

How can i get myself a husband now that I’m 33?

Guys I need your help seriously..

Sorry i can’t reveal my name right now so i have to go straight to the point..

I have lived a very unholy life as a runs girl at my early 20s till now but unfortunately for me i never knew am destroying my own future, my mates and friends has been married for like 6-7 years now but no man has ever knocked on my parents door to ask my hand in marriage. Lately i thought maybe somebody is trying to tire me down but i found out that my evil deeds in the past have caught up with me, my advice for the young ladies out there who flirts around with people’s husband in the name of “Shuga Daddy” is stay away because God is watching you..

Please guys help me out, am a changed person now and its for good, i want to settle down and have my own happy family. I don’t want to be a home wrecker anymore… My problem now is to get a husband of my own and stay happy, how can i achieve that?

Help! I Caught My Wife Cheating On Me With A Vib'rator On Our Matrimonial Bed

I have a very serious problem which has started affecting me psychologically and even my performance at my job.
I have tried to work things out with my wife but it has not yielded any positive result as I am not convinced about the situation. I feel too ashamed to discuss the problem with my pastor and even worse with my mother because I know that will only escalate things. Trust me, I know my mother and mothers generally. As for my friends, I am afraid they might turn around to use it against us and make me the butt of their jokes

My problem started last December, over the festive period to be precise. I caught my wife on our matrimonial bed having se'x with a vib'rator. I almost collapsed because I was shocked beyond what words can describe. I found myself shaking from head to toe, unable to even say anything. I felt so disgusted and sick that I had to rush to the bathroom to splash water over my face to avoid vomiting.

She must have been so engrossed in what she was doing that she did not even know when I entered our apartment and walked into the room to find her in that position. It was my movement that brought her back to reality. What I found most disturbing at that moment was why she could not wait for me if she was so in need of sex, since I’d called her earlier on that I was on my way home. And though she got up immediately and started pleading with me that it was the devil, I did not bring myself to talk to her until very early in the morning of the next day.

She told me a friend in her office had given it to her to try out and it was her first time of using it. And that she would have told me about it but wanted to try it out first. She mentioned somebody’s name which she said I have never met and pleaded that she would return it and never use it again. She managed to convince me that it was an innocent one-off-thing which I did not need to bother myself about and I accepted.

But it was difficult for me to forget as I kept seeing the picture of her in that position in my head and wondering if it was right for a married, Christian woman to be doing such a thing. To me, it is something made by the Satan for his children.

Later that week, she told me she had returned it and things went back to normal between us but I was surprised to find the instrument again in her underwear drawer by accident. She was not at home, so I took it out and laid it on her side of the bed. As soon as she saw it, she went on her knees again and began to beg me.

She said she did not know how to return the thing since it was a gift and would not want to upset her colleague at the office, nor embarrass herself. She insisted she was not using it and was also scouting for whom she too can give it to.
Since I did not catch her using it, I had no choice but to let it go. However, I was not comfortable and began suspecting her. I later hatched a plan to catch her and before long, it worked. What I saw that evening was worse than the previous one and still haunts me till today.

I’d never seen my wife look that way before even when we are doing it. I was transfixed that I had to hide quietly behind the door way to allow her finish before I opened the door. Immediately my wife went on her knees, begging that it was the devil again.

I refused to talk to her and walked out of the apartment. I just walked round and round the neighbourhood because I felt lost and didn’t know where to go or who to talk to. I felt thoroughly betrayed. I had never looked at another woman in my life, before and even after I met her. I’d never looked at porn magazines or movie, not to talk of having a girlfriend, and worse still, owning a sex toy.

I could only manage to keep my anger for two days as she kept crying and asking for forgiveness, promising never to use it again. I could not bear to see her that way too, so, I insisted she had to tell me the truth.
She then told me that since the matter was no longer a secret, it was better she confessed everything to me. She said the vibrator was hers and she had been using it even before she became a born again Christian, as she was introduced to it while in Secondary school. (A girls only school) I don’t understand the logic, but she said it was a way to show that they did not need male company?

Were they Les'bians?
She insisted they were not. When she became “born again” in the university, she stopped, she said. This was where we met and started first as friends, then I got the message that she was my wife and we eventually got married two years after our service year. She said she was forced to go and buy another vibrator after a discussion with some ladies in her office about how much they enjoyed their sex life and she missed the fun she used to have. She also told me that she does not get satisfaction from what we do together but did not want to hurt my feelings by telling me and begged me to allow her to continue using the thing and that it will not affect what we have together, after all, I never would have guessed it, if I had not caught her using it.
My problem now is that, though I have not caught her again in almost two months, I am still not happy because I know she is doing it and its disgusting to me. Though she says it will not affect us, it is already affecting me because anytime I want to have sex with her, that picture comes to my mind and spoils my mood. I will have to just force myself because I have nowhere else to relieve myself.

My work schedule is very tight as I work in the bank and have to leave home very early in the morning and most times, don’t return home until around 10pm or even later. I am also taking some professional courses, so, that also takes away most of my weekends. But my wife is a teacher, so she has more than enough time on her hands to do all she wants before I return.
Before you ask what I have done to make our love life better, I have tried to do everything she tells me, and though she says she is now enjoying it, I am not convinced. I do not see that look on her face. And it is making me feel inadequate as a husband. We have been married for three years and we are yet to conceive a child and I sometimes wonder if this is her priority. I know what I am facing with my mother and family on that issue alone, not to now add this one to it.
Have I not bitten more than I can chew with this girl? My wife is unfaithful to me and I am powerless to do anything about it. Please, help me.

Source: Vanguard News

Girl leaks roommate’s pics AFTER Allegedly Stealing Her Boyfriend

Such an innocent looking girl. Many could have thought otherwise of her ability to do such thing. It will be very unfortunate and embarrassing for some nowadays’ young folks when they actually look back to see the footpath they left behind, especially when they grow older and are asked to account for how they have lavishly spent their youthful days.

The above pics is that of a university girl that snatched her roommate boyfriend, but my main concern is how on earth those nud.e photos got to her friend’s possession in the first place if they have not been snapping them and sending to sugar daddies and for some other stupid reasons.

Well, see for yourself the full photos below:

SEE PHOTO 1 HERE

SEE PHOTO 2 HERE

SEE PHOTO 3 HERE

AMAZING!!28 Reasons Girlfriends Are Actually the Best Boyfriends

1. They always have that thing that you need when you need it. Like Chapstick. Or a Tampon.

2. They're always willing to try something new with you. Like trapeze artistry at that new place by the pier, or whatever. Because looking like a big idiot doesn't stop your girlfriends from doing anything with you.

3. They'll bring you little presents just because. If your girlfriend saw a pen with cat ears on it and thought of you, you bet your shit she bought it for you and gave it to you at brunch. 

4. They'll keep your secrets when you need them to, but will also tactfully spread the word for you about breakups so you don't have to. Men only communicate via grunting, as we all know, which makes them ineffective transmitters of news about anything at all.

5. You can talk about cramps and they get it. And will not mock you for it when you do not have cramps. 

6. You can text entirely in emojis and they understand it all. A man using emojis is like a fish trying to use a pen. It's just impossible.

7. Their emoji-less texts are thorough. No one-sentence answers here! Girls text like they're writing books and it is GREAT.

8. You can be a total mess in front of them and they'll never judge you. Like that time you nonchalantly threw up on yourself in the back of a cab all over your fur vest with your crush sitting to your left and your BFF to your right, and she then helped you clean it up so said crush didn't notice. (Sidenote: he would also have to be as intoxicated to not notice, but whatever — your bestie is, well, the best.)

9. They have their shit together when you do not. It's a law of girlfriendship that when you're a mess, she is fine and ready to take care of you; when she is a mess, you are fine and ready to take care of her. 

10. They know how to make a plan when it comes to ladies' night. Guys, take notes because it drives girls UP THE WALL when you can't decide on a time or place to meet up. (If there was an emoji of a girl pulling her hair out, I'd insert it here.)

11. They're always down for a boozy brunch. Grapefruit ginger mimosas all around!

12. They love to go out and dance — and actually know how to do it. And they wear sparkly get-ups, so you're not the only fool fist-pumping in a sequin minidress.

13. They dress impeccably. Let's be honest, your favorite clothes porn is whatever your best friend has on. #OOTD

14. They take the best pictures with your smartphone. And they know that you need to tap the screen to make the camera focus first.

15. You don't have to think twice when you respond to their texts. Because they're not judging you (see no. 8) — or trying to date you, so you can just be you. 

16. They text you back right away. Unlike men who see multiples movies (or ACT like they're seeing multiple movies) before texting you back.

17. They rarely ever bail on plans. Because it's just not in their DNA.

20. You can watch a tear-jerker kind of movie and don't have to worry about silent crying the entire time. Because chances are your BFF is crying just as hard as you are.

21. They remember when you have an important meeting and call to give you a you-can-do-it pep talk beforehand. They also can't wait to hear how it went immediately after.

22. They'll give you the same endless advice about guys, work, etc., until you don't need their advice anymore about said issue. And they'll do it with a smile on their face no matter how many times you make the same mistakes.

23. They know exactly what to get you for your birthday without you having to leave hints (i.e. magazine clippings) around the house/apartment. You: "OMG, you got me a Paris necklace?!!! I love Paris." Her: "I know."

24. If you breakup with your real boyfriend, they don't ask questions and are at your place in seconds with wine, tissues, and Ben and Jerry's on hand ready to listen to every single detail. They already know your favorite wine and B&J flavor (Half Baked Frozen Yogurt). Oh, and that you like Puff's tissues with lotion because they don't make your nose red.

25. They're genuinely happy for you when you do finally find a significant other. Because even if they haven't found the man of their dreams yet, seeing you happy will not only make them happy, it will give them hope.

26. They don't make you watch sports. Instead, they make you watch shows you haven't had time to watch yet. You then become totally addicted to said show because your BFF has the same taste in life as you.

27. You can totally call them at 7:45 a.m. just to talk about whatever happened last night. And they pick up because they truly give a shit.

28. They like kale just as much as you. It's the new spinach, and if you can't get behind that then you can't sit with us.1. They always have that thing that you need when you need it. Like Chapstick. Or a Tampon.

10 Things Women Cannot Do Without Each Other..Absolutely

If a woman watches an award show without four friends and three bottles of white wine, did the award show even happen? These things just have to be done in sizable girl groups.

1. Use the bathroom at parties. And if it's one of those parties where you just HAVE to talk about the people there or is just really scary, you are absolutely dragging at least one of your friends into the bathroom with you and pulling the whole "turn around while I pee" move. (You think this will stop after the age of 23, but no, it doesn't.)

2. Walk to the water cooler at the office. It's so far away. It takes so much time to fill up your cup. The only upside to the whole process is that it gives you so much uninterrupted time to talk to Patsy about that girl who's driving you crazy and that ass hole Jared who's loud and worthless and why does no one see that but the two of you?!

3. Try new workout classes. There's so much to figure out. Where are the lockers? Do you need your own lock? Do they wear shoes? Why are some people wearing socks and some people aren't wearing anything on their feet at all?! It's just better to have someone you trust nearby to get you through all these scary questions.

4. Brunch. You can grab dinner alone, you can grab lunch alone, but you can never, ever brunch alone.

5. Award shows. If a woman watches an award show without four friends and three bottles of white wine, did the award show even happen? (Predominant anthropological opinion at the time of this writing is NO.)

6. Make expensive fashion purchases. If you're going to buy a new coat that costs $400, you are definitely not going to do it in a friend vacuum. You are going to grab the two ladies who enable 90 percent of your clothing purchases, drag them to the store, and then leave with the coat and a new pair of leather gloves. 

7. Trying the latest dessert fad. Cronuts, mini-cupcakes, hot chocolate that's so thick it makes a Pepperidge Farm Pirouette stand upright — these treats are the glue that invisibly yet inextricably binds X chromosomes around the nation.

8. Fro yo. Getting fro yo alone is like drinking alone. You could go there, but no one really wants that.

9. Make life-changing haircut decisions. Most often this happens in a mass text with rapid transmission of headshots of Jessica Alba. Somehow, your friends always unite on an answer.

10. Go to Vegas. Going to Vegas without your girls is like rolling in fish guts and jumping into an aquarium tank full of sharks. Bringing your ladies to that terrifying place is really about survival above all else,

The 4 Words Every Man Wants To Hear From A Woman

Back when you were in your teens or early 20s, you probably didn't date all that much.

In an environment like high school or college, you were surrounded by men and women who were single and young just like you were. When you found someone, 

you hung out and really got to know each other before you fell in love and chose to marry.

Fast forward to today, when one out of every four over-50 marriages is ending in divorce. Ladies, if you found yourself part of this generational statistic, when the judge banged the gavel declaring you officially divorced your friends probably told you what a great catch you are. They said that it wouldn't be long before a great relationship came along.

What they didn't tell you is how to attract, date and keep a man this time.

Whether you're new to dating, or you've been stuck in a major dating rut, here are five easy steps to get you out there and start having fun dating.

Step 1 -- Rediscover Your Mojo

You are only going to attract a man who loves you as much as you love yourself, so now's the time to find out what makes you so special.

Start by making a list of all the things you love about you. If you can't think of qualities you love, at least come up with things you are grateful for.

The best gift you can give yourself is to stop comparing yourself today to your 20 year old self. You'll never win if you do. Instead, learn to love everything about you as the awesome woman you are today.

Step 2 -- Learn How To Flirt

Whether you are meeting men online or in the real world, flirting is the best way to get a man's attention.

Online, you can flirt by favoring men. In real life, smile and make eye contact for at least five seconds. This lets a man know you're interested in him and it's safe to approach you.

Step 3 -- Have Three "Go To" Dating Outfits In Your Closet

You don't want to be scavenging through your closet with nothing to wear one hour before you're supposed to meet a man for a coffee date.

Sales are happening right now on winter clothes. That means it's the perfect time to find a couple of mix and match pieces that you can pull out of your closet at a moment's notice to make you feel great.

Choose soft colors or styles that bring out the feminine side of you that men so love.

Step 4 -- Date To Date

A man may not be your next mate, but he can be a great date.

Plus, he can make a great friend who might be perfect for that wedding or party you don't want to attend alone. Who doesn't want a Saturday night out where he buys the tickets and you pick up the popcorn?

Go on dates with men to meet someone new and interesting. At the same time, have fun enjoying male companionship while you're still out there looking for Mr. Right.

Step 5 -- Use The Four Magic Words Men Love To Hear

Did you ever wonder why men were stepping over themselves to help Scarlett O'Hara in Gone With The Wind?

Here's a hint...Scarlett knew how to make a man feel both important and needed. In turn, men wanted nothing more than to make her happy.

Men can do the same for you.

Women have a tendency to ask men for help the same they would ask another woman for help. Women are fine hearing it this way but men hear it as demanding.

If you want a man to make you happy, consider using these four magic words, "I need your help," then watch how this changes how the men in your life respond to you.

If you're like most women, you probably don't realize exactly how men think. What might sound like a total no-no to you as a modern woman is just what men want to hear the most.

Try using the four magic words today and let me know how it goes for you in the comments.