Why do most female secretaries sleep with their bosses??......find out here!!!

If a woman rubs a man on his chest, arms, back or neck on about 3 occasions there is a 98% chance that the woman is sexually interested in the man, even if its a married woman doing the rubbing, or the man is a married man receiving such rubbing from a single woman! but some men don't know this!

a woman who is being chased by a man that has money will make the man feel so special, that the man will think hes the only one who is having an affair with her. unknown to him that as soon as he leaves her she has another rich man coming for his own frolick
and this is how some women juggle 3 or more men at a time, all the while they will be milking them.

one of the rich men will buy her car, another will buy her house, another will buy her dresses, another will pay for airstrips, another will give cash for general spending etc

the men could range from an alhaji, to business man, to accountant, to medical doctor, to engineer, to soldier, to a chief and all the while they will be wondering if the money they gave her is enough to buy the nice dress they saw her wearing, or the nice food they are eating at her place unknown to them its one of the other men that bought her the dress, or gave her the money for the food!

So these woman are robbing peter to pay paul!

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN'T KEEP YOUR V!RGINITY FOR YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND

"Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be s3xually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship. As well as abstaining from s3xual thoughts, s3xual touching, pornography, and actions that are known to lead to s3xual arousal.”

At the age of 10, I took a pledge at my church alongside a group of other girls to remain a virgin until marriage. Yes, you read that right — I was 10 years old.

Let’s take a look at who I was as a 10-year-old: I was in fourth grade. I played with Barbie dolls and had tea parties with imaginary friends. I pretended I was a mermaid every time I took a bath. I still thought boys were icky and I had no idea I liked girls, too. I wouldn’t get my period for another four years. And most importantly, I didn’t have a clue about s3x.
The church taught me that s3x was for married people. Extramarital s3x was sinful and dirty and I would go to Hell if I did it. I learned that as a girl, I had a responsibility to my future husband to remain pure for him. It was entirely possible that my future husband wouldn’t remain pure for me, because he didn’t have that same responsibility, according to the Bible. And of course, because I was a Christian, I would forgive him for his past transgressions and fully give myself to him, body and soul.

Once I got married, it would be my duty to fulfill my husband’s s3xual needs. I was told over and over again, so many times I lost count, that if I remained pure, my marriage would be blessed by God and if I didn’t that it would fall apart and end in tragic divorce.

Story to be continued tomorrow

Men's secrets:5 SURE WAYS TO GET A WOMAN TO HAVE S*X WITH YOU!

1.Be Attentive
S*x is a journey, not a destination. It’s time to realize that the real goal of s*x is to satisfy the other person. Some younger guys haven’t yet figured one out; they see s*x as a way to pleasure themselves, as in, a selfish act. An older woman knows how to have an orgasm (plenty of 20-something women have never had one). If you learn to focus on satisfying your partner first, you’ll find that s*x will become a more fulfilling experience for both partners.

2.Be Honest
Once you jump into bed with an older woman, forget about trying to manipulate her with your disingenuous promises. Be upfront about who you are and what you want, including if you are looking for a relationship or just a hookup. She knows all the games guys play — she just wants honesty.

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3.Don’t Be An Assh*le
Kindness rules with older women. While some men seem to think nice guys finish last, you will not be successful with an older woman by acting like a prick. These women are done with bad boys, so be your most gentlemanly self.

4.Confidence
This is the one thing you can fake if you must. Confidence is especially important for an older woman. She wants someone who is sure of himself. Regardless of whether or not you feel completely secure, act the part. Say things that exude your confidence and walk into a room with your head held high.

5.Discretion
Older women expect the details of their s*xcapades to remain secret. They don’t feel the need to brag to their friends, so if you’re still acting like a frat boy, high-fiving your bros after each lay, she’ll pick up on your immature attitude toward s*x. She’ll move on to the next young stud who’s more responsive to her needs for discretion.

It should come as no surprise that older women come with a lot of wisdom. Many have spent some time alone, and they may prefer solidarity as an alternative to dealing with someone who doesn’t treat them with the utmost respect. By this point in their lives, they know both what they want and what they don’t.

8 Guaranteed Signs She Will Be Good In Bed!..For men!

1.She’s a good k!sser
It takes all kinds. If you like the way she k!sses you, then she’s good for you.

2.She’s a good dancer
Even if you’re not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of her horizontal skills.

3.She’s flexible
She could be a yoga instructor, a ballerina, a contortionist… basically, these allow for more possibilities in bed.

4.She gives seductive looks
Maybe she co'cks an eyebrow, or offers other fl!rtatious or coy looks. Hell, maybe she’s undressing you with her eyes. A woman’s regard is the most important indicator — of her intentions, her anticipation, and her confidence, which is directly related to her skill. Both the amount of eye contact she offers and the type are important.

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5.She enjoys tasting her food
You won’t always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or provide some other obvious or'al showcase. Still, whenever things are going in her mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest of s3xual metaphors. What does she do with this situation? Does she handle/cut up the food daintily? Does she put it in her mouth sensually? Animalistically? Absent-mindedly? Does she chew like a lady, or like a dog? Does she even seem aware of the messages she’s conveying, like it or not? If not, she may not be interested in you in a s3xual way.

6.She talks about s3x
She often makes s3xual references and discusses what she likes/does in bed. If she does it too much, however, she may be overcompensating, and could just be a tease. Does she seem to know what she’s talking about? The important thing is that she be open to talking about it, or better yet (because it’s more subtle), that s3xual innuendo not put her off.

7.She doesn’t talk too much
Loosely speaking, I’ve noticed a bit of an inverse correlation between chattiness and bedroom skills. That is, they might be more used to impressing with their words than their actions, or may even be consciously trying to compensate for one with the other. Quieter women, on the other hand, are often demons in the sack. They prefer to express themselves non-verbally… although they get vocal when you get them in the right spot. Put another way, if the woman won’t be quiet, do you want to deal with that during foreplay, or especially after run-of-the-mill s3x?

8.What she suggests as a date
This applies if you’ve taken down her number and then arrange a date with her. A woman who is not afraid to go to a bar where there’s dancing probably has more confidence, for example. Likewise for a woman who suggests something unconventional for a date. If she suggests something more platonic, like lunch, she’s deliberately taking it slow because she’s still uncomfortable — with you, with herself, or some combo thereof.

10 Ways To Tell That She is "Faking It"...

1. Notice how heavy she is breathing. org@sms are very intense, so it is nearly impossible for women to maintain their regular breathing patterns. If you are trying to figure out how to know if she’s faking it, keep in mind that natural breathing usually indicates that she hasn’t had an org@sm.

2. Pay attention to how many org@sms she has. Although multiple org@sms are possible, they aren’t all that likely. If you’re trying to learn how to know if she’s faking it, notice whether or not she has multiple org@sms every time and if so, know that it’s probably not real.

ALSO:Has My Woman Been “Faking It” In The Bedroom This Entire Time?!….Advice needed.

3. See how long it takes her to function regularly. This can be one of the easiest ways to learn how to know if she’s faking it. An org@sm can really drain a woman’s energy. If she gets out of bed and goes back to her daily life only moments later, she’s probably faking.

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4. Take note of how long her org@sm lasts. Since org@sms only last for a few seconds, she shouldn’t claim that hers last for minutes at a time. If you are trying to determine how to know if she’s faking it, remember that the length of her org@sm can tell a lot.

5. Consider whether she seems to be acting. If it feels like you’re having s3x with a p0'rn star, there’s a good chance she’s not being genuine. Unless she knows you love her to be loud when you have s3x, this can be one of the easiest ways to know if she’s faking it.

6. Notice if you feel any contractions. If you really are wondering how to know if she’s faking it, this is important to keep in mind. Any time a woman org@sms, you will feel her v@gina contracting, even if it’s not very strong.

7. Pay attention to her body temperature. One of the easiest ways how to know if she’s faking it is to see if she feels really warm afterwards. Also be sure to notice if her cheeks have a red, flushed appearance.

Has My Woman Been “Faking It” In The Bedroom This Entire Time?!....Advice needed.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard men say “If my woman was faking it, I’d know!”
Oh yeah, I’m sure you would.

As admirable as it is that men so confidently believe they know just how their women think & feel, or more importantly, that they definitely satisfy her in bed, the truth is women fake org@sms. Actually, about 99% will admit to at least faking it more than once, and for some, it’s all the time. And almost always, men can’t tell the difference.

Although women are a lot more vocal about their s3x lives now in the 21st Century, many women don’t feel comfortable telling a man how they like things done in bed, let alone admitting that he really isn’t doing it for her at all, because the truth is, women understand just how fragile the male ego really is. Men would like to believe that when they are making love to a woman, they’re giving her the best experience of her life, every single time or at least that they’ve satisfied her better than a previous partner ever could. And most are even convinced that they know the signs; one being how ‘dripping wet’ she becomes (which is hardly an indicator just to let you know!)

Knowing all this, how does one then begin to confess that they didn’t org@sm this time, or – for at least 10% of all women- never org@sm at all?
Wait, so do you mean to say some women never org@sm at all? Yes, that is exactly what I said. It’s called anorg@smia, the inability to reach org@sm either by any means or during certain s3xual situations, and believe me when I say, it’s actually quite normal.

At this point, you’re probably asking why would she fake it?
The reasons could be endless, but there are a few common reasons.
1.) She’s tired, and wants nothing more than for it to be over and you to get off her.
2.) She may feel guilty that she’s taking too long, so faking it will give you the signal that you no longer have to work on it.
3.) She wasn’t in the mood in the first place, but to avoid any arguments or unnecessary tension, she just decided to go along with it.
4.) She’s mad at you, maybe not mad enough to tell you, but just know she’s cussing you in her mind and smiling about how you are such an idiot you can’t tell the difference.
5.) You just don’t turn her own. Your beer gut and smelly breath makes her cringe everytime but maybe she loves you too much to hurt your feelings, or doesn’t love you at all and has her own ulterior motives, so she’ll pretend to enjoy it and end it with an Oscar-winning climax.

So where do we go from here?

You’ve just figured out your girlfriend or wife has probably been faking it this entire time, do you ask her about it? Do you beat yourself up for being the worst lover possible on the face of the planet? Do you now swear off women forever and move into a cave in the mountains?
The latter would probably be extremely difficult for most, but what you can do is your research to find out other ways you can stimulate your woman, or perhaps try asking her what she likes next time, if at the very least, she’ll know you care enough about her to put in the effort of helping her achieve a REAL one.

by Brenda K

VIDEO + PHOTOS: Cheating Nigerian Wife Caught In The Act and Forced To Have S3x With Her Boyfriend In Public [GRAPHIC JUNGLE JUSTICE]

See some of the barbaric act going on in Nigeria,

A cheating wife was caught in the act with her boyfriend by her husband and the people in the community took justice into their hands by forcing the cheating partners to have s3x in public while they watch.

The husband who couldn’t watch, walked away from the scene to throw away the properties of his cheating wife from his house. This jungle justice happened in the Eastern part of Nigeria.

Research!!Men who sleep with multiple women reduce their risk of pr0'strate cancer

Some men will like this ..A new research claims, men who sleep with multiple women are less likely to develop prostrate cancer.The Researchers found men who have more than 20 s3xual partners slashed their risk of pr0'state cancer by 28 per cent.And  men who have slept with more than 20 women reduced their chances of getting the most aggressive tumours by 19 per cent.

It further states that ,Cel!bacy doubles the risk of the disease.The rationale behind the findings is that regular intercourse may flush out cancer causing chemicals as the prostate secretes the bulk of the fluid in s3men.The study claims m@sturbation and having much s3x with one partner doesn't count ..

When asked if it meant health authorities would encourage men to sleep with many women in their lives to protect against pr0'state cancer, Professor Marie-Elise Parent replied:

'We are not there yet. 'It is possible that having many female sexual partners results in a higher frequency of ej@culations, whose protective effect against pr0'state cancer has

The research was published in the journal Cancer Epidemiology.

7 Types of Sex - Which One Is The Most Exciting?

There are plenty of "types" of s3x that turn people on. I've compiled a list, and I think it proves that tension is the ultimate spark that creates great/fun s3x:

1.Makeup s3x

Makeup s3x is the release of tension created by an argument. It appeals to humankind's masochistic side: the emotional pain of an argument, cured by the high of healing through great s3x.

I wonder if people start arguments with their significant other just to set up the possibility of makeup s3x. I'm so hard headed, and bent on winning, that once the arguing starts, I can't stop.

I'd probably still be thinking: "did I give in too easily," right in the middle of the s3x.

2.Random s3x

The one night stand/random encounter is much like eating McDonald's. While you're doing it, it feels amazing, but afterward you feel awful and guilty.

While a one night stand might pump up my ego, I bury myself in shame afterward, worrying about all the other consequences of the risk I took.

3.Risky s3x

People get a thrill from the possibility of being caught (perhaps in an airplane bathroom), or  having something go terribly wrong (like doing it on a roof, or somewhere dangerous).

I have enough to worry about during s3x, so I shouldn't set myself up to worry about more.

4.Spontaneous s3x

Spontaneous s3x is the "grab each other and go at it" style. Of course, this could happen anytime, anywhere, so you end up diving on to a kitchen table, for example, and going at it on a whim.

Movies set a high standard for spontaneous s3x. It's a hot idea, but I'm not sure I could make it as good as they do in the movies. I'm rarely hyper focused on attraction or s3x enough at random times to engage in grabbing her and going at it.

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5.Kinky s3x

From dressing in a mascot suit, to having people watch you, to threesomes, kinky s3x would be defined as anything outside the realm of normalcy. "Normalcy" is a relative term, varying from person to person, so it's complicated.

Personally, I would need to be extremely comfortable with someone to try certain things. Also, I'm way too lazy to get too kinky. The process of shopping for, and applying things (such as costumes or handcuffs) is way too much effort.

While I consider myself someone who likes to do outlandish things, I'm still struggling to get comfortable with s3x. If regular s3x is Algebra I, then kinky s3x is Trigonometry.

6.Forbidden s3x

For some reason, I think forbidden s3x is pretty hot. Perhaps it appeals to my desire to test the boundaries and do the wrong thing from time to time.

Cheating on someone or with someone, hooking up with your best friend's ex, a co-worker, or the person that your friends and/or family don't approve of would all be considered forbidden s3x. I've had a few scrapes with this, but I should stick to fantasizing. Forbidden s3x is forbidden because someone, somewhere, will be hurt.

7.Consistent Casual s3x

Casual s3x can be exciting because there are no strings attached and you can experiment because your comfort level grows with each encounter.

But I think casual s3x is impossible and unhealthy, because at some point someone will care, and most likely get hurt for caring.

Some of these types can overlap. For example, you could have Spontaneous Random Forbidden Kinky Risky s3x.

Almost all s3x is culmination in a way, whether there's a short or long period of tension-building. The right tension building and correct timing and release of this tension is all you need.

Many of these types of s3x might help in keeping a s3x life spicy in long term relationships. People are constantly looking for new ways to build tension as their relationships mature. Hopefully they avoid negative ways (cheating), and focus on cultivating this tension with their significant others.

What type of s3x turns you on the most? What are your thoughts on my list, and what would you add to the list? What role does tension play in good s3x for you?

6 Surprising Health Benefits of S3x!So have more s3x everyday!!!!

1. Helps Keep Your Immune System Humming

“s3xually active people take fewer sick days,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD a s3xual health expert.

People who have s3x have higher levels of what defends your body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that college students who had s3x once or twice a week had higher levels of the a certain antibody compared to students who had s3x less often.

You should still do all the other things that make your immune system happy, such as:

-Eat right.
-Stay active.
-Get enough sleep.
-Keep up with your vaccinations.
-Use a c0'ndom if you don’t know both of your STD statuses.

2. Boosts Your l!bido

Longing for a more lively s3x life? “Having s3x will make s3x better and will improve your l!bido,” says Lauren Streicher, MD. She is an assistant clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago.

For women, having s3x ups vaginal lubrication, blood flow, and elasticity, she says, all of which make s3x feel better and help you crave more of it.
3. Improves Women's Bladder Control

A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in their lives.

Good s3x is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them.

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4. Lowers Your Blood Pressure

Research suggests a link between s3x and lower blood pressure, says Joseph J. Pinzone, MD. He is CEO and medical director of Amai Wellness.

“There have been many studies,” he says. “One landmark study found that s3xual intercourse specifically (not m@sturbation) lowered systolic blood pressure.” That's the first number on your blood pressure test.
5. Counts as Exercise

“s3x is a really great form of exercise,” Pinzone says. It won’t replace the treadmill, but it counts for something.

s3x uses about five calories per minute, four more calories than watching TV. It gives you a one-two punch: It bumps up your heart rate and uses various muscles.

So get busy! You may even want to clear your schedule to make time for it on a regular basis.  “Like with exercise, consistency helps maximize the benefits,” Pinzone says.
6. Lowers Heart Attack Risk

A good s3x life is good for your heart. Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, s3x helps keep your es'trogen and t3stosterone levels in balance.

“When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease,” Pinzone says.

Having s3x more often may help. During one study, men who had s3x at least twice a week were half as likely to die of heart disease as men who had s3x rarely.

5 Craziest Places That Africans Have Séx ...

1.The bush, maize farm or coffee plantation
This specifically applies to people who live in ‘ocha’. Not all, but only a specific sample, especially the mean perverts who can’t get a room and the teenage high school folk who can’t control their surges of adolescence. People will persevere the pain of thorns, the toughness of stones and the itchy feeling that maize leaves give in order to enjoy the glory of séx.

These areas offer the much needed privacy but it’s surprising how people are willing to go through all the discomfort and brave the dangers of viscous animal attacks just for some few minutes of pleasure.

2.Washrooms.
The number of people who have been caught eating each other up by janitors or bouncers in clubs is as high as my followers on Twitter. As a result, these unlucky ‘thirsties’ have had to engage in endless negotiations or offer bribes. Some bouncers won’t even take bribes, despite the fact that they need extra tight t-shirts.

Once they catch you in the act, they see that as a golden opportunity to impress the boss. I know of a guy who was caught and imprisoned in the club washrooms by a bouncer until when the manager came. By the time he was allowed to go, it was 6 pm the next day.

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3.The car
Be it a taxi or just a private car in a parking lot, Kenyans have felt no shame doing it in automobiles. It doesn’t matter whether it’s in the squeezed space of a Toyata Votz or the spacious arena of a Probox, so long as nyege calls, things are going down. Some cars have even become worn out quickly not because they travel long distances but because of the wear and tear caused by frequent lungula.

4.The park
We all remember the infamopus Muliro Gardens story. Uhuru Park is also a popular ground for fornication. The pleasurable sin happens in hundreds of other parks all over the country. Do these people even enjoy it? One thing I know is that they constantly have to look over their shoulders because a mortal can pass by any minute. Why go through all the trouble?

5.The pool
Then there are those humans who find it adventurous to engage in cōituss inside a public pool. I have been a witness to this every time and despite not wanting to snitch, I have always wished that an imaginary shark would emerge and bite off the privates of such Kenyans.

There’s no problem having lungula in the pool if it’s just the two of you, but I have no respect for people who unleash their tools.

By Phillip Etemesi

This Is How A Well F**ked Woman Looks Like!!

Being well-f**ked means that you are connected to your se’xual energy. You’ve tapped into it and you are infusing it into every area of your life.

Even if you aren’t having se’x, you can be totally well-f**ked.

What does this look like?

1) You glow.

That well-f**ked quality that Gunter observed in me (or not) for years, that I now can read in a split second, will radiate from you. PEOPLE NOTICE.

A friend of mine has been focusing on revving up her se’xual energy for months now. She is diligently using the jade egg practice to wake up her vagina and reconnect to it as a source of power.

Men are stopping her on the street to talk to her. She can’t even fill her car up with gas without being asked out.

These men are acting on a visceral feeling. It’s blowing them over. She’s irresistible.

2) Your body, like the barometer it is, begins to reflect your self love.

A client of mine had been trying to lose weight for nearly two decades. She’d hired trainers, she was well-schooled in nutrition, but she couldn’t seem to lose that extra 20 pounds she’d carried around as a protective buffer for the past 18 years. After applying these ideas of connecting to her sexual energy, even as a single woman, she began to notice a change. In her words:

“The weight is just falling off me. I’ve lost 20 pounds in two months without even thinking about it. Instead, I feel fed by a love and a connection that goes beyond human existence.

My insecurity and a feeling of missing something were what used to cause me to overeat.

Now, I feel a completeness. I’m tapping into God-source.

It’s as though the feelings of love and connection I experience now are energetically sculpting my body, without any conscious ‘dieting’ effort.”

Well said.

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3) You get rich.

The money comes pouring in. I talk a lot about the connection between se’x and money. It’s profound.

If you are se’xually blocked, you will be financially blocked. Period. Fire your business coach and start f**king instead. (Kidding. Your business coach can stay on if you start f**king too).

4) You get happy.

I read the shi’ttiest article ever last month in, uh, Vogue magazine. I was in the checkout line at Whole Foods, and the headline on the cover caught my eye: “Good Mood or Good Sex: Do Women Have to Choose?”

Curious, (anything with “sex” in it will draw me in) I bought the magazine and read the article.

In it, the author tackles a conundrum that she claims many women face: If they go on anti-depressants, they’ll lose their libi’dos.

The way she describes the women in the article is as though they take antidepressants like others throw back vitamins. “I don’t feel so good. I must need antidepressants!”

She goes on at great length about how so many women feel so bad. They go on antidepressants. Then they feel numb. And have no desire for se;x.

HEY! LISTEN UP!! I HAVE A SOLUTION FOR YOU!

You can kill two birds with one org@sm.

If you have rev up your sexual energy, if you learn how to channel it into your life, whether single or married, your depression will lift.

Have more se’x—gourmet sex. With yourself or with a partner.

If these women in the article (and millions of others) were well-f**ked they wouldn’t need the antidepressants in the first place.

The Best S3x Positions For G' Sp0t Org@sms !!(a must watch video for every man)

Every man's desire is to give his woman a night she will hardly forget.Below is a video that will make that dream come true....

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S3x Talk Realness: C!rcumcised P3nises vs. Unc!rcumcised P3nises?????

To cut, or not to cut? Although c!rcumcision rates are declining in America, for3skin is still a hotly debated issue. Cosmopolitan.com spoke to three American women and two American men on the merits and pitfalls of s3x with c!rcumcised versus unc!rcumcised p3nises.

How old are you?
Woman A: Twenty-seven.
Woman B: Thirty-four.
Woman C: Twenty-nine.
Man A: Twenty-two.
Man B: Thirty-one.

Have you ever slept with a guy who has an unc!rcumcised p3nis?
Woman A: Yes. Three, actually. And dated two of them for a few months.
Woman B: Yes.
Woman C: Yes.
Man A: Once, yes. It was a surprise.
Man B: No.

Have you ever slept with a guy who has a c!rcumcised p3nis?
Woman A: Yes, the majority do.
Woman B: Yes.
Woman C: Yes.
Man A: Yes.
Man B: No.

Do you have a preference between the two?
Woman A: For sheer aesthetic purposes, c!rcumcised. It is not a deal-breaker at all if they're not, because it doesn't feel different, but it is definitely more aesthetically pleasing to have them be c!rcumcised. It's also something my girlfriends and I talk about, and there is always a negative stigma associated with non-c!rcumcised guys. The weird thing is, it's very comparable to the female v@gina, but yet I have never heard of that comparison.
Woman B: I do not have a preference when it comes to regular intercourse but I prefer c!rcumcised when performing oral s3x.
Woman C: I much, much prefer an intact [unc!rcumcised] man! s3x feels better. The natural p3nis isn't dried out looking like c!rcumcised p3nises and the for3skin is useful! Did I mention it feels really, really good?
Man A: I wouldn't say I have a preference. It really is a nonissue for me as long as it works.

Do you find there is a difference in sensation during intercourse?
Woman A: Honestly, I think that if a guy is unc!rcumcised, it feels better because there is more friction, as weird as that sounds.
Woman B: I feel like there is a little something extra when a man is not c!rcumcised. It's almost like being "ribbed for her pleasure." I don't think it necessarily makes it better than a c!rcumcised man, but it is a little different. I also think the after-s3x rituals are different. Usually, when a guy is not c!rcumcised, he has to get up and clean off sooner.
Woman C: Yes! I have a decent sample size of both intact and c!rcumcised men, and while I have had c!rcumcised men be able to get me off from v@ginal intercourse alone, it's only been after plenty of getting to know each other s3xually. The unc!rcumcised men have been the only ones who I orgasm from v@ginal intercourse alone easily, even during casual encounters. The gliding sensation from the for3skin just does it for me.
Man A: I never noticed any difference.

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Is there a difference in taste during o'ral s3x?
Woman A: Taste, I would say no, but they have to have good hygiene. I think being unc!rcumcised leaves much more room for smells and tastes to become apparent, because they have to clean deeper than most guys do. I feel like I am pretty adamant about a pre-o'ral shower, just to be safe.
Woman B: Yes! There is a huge difference in taste. I usually will not give oral s3x to a guy who is unc!rcumcised. Sometimes there is a weird smell and a weird taste.
Woman C: Not that I've noticed. Bodies have scents, c!rcumcised or not, and it's not hard to get a guy to rub his dick in the shower.
Man A: I also never noticed a distinct difference with this. If there is a strong taste for anything, I'm hoping it would just be soap.

What about during other s3xual acts?
Woman A: I think that it can be weird for girls to experience a flaccid unc!rcumcised p3nis, because it looks like a rocket ship and we don't grow up seeing images of unc!rcumcised p3nises in pop culture. It's kind of like, "What do I do with this?"
Woman B: I think it is more fun to give a guy a hand job if he is unc!rcumcised because you can use the skin to please him more by applying different amounts of pressure when moving up and down.
Woman C: Ha'nd jobs are much easier and more enjoyable to give when a guy has his for3skin. I don't have to keep spitting on my hand to keep things lubricated and blow jobs are more fun when I have for3skin to play with too.
Man A: Giving a ha'nd job to a man with an unc!rcumcised p3nis is different, but definitely not a negative experience. As a c!rcumcised man, there is just a different "look" to what is happening.

Does it matter to you if a guy you're sleeping with is c!rcumcised or not? Why/why not?
Woman A: I've debated this in my head before and at 21 years old, I would have said, "Yes, it's too weird, non-hygienic, ugly, and I don't like it." But now, at 27 and having really liked the guys I've been with who have not been c!rcumcised, my answer is no, because it's not something they had any control over as a child, and it's really not bad once you get used to it and know how to work with it.
Woman B: It doesn't matter to me. I have enjoyed s3x with both types. As long as the s3x is great, I do not care. The only time I have a preference is if I want to perform oral s3x.
Woman C: I wouldn't not sleep with a guy strictly because he is c!rcumcised since he likely didn't get a say in the matter, but I really, really, really prefer unc!rcumcised men. I mean, why would I prefer a man missing a significant part of his p3nis?
Man A: No, not at all. I'm not going to complain too much about size or shape as long as things work in a way that pleases us both.

Guys, are you c!rcumcised?
Man A: Yes.
Man B: Yes.

Do you ever wish you were/weren't? And has that opinion changed over the years?
Man A: I have never thought too much about the possibility. I feel like most guys are c!rcumcised so I guess I just feel like I was "normal."
Man B: I wish I wasn't — mostly because I've learned that unc!rcumcised men experience more pleasure. It took me until my mid-20s to learn about this, and I felt cheated out of a natural and beautiful part of my body by a decision that was never given to me.

Do you talk about it with your partners?
Man A: No, it's never been a question posed to me or from me.
Man B: Nope, there's never been any reason to.
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Have you ever experienced any judgment from s3xual partners for being c!rcumcised/unc!rcumcised? What happened?
Man A: Not at all.
Man B: Never any judgment. I honestly didn't think about it much until my mid-20s and because I can't change it, what's the point of talking about it?

What are the pros and cons, in your experience, of being c!rcumcised/unc!rcumcised?
Man A: I would say the benefit of being c!rcumcised is that it's not a surprise. I assume the guys that I will be sleeping with are, and I'm thinking that they probably assume the same thing of me. But I don't want that to seem like I'm insulting unc!rcumcised guys. I'm a pretty laid-back guy. Whatever you have in your pants is probably a nonissue.
Man B: Pros: I think it looks better to be c!rcumcised. Cons: s3x is less pleasurable, for both men and women, and the organ itself is more sensitive than it ought to be. I remember reading somewhere that there are about 12 square inches of skin removed in circumcision. Also, there is probably buried body trauma of the event itself that still affects me in s3x although I don't consciously remember it.

If you had a son, would you get him c!rcumcised?
Woman A: Definitely. For all the things I mentioned above, there are far more negative circumstances he would encounter than positive in having an unc!rcumcised p3nis. Unless I heard some very good reasons why having an unc!rcumcised p3nis was necessary, I don't think there is a reason not to just snip it at birth.
Woman B: I think I would have him c!rcumcised for sanitary reasons. I just feel like it is more hygienic for a baby to be c!rcumcised. I mean, the poor little things sit in diapers all day for, like, a year.
Woman C: Absolutely not! Nature knows best. The for3skin is there for a reason and all the justifications people use to defend circumcision are B.S. Women have plenty of nooks and crannies we manage to keep clean without having bits cut off. We get UTIs sometimes, and antibiotics, not c!rcumcision, are the answer. C0'ndoms prevent STIs and you get to keep your whole p3nis. If my son really wanted to get c!rcumcised later in life, fine. That's his decision to make about his own body. I'm not about to deprive him a normally functioning p3nis. It's unethical and barbaric!
Man A: I haven't ever thought of this, but I probably would. As a c!rcumcised guy with a c!rcumcised boyfriend, it's something that we would both probably just agree to. I would think that doctors would recommend it, so it would happen shortly after birth. Thinking as a gay couple: If we were to adopt a son that were older than a newborn, I don't think we would circumcise the child.
Man B: No; I feel that should be his decision. (I know, what mature man in his right mind would decide to get part of his p3nis cut off, right?)

8 Ways to Get What You Want in Bed.........

1. Handle yourself the way you want him to. He's not picking up on your cues? Just start touching yourself the way you'd like him to touch you. He'll get the idea, hopefully.

2. Touch him the way you want to be touched. It's like the golden rule of s3x. Pull his hair so he knows you want him to pull yours, and so on.

3. Tell him what you don't like. There is a way to do this casually! Simply say something like, "I don't like that, but I do like this" and move his hand there. Ideally, he wants to do a good job anyway, so he'll appreciate it.

4. Act like he's never done this before. Yes, ideally he would know exactly what you want and what to do immediately, but that's usually not the case. There's nothing wrong with guiding him like he's never done this because he doesn't know what works with you yet, so it's still foreign territory.

5. Give plenty of encouragement, but only when what he's doing is working! If you are moaning at every single thing he does and every single thing he does isn't working for you, he thinks he's killing it when he's totally not. So save your "Oh yeah!" comments for when it's actually working for you. Because then he'll take note of that and hopefully do less of what wasn't working.

6. Make it sound like you just thought of an idea. "You know what would be really hot? If you went down on me while you played with my nipples." Like that had never before occurred to you and only now are you seeing its possible merits!

7. Straight-up tell him in detail what you want him to do. "OK, do you have a pen? If not, that's OK because I have provided a handout. Starting on page one ..."

8. Never fake it. If you don't tell him he's not the greatest at this, he'll leave the situation thinking he is great at this, and then future women will wonder why the hell this guy thinks he's so good at this. Help him through it for the good of everyone.

5 Things You Should Stop Saying In Bed.......

1. “Was It Really Good For You Today?”

This quote can get nipped in the bud right now. If you have to ask the question, “Was that good for you?” — all signs point to that answer not being too good, Well, in bed – if it was good for her – she’ll most likely be screaming and moving spastically as well, so you won’t need to ask, either.

2. “Have Never Done This”

This one is kind of vague, but can only really allude to two things:

As in sleep with a girl on the first night, which means – in the most respectful way possible – that you simply lack that next-level caliber of game. Or “You never do this,” as in you’ve never slept with a girl, which means you’re a virgin. For the lady you’re with, I feel like hearing that probably feels like paying for sushi and learning after you ate it that the guy was watching a YouTube tutorial called, “So it’s your first time rolling sushi, huh?” behind the bar.

3. No One Should Know About This.

Don’t have sex if you can’t deal with the girl geotagging her Instagram from last night with your apartment building.” It’s the same premise.

4. This Won’t Happen Again.

If this “can’t happen again” because you have a girlfriend – keep it to yourself.

If this “can’t happen again” because, I don’t know, it was terrible – just keep that to yourself, too. Whatever the reason, there’s zero rationale to vocalize how “it can never happen again.” Just don’t do it again. You know?

5. That Was The Best Have Ever Had

If the sex was legitimately the best you’ve ever had, and you’ve rated each sexual encounter you’ve ever had and cross compared them all – then, maybe, and I mean maybe, you could freely drop this line in bed. Otherwise, I don’t respect the overrating.

4 Reasons Why You Should Always Have Sex On A First Date......

1. Sex Compatibility.

From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!

2. To Know Pen*s Size.

I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his penis. Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his penis – and the sooner, the better.

3. Reduces Anxiety.

When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a climax? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.

4. Time Investment

We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.

Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his penis in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.

How To Delay Ej@culation To Last Longer In Bed.......14 useful steps!

Learn to delay ej@culation and last longer in bed by trying these simple tips to delay and prolong ej@culation. This will enable you and your partner to enjoy a healthy s*x life.

1.k3gel exercises – k3gel exercises can help you prolong ej@culation. k3gels are those muscles that you use for controlling urination. So, flex these muscles about 30 times a day to delay ej@culation.

2.Squeeze technique – Prolong ej@culation and delay it by holding the tip of the head of the man-hood. Squeezing the tip of the man-hood can help control pr'emature ej@culation.

3.T3stes – The scr0'tum rises as a man reaches cl!max and is on the verge of ej@culation. So, delay ej@culation by pulling the scrotum away from the body.

4.Change focus – Rather than concentrating on ej@culation, concentrate on your partner’s pleasure.

5.Combination of thr#sts - Delay ej@culation or male cl!max by combining shallow thr#sts with deep thr#sts. This technique helps prolong ej@culation and will make you last longer in bed.

6.Massage the pr0'state gland – When you practice delaying ej@culation, the pr0'state gland turns sore. Hence it is important to massage the gland to prevent any kind of pain.

7.Per!neum pressure - Delay ej@culation by applying pressure to the perineum, which is the spot between the anus and scrotum. The prostate gland expands and contracts while reaching cl!max or ej@culation. So, by applying pressure on this spot, one can prolong ej@culation.

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8.P3lvic muscles – Squeeze the pubococcygeous muscle to stop ejaculating. Contract these muscles, which are used for controlling urine; doing so regularly helps you delay ej@culation.

9.Blueberries – This berry is known to delay ej@culation, as it relaxes the nerves in the man-hood.

10.Woman-on-top – This s*x position reduces your chances of premature ej@culation, thereby helping you last longer in bed. Switch to the woman-on-top s*x position to delay ej@culation.

11.Start and stop – When you have the urge to release, stop, pull out and then thrust again. Also, the start and stop method helps a couple to last longer in bed and enjoy the full s*xual experience.

12.self service – self service can help you prolong s*x, so delay ej@culation by self servicing at least an hour before intercourse.

13.Control your cl!max – Without any lubrication self service to the point of cl!max and stop. Do it a couple of times and then release; over a period of time you can control ej@culation.

14.Before engaging in intercourse, engage in for3play – ask your partner to gently massage the man-hood along with lubrication. In time this method can help you prolong ej@culation.

5 Signs you are a serial dater....

1. Say yes to all: Are you the kinds who would say yes to any random person who asks you out on a date, without finding it important to get to know the person better. This might be a sign that you're a serial dater and don't mind just going out as far as you get free food and a lot of attention.

2. You love the rush while dating: Dating is a game for you. You're always on the lookout for someone to go out with and once it's over, you refrain from the brooding sessions because you're busy looking out for someone else to fill the void. This is a pattern. You keep dating without letting go of the previous relationship or giving yourself the time to get to know someone? Well, you are clearly a serial dater.

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3. You want the moolah: Is the focus of any relationship just the money? In that case, you are a serial dater who would date anyone who has the money enough to satisfy your materialistic wants.

4. No connection whatsoever: You are a serial dater if you don't feel it's important to have a connection with the person you're on a date. You are of the thought that it's okay not to invest the time to get to know your date enough.

5. On the hunt for 'The one': If you're constantly looking out to be with Mr/Ms Right, someone who could give you all the attention in the world, chances are you are a serial dater.

The rules of saving a s3x-starved marriage...

ACKNOWLEDGE THE PROBLEM

s3xual libidos differ and it is estimated that one out of three couples struggles with problems associated with low s3xual desire. Berman says the most common s3xual complaint in committed relationships is uneven desire. Couples need to know that it's essential to compromise and agree to a middle ground. "And though it's tough to deal with advances being rebuffed repeatedly, remind yourself that the rejection may not just be about you," says Ashima Sinha, consulting psychologist.

TIME THE TALK

In Talking to Your Partner About s3x, Berman writes that couples should start the conversation "outside the bedroom" when they "aren't feeling tense".

Marriage therapist Corey Allan makes another suggestion in How To Talk About s3x With Your Spouse: "Don't talk about needs and desires during or right after s3x."

BREAK THE ICE

Therapists believe the best place to discuss s3x is out of the bedroom — it could be while having coffee at the neighbourhood cafe or while having dinner. Experts recommend opening with a gentle one-liner like, "I love you, and I'd like to feel more connected to you." Agree to keep the conversation short and try not to monopolise it. If you feel uncomfortable, initiate it over the phone but do move to face-to-face eventually.

COMMUNICATE BETTER

Dr Stanley Ducharme, a Bostonbased s3x therapist, suggests that couples be clear, open and honest. "Express your needs from a personal perspective. Pay close attention to verbal and nonverbal responses, take your partner's feelings into consideration, and be open to any questions," he writes on his blog. Verbalising what you are feeling in bed could help too.

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TUNE IN TO EACH OTHER

Men are from Mars and women are from Venus, but they must survive on Earth. "Women must understand that men achieve a sense of emotional closeness and romantic connection through the physical act of s3x. So, the more s3xually connected and available you are, the more emotionally tuned in he will be. And men must understand that women typically achieve a sense of emotional closeness through romance, talking, kissing, cuddling...without it always being a preamble to s3x. When she feels emotionally close, she is significantly more inspired to want s3xual contact," Berman says.

DON'T KEEP COUNT

Stop keeping score. Remember that s3x does not mean only intercourse. Other activities, be it oral s3x or touching, and affectionate behaviour such as kissing, cuddling and caressing are also associated with higher s3xual satisfaction for both, men and women. "Work on compromises that can lead to a more satisfying s3x life — longer foreplay, more affectionate behaviour or a weekly dinner date," Sinha says.

DITCH THE BLAME GAME

Don't accuse. It makes your partner feel inadequate, and slip into defensive mode. Use "I", not "you". So say, "I feel insecure when we don't have s3x" rather than "You don't seem to be interested in me". Focus on what can be done to improve things.

MAKE THINGS FUN

It may be a serious issue, but that's no reason to be stern. Keep things enjoyable and entertaining. "Share fantasies, discuss new positions or explore porn together," Sinha advises.

GIVE IT TIME

Rome wasn't built in a day. So give your partner time to think and respond. Don't mind read and never assume that you know it all. Remember that this may take more than one conversation — don't try to 'solve' it immediately.

MOVE AHEAD

Therapists suggest that talks need to be followed up with a plan, much like at work. Act on your promises.