LADIES!!!! can you do this? This is a touching story about the experience of this innocent LAdY

“When I met my boyfriend, he showed me love and gave me all the attention that my parents never gave me. That is why I fell for him. My goal was to become a nun but my plans were shuttered when I learnt that I was pregnant in March 2012. I was later forced to get married to the man whom I barely knew.

 

I learnt of my HIV status when I took my ailing child to clinic. In my mind I thought that everything was okay because this is the only man whom I have ever had an intimate relationship with only for things to change at the clinic. The revelation of being positive coupled with the eventual death of my child sunk me into depression.

 

I lost focus in life and just hoped that I would die because my husband with whom am now separated with also started abusing me physically. Despite all this I forgave my husband and I have learnt to live with my current status.

Ladies….. Can you do this?

10 TYPES OF WOMEN MEN SHOULD NEVER DATE AS POSTED ON talk afrique.COM- A SELF REFLECTION MOMENT!

So I came across this post perusing blogs. I thought this post talk afrique.com was interesting. As I am engrossed in the dating life….I wonder if I fall into anyone of these categories. I thought it was great and an eye-opening article that reminds me of what I do not want to be. I believe one should always self-reflect and if you have certain behavioral tendencies where you are boxed in any of these categories….maybe we should adjust our behavior. It is never too late to modify..so you won’t scare off the next wonderful gent who is curious in getting to know you.

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Basically the post asks the guys if they ever wonder why the women they date always turn out to be annoying or weird and that they are possibly choosing the wrong women. So I am sharing this for my fellow ladies and gents. Enjoy and Self Reflect!
1. The Chatterbox

This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.
2. The Desperate Chick

This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

7. The Baby’s Mama
This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

8. The Gold Digger
The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

9. The Club Girl
Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

10. The Feminist
This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.

Boy shows his father photos of his mother in bed with another man

A boy was furious when he discovered that his mother was having an affair with another man.

The boy of Zimbabwe, allegedly found nude photos of his mother with another man on her cell phone.

The boy then showed the photos to his father, Dumisani Ndebele. After seeing the photos, Ndebele became furious, saying that his wife had refused him s3x for almost a year.

The man attacked his wife at their home in Pumula Bulawayo. He bit her on the cheeks and ripped a piece of her cheek out after he discovered the series of nude photos of her with another man having s3x.

Keziya Ndebele denied the allegations that she was cheating on her husband. Instead, she said that her husband went crazy after he was served with divorce papers to end their 18 year marriage.

The woman, who appeared in front of judge Marylene Mtshina with bandages on her face, was granted an order of protection against her husband.

4 signs your lover is checking out of the relationship

Here are five signs that your relationship isn’t working:

You Are Cheated on

This is something that many men and women continue to tolerate even though it’s one of the most hurtful and disrespectful things that someone can do to them. People choose to turn their backs on the situation or they simply decide to stay in the relationship even though it’s pretty obvious that it’s not a loving and devoted one on both sides.

Friends Always Come Before You

Friends are great for everyone to have and it’s healthy to balance a relationship with friendships and merge them together. But if your partner is constantly blowing off spending time with you in favor of spending time with friends, this is not a healthy sign of a good relationship.

Disrespect

If you are put down more often than built up, especially in front of others, this shows blatant disrespect for you. Teasing in moderation is always fun, and a good way to teach you to laugh at yourself. But when it becomes insulting, it’s not fun and it becomes hurtful.
Lack of Intimacy

Your partner refuses to get intimate with you, despite the fact that they previously had trouble keeping their hands off you! This is a true sign that something is wrong somewhere between the two of you.

Physical Abuse

If this is happening to you, it’s time for you to move on. Nothing is worse than this because you can become severely damaged or worse when you’re physically abused. Don’t ever stay – it’s wrong and dangerous.

These are just some of the signs to be on the lookout for if you aren’t sure whether or not your relationship is working or not. And unless you decide to stand up for yourself, it probably won’t continue to work, and you’ll never be as happy as you could be.

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