Guys Only: 10 Types Of Women You Should Never Date

This is exclusively for the guys.Have you ever wondered why the women you date always turn out to be annoying or weird in some way? Have you ever thought that perhaps you have been choosing the wrong type of women? Below is a list of ten different types of women you should avoid, according to an article I just came across. Read carefully and see if you can learn one or two things.

See the List below;

1. The Chatterbox–This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

 

2. The Desperate babe-This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal, watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

 

 

 

3. The Overly-Critical Woman

Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

 

4. The Bimbo

This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

 

5. The High Maintenance Chick

If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

 

 

   

6. The Clingy Girl

This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

 

7. The Baby’s Mama

This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

 

8. The Gold Digger

The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

 

9. The Club Girl

Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

 

10. The Feminist

This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do will always be negative to her.

How can i get myself a husband now that I’m 33?

Guys I need your help seriously..

Sorry i can’t reveal my name right now so i have to go straight to the point..

I have lived a very unholy life as a runs girl at my early 20s till now but unfortunately for me i never knew am destroying my own future, my mates and friends has been married for like 6-7 years now but no man has ever knocked on my parents door to ask my hand in marriage. Lately i thought maybe somebody is trying to tire me down but i found out that my evil deeds in the past have caught up with me, my advice for the young ladies out there who flirts around with people’s husband in the name of “Shuga Daddy” is stay away because God is watching you..

Please guys help me out, am a changed person now and its for good, i want to settle down and have my own happy family. I don’t want to be a home wrecker anymore… My problem now is to get a husband of my own and stay happy, how can i achieve that?

Help! I Caught My Wife Cheating On Me With A Vib'rator On Our Matrimonial Bed

I have a very serious problem which has started affecting me psychologically and even my performance at my job.
I have tried to work things out with my wife but it has not yielded any positive result as I am not convinced about the situation. I feel too ashamed to discuss the problem with my pastor and even worse with my mother because I know that will only escalate things. Trust me, I know my mother and mothers generally. As for my friends, I am afraid they might turn around to use it against us and make me the butt of their jokes

My problem started last December, over the festive period to be precise. I caught my wife on our matrimonial bed having se'x with a vib'rator. I almost collapsed because I was shocked beyond what words can describe. I found myself shaking from head to toe, unable to even say anything. I felt so disgusted and sick that I had to rush to the bathroom to splash water over my face to avoid vomiting.

She must have been so engrossed in what she was doing that she did not even know when I entered our apartment and walked into the room to find her in that position. It was my movement that brought her back to reality. What I found most disturbing at that moment was why she could not wait for me if she was so in need of sex, since I’d called her earlier on that I was on my way home. And though she got up immediately and started pleading with me that it was the devil, I did not bring myself to talk to her until very early in the morning of the next day.

She told me a friend in her office had given it to her to try out and it was her first time of using it. And that she would have told me about it but wanted to try it out first. She mentioned somebody’s name which she said I have never met and pleaded that she would return it and never use it again. She managed to convince me that it was an innocent one-off-thing which I did not need to bother myself about and I accepted.

But it was difficult for me to forget as I kept seeing the picture of her in that position in my head and wondering if it was right for a married, Christian woman to be doing such a thing. To me, it is something made by the Satan for his children.

Later that week, she told me she had returned it and things went back to normal between us but I was surprised to find the instrument again in her underwear drawer by accident. She was not at home, so I took it out and laid it on her side of the bed. As soon as she saw it, she went on her knees again and began to beg me.

She said she did not know how to return the thing since it was a gift and would not want to upset her colleague at the office, nor embarrass herself. She insisted she was not using it and was also scouting for whom she too can give it to.
Since I did not catch her using it, I had no choice but to let it go. However, I was not comfortable and began suspecting her. I later hatched a plan to catch her and before long, it worked. What I saw that evening was worse than the previous one and still haunts me till today.

I’d never seen my wife look that way before even when we are doing it. I was transfixed that I had to hide quietly behind the door way to allow her finish before I opened the door. Immediately my wife went on her knees, begging that it was the devil again.

I refused to talk to her and walked out of the apartment. I just walked round and round the neighbourhood because I felt lost and didn’t know where to go or who to talk to. I felt thoroughly betrayed. I had never looked at another woman in my life, before and even after I met her. I’d never looked at porn magazines or movie, not to talk of having a girlfriend, and worse still, owning a sex toy.

I could only manage to keep my anger for two days as she kept crying and asking for forgiveness, promising never to use it again. I could not bear to see her that way too, so, I insisted she had to tell me the truth.
She then told me that since the matter was no longer a secret, it was better she confessed everything to me. She said the vibrator was hers and she had been using it even before she became a born again Christian, as she was introduced to it while in Secondary school. (A girls only school) I don’t understand the logic, but she said it was a way to show that they did not need male company?

Were they Les'bians?
She insisted they were not. When she became “born again” in the university, she stopped, she said. This was where we met and started first as friends, then I got the message that she was my wife and we eventually got married two years after our service year. She said she was forced to go and buy another vibrator after a discussion with some ladies in her office about how much they enjoyed their sex life and she missed the fun she used to have. She also told me that she does not get satisfaction from what we do together but did not want to hurt my feelings by telling me and begged me to allow her to continue using the thing and that it will not affect what we have together, after all, I never would have guessed it, if I had not caught her using it.
My problem now is that, though I have not caught her again in almost two months, I am still not happy because I know she is doing it and its disgusting to me. Though she says it will not affect us, it is already affecting me because anytime I want to have sex with her, that picture comes to my mind and spoils my mood. I will have to just force myself because I have nowhere else to relieve myself.

My work schedule is very tight as I work in the bank and have to leave home very early in the morning and most times, don’t return home until around 10pm or even later. I am also taking some professional courses, so, that also takes away most of my weekends. But my wife is a teacher, so she has more than enough time on her hands to do all she wants before I return.
Before you ask what I have done to make our love life better, I have tried to do everything she tells me, and though she says she is now enjoying it, I am not convinced. I do not see that look on her face. And it is making me feel inadequate as a husband. We have been married for three years and we are yet to conceive a child and I sometimes wonder if this is her priority. I know what I am facing with my mother and family on that issue alone, not to now add this one to it.
Have I not bitten more than I can chew with this girl? My wife is unfaithful to me and I am powerless to do anything about it. Please, help me.

Source: Vanguard News

Girl leaks roommate’s pics AFTER Allegedly Stealing Her Boyfriend

Such an innocent looking girl. Many could have thought otherwise of her ability to do such thing. It will be very unfortunate and embarrassing for some nowadays’ young folks when they actually look back to see the footpath they left behind, especially when they grow older and are asked to account for how they have lavishly spent their youthful days.

The above pics is that of a university girl that snatched her roommate boyfriend, but my main concern is how on earth those nud.e photos got to her friend’s possession in the first place if they have not been snapping them and sending to sugar daddies and for some other stupid reasons.

Well, see for yourself the full photos below:

SEE PHOTO 1 HERE

SEE PHOTO 2 HERE

SEE PHOTO 3 HERE

‘I Will Make A Good Wife’ – Actress Halima Abubakar Cries Out

Nollywood actress and United Nations Ambassador for Peace, Halima Abubakar, has disclosed that if there is anything she values most about herself, it is her womanhood.

According to the actress, regardless of things that have been written just to soil her image, she feels her 13 years in the make-believe world have really made her grown and helped her in learning a whole lot.

Halima added that being a great woman is not easy and as such, any man she will get married to, will definitely enjoy her as a wife. She appreciated both friends and haters who have decided to tarnish her image by saying and writing all sort of things to continue as they are helping her to be more mature and hard working.

The ambassador noted that whatever has been written about her is not an issue to her because as far as her womanhood is concern, she is not a sharer and will never trade it for anything.

Photos: Cossy Orjiakor goes t0pless in support of Super Eagles

Well if you think those b0'obs are not real, then you are on a long thing. Lol! She flaunted like there’s no tomorrow!! Lol!!! Go Cossy! Very patriotic citizen…:-). Now let’s zoom in and see if we can catch a glimpse of that n1p nobody ever sees…:-)…follow me…

“Going Nu.de In Movies Is An Art” – Actress Queen Nwokoye

Nollywood star, Queen Nwokoye, is one of the few actresses who stay away from controversies and keeps her private life away from public domain. Since she came into the movie industry, she has not been associated with any controversy of any form.

In these days where actresses do anything to be in the limelight, she has gone about her work with some form of dignity.
Even when she posted photos of her 10-year-old twin sons, many people were taken aback, wondering when she got married or whether she had the kids before coming into the industry.

But in an interview with Punch Newspaper recently, Queen has stirred the hornet’s nest by admitting that actresses acting n.ude is an art form and should not be condemned since they are doing their jobs; though he said she can’t do it.

The Mother’s Secret star had this to say when the issue of n.udity in movies came up:

Playing a role is an art; whichever one works for you, you can do it.
People have different ways of interpreting their roles. I do not condemn it.
As an art, you are free to interpret it if you are comfortable with it. But I am not comfortable with it and I will not do it.
So Queen, if you cannot do it, why do you think it should be accepted?

My Oh My! Chika Ike shares a very hot controversial bedroom picture

Hmm am just speechless on this guys, some called her names and some appreciates her sexy bedtime looks. What do you think will going on in that room tonight?

10 REASONS WHY You’re STILL Single

10 REASONS  WHY You’re STILL Single



The internet is not at all short of posts about why you or anyone else is single. It’s actually a ploy to try and get you to keep reading blogs, online magazines, or however any of these sites wants to classify themselves. Let me be the first to tell you, most of those articles are full of shit. They are like negative horoscopes that are so open-ended that it could apply to anyone. Have you ever read a horoscope in the paper and really didn’t know how it applied to you? They always are hedged perfectly;


“Libra – Today is going to be one in which you’ll seek much clarity for something that’s been on your mind. Some will be willing to help you and others will not. Deciphering between those two groups will help you find the answer to what’s been on your mind.”

And then you’re like… what in the hell does that mean? That’s exactly what those depressing relationship blogs about why you’re single sound like!

That’s why this post won’t be that way.

Here are 10 (or so) harsh realities about what separates the hopeless from the hopeful:
Ugly people typically don’t get married or dated. While it would be easy to say fat people fall into this category too, it’s actually not fat people, it’s sloppy people.
People with screwed up views on dating are typically single.
Those who sweat the minutiae of courting, dating or whatever else you want to call it are almost always single and looking… their ad is on the second to last page of the newspaper.
If you’re convinced that you’re going to find someone who’s going to love you for you, kill yourself now.
After a while, you have to accept that you’ll have to date someone in your league. (This means, if you’re a hoe, just admit to being a hoe and start dating other hoes.)
Men and women who refuse to believe that gender dynamics exist and aren’t going anywhere anytime soon should line up single file in the unmarried line and start collecting benefits.
Everybody has a closet, everybody keeps baggage in that closet, some of that baggage you can never get rid of and nobody will ever want to deal with. Deal with it.

If you ever feel like you’re teetering on the line of hopeless, start making some concessions.
At 30, don’t overreact. At 35, buy cats. At 40, be the best aunt or uncle you can be and cut it out. Remember THIS guy hit the lotto at 80, but I bet you he wasn’t waiting around it.
If you have a long list of shit you won’t do, everyone else has a long list of why they won’t do… you.

Nobody cares about your daddy issues. Whether he was there and made you feel like a princess or wasn’t there and made you feel unwanted, nobody cares. Which also means fellas nobody cares about your mommy issues. If you’re a momma’s boy own it and work on it; nobody is trying to be your second momma.

All goals are not created equal; some of them need to be classified as hopes and dreams. If you want to have a great career, excellent lifestyle, marriage and family come to grips with the fact that you need to rank that list from most to least important.Now pause for effect… 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know what you’re thinking, I agree, God hates us all. I guess the real takeaway here is that the majority of us are doomed.

That’s just in line with statistics. Roughly 50% of us will never get married and the other 50% who do get married, roughly 50% of them will get divorced. I think I found a solution. Instead of dating or wasting our time in relationships, let’s just all focus on other things like ourselves and the pursuit of wealth and achievements.

Wealth and achievements actually do make you happy contrary to what they always told us and not having to share any of it with someone else is probably the best way to go.I propose a toast.May your glasses never run empty (because you don’t have to worry about sharing it with anyone), may you be free of stress and strife (because you won’t have to argue with anyone or worry about their wants/needs/desires), and may you live a long life and prosper (because if you haven’t figured out the leading cause of death in women is men, and the leading cause of death in men is stress and heart problems, I wonder where that comes from).Cheers.

PLEASE ADVISE ME PLEASE : WHENEVER I ENTER MY BOYFRIEND’S NEW HOUSE I CAN’T RESIST S*X

PLEASE ADVISE ME PLEASE : WHENEVER I ENTER MY BOYFRIEND’S NEW HOUSE I CAN’T RESIST S*X




Dear Readers,
I’m dating a guy in Nairobi and we’ve
been together for just four months. He
said he’s serious but I told him to give me
some time before I give in and he agreed.
We’ve been like that until he moved into
his new house, a 2 bedroom flat.
The first day I visited him I was surprised that he had his way with me and I
couldn’t resist him. But when I got home I was angry. Surprisingly, since
then any time I enter his house I can’t resist, we must have s'éx…
This strange development is beginning to give me serious sleepless nights.
Here is the trouble, whenever he is in my place, I’m able to resist him and he
won’t be able to have his way with me. But as soon as I go to his home the
situation must be dif erent, every time.
Please my friends are telling me that this is not normal that they guy has
done something in his house that is in a way subduing me whenever I enter
there.
Please can this be true? Does such things still happen? Should I confront my
boyfriend?-

Spe'rm Facts Every Woman Should Know

Spe'rm Facts Every Woman Should Know

 



 

 

 

 

 

 




Spe'rm, as teeny weeny as they are, can affect us in a HUGE way. There are about 200-500 million of those little guys in the average amount of sem'en produced each time a man ejacu'lates. 





Spe'rm are produced in the (Ladies, we've got to arm ourselves with knowledge so we can overcome the mighty sp'erm)

man's tes'tes — it takes 10 weeks for a single soldier to reach maturity.


Mature sp'erm can wait up to 2 weeks for their big day — they hang out in the epididymis - the coil like structure that runs across the top of each te'sticle.


If they are not eja'culated, those poor little s'perms are broken down and rea'bsorbed by the body.
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What to learn some more facts, like how long sp'erm can survive in a woman's body? Then read more


S'emen only contains about 10 percent sp'erm — the rest consists of enzymes, vitamin C, calcium, protein, sodium, zinc, citric acid and fructose sugar.SO IT WON'T MAKE A GIRL FAT!!!



 

 

 

 


What men eat can affect the taste of their sp'erm. Red meat, dairy products, onions, garlic, and coffee may not go down as well as foods containing natural sugars, such as fruits.


Healthy males produce about 70-150 million spe'rm a day — but when they eja'culate, they lose three times that — that's a tiring proposition.(why men get tired after s'ex)
When inside a woman's body, a sp'erm can live up to five days.


There are male and female spe'rm - the females are slower, but stronger, while the males are faster, but weaker.


By Mama Yao

How to Ask Boyfriend to ''Marry YOU'' Without LOOKING ''CRAZY''

How to Ask Boyfriend to ''Marry YOU'' Without LOOKING ''CRAZY''

How to Ask Boyfriend to ''Marry YOU'' Without LOOKING ''CRAZY''

You’ve been in a relationship for a while now and find that it’s time to formally bond in the institution of marriage, but your boyfriend is yet to pop the question or even show signs of wanting to get married. This is not a very uncommon scenario and as a girl it might be a disconcerting to play the waiting game when you really just want to get married as soon as possible. 

If you are wondering whether it’s alright to be the first one to propose marriage, then rest assured that in many relationships it’s the girl who initiates the talk of get married. There are many guys who would be slightly apprehensive about marriage as it involves a lot of practical aspects and planning (both financially and socially), so they would bide their time even if they are totally committed to the relationship. You might have to initiate discuss along these lines so that he starts thinking about it seriously.

Taking the Relationship to the Next Level

Here are a few tips on how to ask your boyfriend to marry you, or rather how to initiate the talk of marriage.

Don’t Be Too Dramatic About It

The last thing you want to do is go on your knees and propose marriage in some public place. Most guys would find that totally embarrassing and awkward. It’s quite the norm for guys to do such things when they propose, but coming from a girl it might make him turn red as a beet. In fact it’s best to vouch this topic when you are in a private place.

Be Playful When You Vouch The Question

Keep a playful attitude when you ask him about marriage, even if you are a little edgy or nervous about what his reaction will be. The last thing you want to do is spook the guy. So just slip in the question as playfully as you can, you can say something like “So Mr.Boyfriend when are planning to marry me?” or “When do I get to call you my hubby?”

Don’t Come Across As Being Needy

If you display any form of dependence or neediness, he will find it repulsive subconsciously. It’s true for guys and girls that the attraction factor reduces when they find their partner being overly dependent or needy. That’s why it’s all the more important to play it as cool as possible.

Let Him Know That You Want To Get Married

If your boyfriend does not give you a specific answer, go ahead and tell him that you are looking to get married and settle down as soon as possible. Most guys start thinking about marriage seriously when they see that their girlfriend has made up her mind about it. If he finds that you are as uncertain as he is about marriage, he will not mind delaying it further.

Ask Him Why He Hasn’t Proposed Marriage Yet

You can put on a pout and ask him why he hasn’t proposed to you yet. Be sure to get a specific answer to this question because it would clarify his stand point. If he tells you that he has not considered the possibility of marriage, ask him if he is really committed to the relationship.

Be Willing To Talk About The Practical Aspects

Marriage is a totally different ball game and it takes relationship into a different level altogether. There are several practical aspects to be considered which you may not have thought about before. There are social issues like meeting with the families and relatives and then there are financial issues like getting a house and other necessities. May be your boyfriend is apprehensive about one or many of these issues. It helps to talk out the practical aspects involved in marriage and help him feel comfortable about it.

Don’t Pressurize Him Directly

There is absolutely no point in pressurizing him about marriage. The fact remains that he is either willing to get married or he is not, that’s totally his decision. If you put any emotional pressure on him it will backfire later when he will blame you for all the marital problems. Be sure to let him know that your parents and relatives are looking forward to see you married as soon as possible, this puts some indirect pressure rather than direct one. 

In conclusion, as a girl when you ask your boyfriend about marriage it’s all about being classy and cool. You don’t want the guy to feel you are “hooked” and that he can take you for granted, this is a sure way to give your control away completely. A healthy relationship is the one where both partners share an equal control without being overly dependent on the other. Neediness or dependence, on the part of the guy or the girl, can easily reduce attraction. 

How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You? 6 SIGNS

How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You? 6 SIGNS

 

So how do you tell if a guy is flirting with you? Most men are like open books. What they feel inside is what shows outside. So unless the guy has perfected the art of hiding his emotions and feelings, it’s quite easy to figure out what’s going on in his mind. As a girl you can easily know if a guy is flirting by the way he is behaving. Signs men give when flirting are so open that it’s hard to miss.

In this article we speak of the six commons signs that show a man is flirting with you.

Just remember some men flirt without any real intention but just for the fun of it, so don’t take it for anything else. A man does not have to be infatuated with you to flirt. It’s also true that men flirt with girls that they find attractive either consciously or subconsciously.

Signs A Man Is FlirtingHere are six signs a guy is flirting with you. Guys who are very confident around girls will display these signs quite blatantly. There will also be guys who would be a lot more subtle in their approach. Listed below are the signs men give when flirting.

1. He Has A Flirty Smile OnIf a guy is flirting with you he is bound to have his playboy smile on or there would be something slightly playful or mischievous in the way he grins at you. Most guys know that there are being naughty when they flirt and it shows on their face either in the form of toothy smile or a lopsided grin.


2. His Eyes Are GropingMen are highly visual creatures and they usually relate better to images than sounds. If the reason he is flirting with you is because he is very attracted to your physical or facial beauty then you can see his eyes groping your face while he’s talking. Most guys will not check out your body while talking to you, what they will focus on is your face – the eyes, the lips, the skin and also your hair. If a guy is a competent flirt he will look deeply into your eyes while talking – if a guy does this you know you are dealing with someone who has perfected the art of flirting.


3. He Does Some Playful Touching=Most guys are not as deft at playful touching the way girls are. With guys the touching would be quite obvious – what he will do mostly is touch your shoulder or arm on some pretext or other. If he is really overt he might touch your thigh when he is sitting next to you while talking.


4. He Closes In On Your Personal Space=This is an obvious sign that a man is flirting with you. He will close in on your personal space and might great really close to your face or body while he talks. This is one of the definite ways to know a guy is flirting. If you don’t back off he will take it that you are interested or okay with him flirting with you.


5. He Compliments Your LooksYou know a guy is flirting with you if he makes references to your looks. He might talk about the dress you are wearing or pay you some compliments on your beauty. It’s common for guys to say things like “you have a very pretty smile” or “you have the most amazing eyes”, while they are flirting with you. They may not genuinely mean what they say but this is an obvious sign when guys are flirting.

6.His Body Language Is A Little Fidgety=If he is passing his hand through is hair constantly or moving his face or shoulders in an excited manner while talking to you the he is probably flirting with you. Men do get self conscious when they flirt and it shows in their body language. Some guys even blush when they flirt. How do you know a man is flirting? Just watch out if his body language is fidgety – that will give him away.

As you can see, the signs a man is flirting with you are pretty overt and in the face. You don’t have to be observant to notice these signs, they just shout out their intention. Flirting is harmless as long as it does not disturb you, if you are not okay with it just give him a cold shoulder and he will move off.

3 REASONS WHY A MAN DON'T WANT A WOMAN AFTER S'EX

LADIES; 3 secrets why men don’t want you after S£X

Why is it men will do anything to be with you before se'x only to turn around and do anything to leave after. Here are three secrets and the antidote.

1. It’s chemical.

After s'ex your oxytocin levels are increasing while the closeness and cuddling are lowering histestosterone. He unconsciously wants to go do something productive for himself to raise histestosterone levels.

2. He feels guilty.

When a man has se'x with you too soon he feels guilty and wants to get away from the scene of the crime. He knows he used you and now wants to get away from you because you let him. Yes as crazy as it sounds he’s blaming you! Which leads to the third reason.

3. You give too much.

Men do not fall in love when they receive they fall in love when they give. They fall in love before se'x not after it. If he thinks he has earned the right to be with you by winning you over through the effort and struggle of courtship he will stay with you.

 

LADIES; 4 ways to maintain proper v**ina hygiene after S*X

LADIES; 4 ways to maintain proper v**ina hygiene after S*X
V@gin’l hygiene after s*x is essential for proper health and to prevent infection.



Here are tips from experts on how to maintain proper v**ina hygiene after s*xual intercourse.

1. Always try to urinate every time you engage in s*xual intercourse. This will prevent any bacteria from breeding that may be close to the ure'thra, and also avoid bacteria migrating to the kidneys to cause infection.

2. If you have to wipe or clean the v**ina with toilet paper, do it carefully to avoid carrying bacteria from the an'us or rectum into the v**ina.

3. Wash the v**ina with a clean washcloth and warm water, especially after unprotected s*x. Start with the vulva, then wash inside the v**ina, and then move to the an*l area. Do not return the washcloth back to clean the vag'inal area after washing the anus.

4. If you are menstruating, then you might need to add a little odour free toilet soap to ensure through cleaning.

Source: nobledoctors

11 REASONS WHY Kissing Is Great For Your Health

11 Ways Kissing Is Great For Your Health






Women’s magazines (and probably Snapple Facts) have been touting it for years, but there’s real science behind it: kissing is good for your health. You already know the obvious reasons it makes your life better, but as it turns out, it makes your body a lot better too. Kissing deserves more appreciation in its own right rather just as a pitstop on the way to se’xytime. It’s an experience that is unlike any other form of, ahem, communication, and it can have about a million different meanings and nuances. Here are some ways kissing improves your health and makes life generally more awesome.

1. It tells you whether your date is a keeper. Just as the cliches say, kissing is a great gauge of se’xual compatibility. A first kiss with someone new has a tendency to be awkward because of nerves, no matter how great your chemistry is. But if the next few smooches after that are magic, it’s a good sign that se’x with that person will be just as awesome.

2. It’s like exercise … sort of. Kissing does burn calories, though hardly as many as an hour at the gym. A really intense kiss can burn two calories a minute. If things are really hot and heavy, the benefits may be similar to that of a brisk walk. Hey, it may not be as healthy as going for a run, but it’s certainly better for you than eating doughnuts while watching trash TV on the couch! That’s plenty enough motivation for me.

3. It creates a sense of wellbeing. Kissing someone we feel a connection to helps with all-around tension relief. It’s a natural way to combat stress and evoke a feeling that everything’s alright with the world, because for a second, while you’re kissing your loved one, it is.

4. It calms you down. Kissing lowers your blood pressure, and can have similar physiological effects to meditation. It slows down the racing chatter in your mind and brings you into the present moment. Anthropologist Helen Fisher, who researches romantic love at Rutgers University, says that kissing “has all that lusciousness that we need to pull us out of the mundane and the ordinary and take us into moments of the extraordinary.” Who knew science could sound so poetic?

5. It keeps your PMS at bay. Even though being touched by anyone is sometimes the last thing you want when you’re doubled over with cramps, kissing can help make them fade away. It fights headaches too!


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6. It hones your intuition. “By the time you’re kissing someone,” Fisher says, “you’re right up next to them, you are in their personal space…That in itself means you have trusted them. You’re also learning quite a bit about them — you touch them, smell them, taste them, see the expressions on their face, learn something about their health status, learn a great deal about their intentions.” Basically, it teaches you a whole lot about who this guy or girl is and whether they’re right for you. Lips are much more receptive to sensations than most other parts of the body, and because of that, kissing can help you figure out a whole lot very quickly (and it feels damn good).

7. It’s good for your teeth. Kissing washes away the plaque on your teeth that causes cavities because of all the extra saliva movement (kind of gross when you think of it that way, huh?).

8. It evokes major trust. Our mouths are about as up-close and personal as it gets. To lots of people, kissing feels even more personal than se’x. In an anthropological sense, “the mouth is absolutely essential to survival – everything passes through there, and if it’s the wrong thing, you’re cooked,” Fisher says. Letting someone anywhere near it is even more trusting than you’ve probably thought about!

9. It’s sort of like free Botox. Kissing tightens and tones muscles around your neck and jaw, so get to it!

10. It probably boosts your immune system. Fisher believes it may stimulate your immune system, because “if you’re sharing your germs with somebody, you’re adding to your internal defense system.”

11. It creates all kinds of positive feelings, but you already knew that, didn’t you? Happy chemicals like dopamine and norepinephrine are stimulated when you have romantic feelings toward someone. Oxytocin can also come into play, creating a sense of a calm and comfort, and, of course, kissing gets you all kinds of turned on.
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Se'x Questions: Embarrassing Things People Want To Know

Se'x Questions: Embarrassing Things People Want To Know



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Could I have accidentally peed the bed during s’ex?
If the condom is intact and you've ruled out the possibility that the wet spot came from him, take a discreet sniff. Does the wet spot smell like urine? If so, there's your answer. There's often a tiny bit of fluid left in the bladder even after women use the bathroom, says Lauren Streicher, MD, assistant professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University's Feinberg School of Medicine. Certain s’exual positions -- such as the missionary -- can put enough pressure on that area to cause it to leak. If this happens only once in a while, then there's no need to worry. If the fluid has no odor or a musky scent and you're about to have your period, then, Streicher says, you may have ejaculated. (Hey, it happened on "S’ex and the City," so it could happen to you, too!) "But if you're regularly leaking urine, it could be a sign of incontinence," she says. She advises strengthening your pelvic-floor muscles through Kegels (seriously, they work!) and consider bringing this up with your gynecologist or a women's health physical therapist.

2. Why do I sometimes laugh or cry uncontrollably during s’ex? 
"S’ex is a neurological and emotional event," says Debby Herbenick, a research scientist at the Center for S’exual Health Promotion at Indiana University and the author of S’ex Made Easy. In other words, it's intense, and getting naked (physically and otherwise) with someone can trigger unexpected feelings. An emotional reaction could also be due to hormones, where you're at in your menstrual cycle or fears you have about the relationship. You know yourself best: If you feel something's not right, consider bringing it up with your partner or with a therapist.

3. I'm nowhere near menopause, but I'm as dry as the Sahara down there -- even when I'm in the mood. How can this be?
There are lots of factors involved in keeping the vag1na naturally lubricated, but anything that sabotages your hormone levels or your blood flow throughout the body can dry you out, says Streicher, who is working on a book about s’exual health. She also says that about 5 percent of women taking oral contraception experience vag1nal dryness -- yet even some gynecologists neglect to make that connection. Other culprits that have nothing to do with age include antihistamines, brea'stfeeding, chemotherapy, in vitro fertilization and diabetes. (An easy solution: Streicher recommends applying a good silicone-based lubricant, like Wet Platinum, before s’ex.)
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4. Should I be worried if I bleed after s’ex?
If the blood is a light color, and this happens only once (especially after a strenuous romp), then it's probably just the result of irritation or friction, Streicher says. But if it happens again or if there's a fair amount of blood, then you should make an appointment with your gynecologist. It could be coming from the cervix, the uterus or be caused by an infection like chlamydia or gonorrhea.

5. About that, um, aquatic odor...
A science lesson, courtesy of Dr. Streicher: The normal pH in the vag1na is between 3.5 and 4.5, and that creates the best conditions for good bacteria to proliferate. If the pH goes up too high, those good bacteria can't survive, which allows the not-good bacteria to take over, leading to that unfortunate fishy odor as well as infections like bacterial vag’inosis. Normal s'emen happens to have a high pH, around 7.4. "So if your pH levels are already teetering on the brink or if you're having a lot of s’ex, the introduction of high pH se'men can put you over the edge," Streicher says. Your period can also increase your pH level. Streicher sometimes prescribes an OTC gel called RepHresh to help keep levels balanced and also recommends vag1nal probiotics (different than the probiotic capsules intended for your intestine). And if the post-coital bouquet you're referring to smells like bleach or chlorine, Streicher says, "Well, that's just sem'en."

As a reminder, always consult your doctor for medical advice and treatment before starting any program.

 

10 Things To Say During Se'x: A Helpful Chart

Things To Say During Se'x: A Helpful Chart

 



 

 

 

 

 


This amazing chart created back in 2008 by comedian and artist Doogie Horner is going viral again, and for good reason.
We could all use a refresher on what works and doesn't work when it comes to pillow talk.

Memorize this entire chart (click to enlarge)


UPDATE: This post has been updated with a revised, more thorough version of the chart sent to us by the artist.

7 signs you are dating an immature man

7 signs you are dating an immature man






You may often find your man breaking down at the drop of a hat. While it’s okay to feel upset sometimes, when you go overboard in a relationship, it breeds trouble.



Immaturity is a clear sign of emotional instability. Here’s how you can suss out if your man fits that bill…

Shies from commitment

He may just not want to commit himself to anything in particular. Getting him to spend quality time with you is like getting a tooth pulled out.

Never accepts mistakes

Instead, he resorts to pointing fingers at everybody. He’s not the sort to readily accept the blame. And if in case you manage to hold him responsible for something, he will still find a way to brush off the blame.

No steady job

This man may never have a steady job. Instead you may always find him cribbing about work. Apart from this, you may feel that he lacks ambition and only talks big about himself.

Never had a meaningful relationship

When talking to you about past relationships, he may never mention a long-term one. Instead, he may just talk about one-night stands or a one that just lasted for a month.

Is way too vulnerable

You may often find your man breaking down at the drop of a hat. While it’s okay to feel upset sometimes, when you go overboard in a relationship, it breeds trouble.

Is indecisive

Says Pallavi Vaz, 28-year-old advertising professional, “Many times I have felt that I am the one constantly making decisions not only for the growth of our relationship, but also for him. He almost leaves every decision upto me, which is quite frustrating at times.”

Is very inconsiderate

You may find him to be very selfish at times. His priorities are way different and “more important” than yours. You may feel agitated when you find him only thinking about himself and not about anyone else. Further, he may not even take a minute to be rude to someone.

Has no real life plans

Your man may not have an idea about what he wants to do for a living. Says Devyani Parikh, 23-year-old media professional, “My boyfriend prefers to live his life on a day-to-day basis and take things as they come to him.” Such a guy couldcare less about his future or where he will be (personally and professionally) a couple of years down the line.
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What do you do if you are already married to such a guy

It is said that women mature faster than men. There are a lot of reasons for this, but one of the main ones is that a man usually looks at responsibility as an enemy, something that would get in his way of living and be a hindrance to having fun. Women are more or less ready to take responsibilities in all its forms.

Don’t take responsibility for his irresponsibilities 

One of the mistakes that women make in their relationship or marriage to an immature guy is that they make peace with their husband’s irresponsibilities. The only way you can probably make your husband more responsible and mature is not only by ignoring his irresponsibiltity but also let him suffer the consequences alone. You may have to do this in complete silence. Do not shout at him, lecture him and don’t mother him. He will gradually understand his ways and will start being more responsible.

Communicate better 

Even though many women recognise this problem, they fail to communicate in the right way to their partners. If you feel that over time your husband has been immature and shows no signs of maturity, you must talk it out with him. Once you communicate your feelings and your opinions to your husband, he will make a move to taking up more responsibilities for the household, you and your children.

Involve your family in decision-making 

Never make any decision alone. Make sure you involve your family and keep them in the loop when talking to your husband about something. This way if things go wrong in your relationship, you will not be the sole person blamed for it. Also, with the help of your family, you might be able to instil maturity in your husband and get him to be more serious in life.

Get help from a counselor 

If you feel marriage is on the rocks due to this nature, it is best you seek help from a professional. This will ensure that your husband communicates his problem better. This will go a long way in helping your husband grow up and mature.

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5 Health Benefits Of making love and Having An Org'asm (READ)

5 Health Benefits Of Having An Org'asm (READ)




You already know that having regular orga'sms is great for your relationship (not to mention your partner’s ego!).

It’s also a fun, free and, well, satisfying form of entertainment, and it can even burn calories and reduce stress.

But here’s another bedroom bonus: Getting busy on a regular basis not only enhances your life, it may extend it, too. According to certified se'x therapist Lou Paget, best-selling author of The Big O, below are the top 5 benefits of O-ing whenever you can:

1.Org'asms keep your girly parts healthy:


The extra stimulation causes blood to rush into the ge'nital tissue, keeping it supple and refreshed. For best results, have an org'asm at least once a week. Is it that time of the month? Studies show that having orga'sms while Aunt Flo is in town actually protects against endometriosis, a potentially dangerous uterine condition that can lead to infertility.

2.Org'asms offer powerful pain relief:

Some studies suggest that a good orgasm can more than double a woman’s tolerance for pain. Plus, it’s an analgesic, not an anesthetic, meaning it suppresses pain without affecting sensitivity to touch — a critical ingredient when se'x is on the menu.
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3.Orgas'ms can protect your ticker:

Se'xual activity and org'asm are shown to reduce stress due to the surge of oxytocin, the so-called “cuddle hormone,” that occurs with org'asm. What’s more, studies show that orga'sms lower blood pressure levels — at least among women — and high blood pressure can lead to heart attacks.

4.Orga'sms help you sleep better:

In addition to increasing trust, attachment and bonding, the post-O hormone oxytocin triggers a cascade of bodily events, including the release of other feel-good hormones called endorphins. These endorphins often have a sedative effect. So it’s no surprise that most of us have enjoyed a fabulous night of sleep following some really great se'x.

5.Orgas'ms can help you stay in shape and lose weight:

Getting busy for 30 minutes not only heats up your honey, but it also burns calories. In fact, according to some estimates, you can torch up to 200 calories with a hot and heavy half-hour session (which theoretically — and hopefully — would include an orga'sm or three).


Source: Self.com