14 Things You Should Never EVER Say During Se'x Some things are better left unsaid.

14 Things You Should Never EVER Say During Se'x OR LOVE MAKING SESSION
Some things are better left unsaid.



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We've all gotten a little carried away in the heat of the moment, but saying the wrong thing in bed can bring even the best time to a screeching halt. Hey, those intense love hormones can make you say some crazy stuff. So trust us when we tell you to scratch these phrases from your bedroom vocabulary. Consider these the worst things you could say during se'x. But come on, we didn't really need to tell you, right?! 

1."Is it in yet?" Did you just pinch me? Or, wait… OK, so that's what we're working with. Cool. We know men seriously stress about their pen'is size—so this is a no brainer. Even if you're thinking it… don't say it. 

2."Let's just get it over with." Hey, sometimes a quickie is what you're really craving—plus, you have a bootcamp class in an hour, and it fills up soquickly. Your partner will understand right? (No, no they won't.) 

3."High five!"Alright people, this isn't drunken se'x in a dorm room. This is adu'lt se'x. You can do better. 


4."That's it?!" I think I've watched Instagram videos that were longer than that. Still, muttering these words will not make them rally for round two, we promise. 

5.Any form of baby talk…ever. Nothing kills the mood faster than the tone of voice usually reserved for puppies and toddlers. Just, don't. 


6."Can you grab my phone?" You know humanity is addicted to their cell phones when one in five people say they've used it during s'ex. Do yourself—and your partner—a favor, and let it go to voicemail.



7."Are you done yet?" Talk about pressure! You're having se'x—not reading Game of Thrones—you'll know when each person is finished. So don't ask for an ETA on an orga'sm; it's just not good manners.
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8."Ugh, I'll just do it myself" We get that sometimes mas'turbation can be even better than se'x (talk about an easy O). But don't throw in the towel if your partner isn't exactly blowing you away. Communicate, show him what feels good, and try not to utter this phrase. 

9."Oh, Scoffield, yes!" Yep, you just blurted out the name of your celebrity crush (unless you actually are in bed with Scoffield…in which case, good for you!). While there's absolutely nothing wrong with a little visual fantasy, keep Scoffield's name—and washboard  cuteness—in your head.

(Can they really blame you though?)

10."Oh that reminds me, I'm out of tampons/always." In the words of every sports coach: Get your head in the game! You're having se'x, after all. Besides, the more you're able to cut out distractions, the more likely you are to orga'sm.


11."You want to do WHAT?!" Sure, this might be what you're thinking when your partner suggests a particularly creative move they saw in po'rn, but take a beat first. Of course, you don't have to agree or even try something if you're not into it, but shooting down their fantasy right off the bat will probably make them reluctant to open up again. Try a simple "Hm, well, I'll think about it" instead.


12."My ex used to do it like this…" Talking about exes while na'ked with your new partner is pretty much always frowned upon. Besides, they're your ex for a reason… 

13."I love you!" MAJOR Disclaimer: If you're in a long-term monogamous relationship, you should absolutely shout this one! But if this is a casual hookup or someone you just started dating last Tuesday, this is probably your orga'sm talking.

14.What time is it?

ohh please...u just made things worse... don't ever ask for the timme during best moments!! time can wait..

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10 Ero'tic Commandments

10 Ero'tic Commandments




Discover the sacred unity of body and soul when it comes to se'x.


THE TEN ER0TIC COMMANDMENTS

ETHICS.
The first step in the spiritual life is to move beyond narcissism and self-absorption. This is not a glamorous suggestion, but it is essential: Treat your partner honestly, respectfully, and kindly. It's as simple as that. Spirituality begins in achieving a basic but difficult aspect of maturity—not being selfish. This doesn't mean that you don't take care of yourself and have full satisfaction in your S’EXual life, but, as the spiritual traditions consistently teach, you can't be happy if those around you are not happy.

PARTNERSHIP.
S’EX is a union of persons, not only bodies. You can prepare for S’EX by being an interesting person, bringing with you your intelligence, culture, ideas, values, and talents. It's one thing to make love with a pretty body and another to be intimate with a real person. You can take time to talk to your partner, maybe at dinner before lovemaking. Don't be afraid to talk about the things that matter. Letting a closely guarded thought emerge can lead to a physical sense of release. If you can’t do this with your dinner partner, then your S’EX may not be anything special. 

VISION.
A spiritual person has a broad vision. He or she is interested in life, meaning, and the world. Vision is an aspect of transcendence and a reach beyond self. S’EX usually begins and ends in conversation. Visionary talk, in contrast to mundane and self-centered chatter, can be vital and er0tic.

CONTEMPLATION.
Spirituality benefits from some kind of contemplation or meditation, a stepping outside the ordinary reality. Lovemaking can have a contemplative quality—taking time, allowing yourself to be dreamy, giving in not only to passion but also to the timeless atmosphere of S’EX. Ecstasy, a word often applied to S’EXual experience, means "to stand outside," and it doesn’t have to have the swoon factor that people sometimes associate with it. Ecstasy can be a steady, calm progress to a state that is tranquil and otherworldly.

RITUAL.
S’EX is as much a ritual as anything done in church or temple. A ritual is an action that speaks primarily to the heart and soul. It doesn't have much practical meaning. Some people like to justify S’EX by seeing it as a way to make babies or to express love. Obviously it can do these things, but it can also be a ritual that evokes the spirituality of the relationship, long or short, casual or serious. Therefore, the spiritual quality of S’EX may increase if you pay attention to its ritual aspect: timing, clothing, music, candles, setting, language.
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GENEROSITY.
S’EX can be virtuous without being repressive or too clean. The great virtue in S’EX is generosity, the capacity to offer an abundance of feeling, intelligence, and equality to your partner. This doesn't mean surrendering completely or giving away too much, but rather a thoughtful and moderate offering of self. Again, this is a traditional spiritual virtue applied to the special realm of S’EX.

BEAUTY.
S’EX has a lot to do with appreciating the beauty of the human body and the person. You don't have to be a stunner or even pretty or handsome. Fortunately, S’EXual passion allows us to see the beauty of the body in small elements and gestures. Loving the person also helps, because the beauty of the personality usually gets transferred to the body.

PRAYER.
Prayer takes many forms. Even the monks have said that to work is to pray. You don't have to say formal prayers before S’EX, but you can bring to it such an appreciation for its power to express love and to make unions that it becomes a prayer.

DEVOTION.
The ancient Greeks and Romans had a keen awareness of the spirituality in S’EX, which they personified in the goddesses Aphrodite and Venus. An old story is told of pilgrims going by boat to an island where they could venerate a statue of the naked and seductive Aphrodite. For S’EX to be deeply exciting and engaging, somehow you have to evoke this goddess, the spirit of S’EX, who makes things happen. As a muse is to an artist— a real and important source of inspiration—so this spirit is to a couple making love.

COMMUNITY.
Spirituality involves reaching beyond the self. S’EX is quite private, but a good S’EX life can help make a good community. One of the results of good S’EX is joy, pure and simple, an antidote to the often depressive, cynical tone of modern life, with its tendency to dehumanize and make excessive demands. When people have a joyful, positive outlook, they are capable of community.

Thomas Moore is the author of Care of the Soul, Soulmates, and other bestselling books.

HOW TO GET RID OF PIMPLES AND BLACK SPOTS (VIDEO)

MEN ONLY: Five tips to get you out of the friend zone.

To  build chemistry and rapport you must sow seeds of romantic thoughts and affiliations. Romantic feelings are the difference between the perpetual friend and the would-be lover.

So the sooner the feelings are established, the better for all.  Here a few tips to tip her over.

1. Be flirtatious.

Try flirting with her and see how she reacts to it. The problem with nice guys is they are too nice and not naughty and this gives the impression of being a wonderful friend.

Flirting should be playful and fun; a tickle, a playful smack, but something that allows you test the waters while allowing you hide under the pretext of a joke if things should go wrong.

2. Touch gently.

Don’t go grabbing her behind! When you meet up with her, make some physical contact for a few seconds but make sure it’s not somewhere uncomfortable.

Try holding her hand for a few seconds if she likes it, she will snuggle up or have a sudden insight of ‘I like that’, green light! If she struggles to let go please leave her, red light!

3. Create some distance.

Make yourself scarce. Do this especially when it’s been going on for months. Try spending the whole day with her then non for few days, then more again. Same with the phone calls. Let her miss you. Your disappearance will give her time to think about you. If she really has feelings for you; she will come looking for you.

4. Smell good, look good.

I wish I could say this 5 times. Women are not attracted to men that smell funky or look unkempt. Dress neatly and smartly. Invest in anti-perspirant deodorant. It’s amazing that in this day and age some guys are still being reminded about this.

5. Anchor with happiness.

Let her associate you with fun and happiness; that will make her see you as a positive aspect in her life. Invite her or take her out to fun places like parties or places she enjoys. Call her when she’s feeling down, be there for her but do not be the one who is always there for her at sad moments. That’ the job of her girl friends.

Want your relationship to last forever ……. 13 tips for that forever and ever amen love life

1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he or she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; Cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for him or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix some time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.

3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you, if he tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also gets tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.

5. Be caring; with the care I don't mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to take him or her in expensive hotels... I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust me if your lover is well raised and understanding h/she will appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication with your lover; Try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude to start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; I know you may be distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he or she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because h/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner if you really love him or her and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; these rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you. the majority of them have intensions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way h/she cares and loves you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him or her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him or her. why?, stop your games of complaining all the time over small things just because you want your lovers attention and to be the controller. Such acts may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.

10. Don’t be a dependant to your partner; Try contributing in some things, seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.

12. Respect your lover; if he is the man or she’s woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, pay attention to what h/she says, don’t undervalue him or her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each and everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay or move together, don’t touch your mate’s phone. Seriously you found your lover with friends; h/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his

 

man DISGUISED as female PR0STITUTE arrested

There was drama in Nairobi over the weekend after a 26 year old man who has been ‘deceiving’ men while disguised as a woman was arrested.

The Luo man had his breasts stuffed with two gloves filled with water and nicely tucked into a brassiere. He dressed like a woman and looked so attractive since he had a big bum.

According to ‘her’ colleagues, the suspect had been in the business for a while now and they had never suspected anything. He always looked like a woman and was smartly dressed all the time. He parked along River Road near Coast Bus offices.

Speaking to the media, the suspect admitted that he started dressing like a woman and practicing prostitution last year. He claimed to be fending for his family arguing that he had looked for a job for many years to no avail.

He said that he was enjoying s3xual intercourse with lots of men and it was sad that he now had to stop after being discovered.

HOW TO SPOT A PR0STITUTE IN A CLUB

You enter a club and after one beer you start navigating for a possible chips funga ..

Please Nairobi men, be very careful because most ladies in clubs these days are prostitutes and are up to no good and can easily “mchele” (spike) you.

So what are the signs of a would-be pr0stitute (Nairobi Ladies) in a club?
She is always alone and sipping some expensive drinks but at a slow pace.

She is always playing with her hair as her eyes rove around the club.

When you approach her, she will start maringo like “ebu niwache juu nangoja date wangu / chali wangu.” (Please leave me alone because am waiting for my date a.k.a boyfriend)

This is only a gimmick to test if you are resilient.

If you insist and suggest that “wacha basi ninunue kamoja kabla boy wako akamu,” (Let me buy you a drink before your date come), she will offer you a sit and chances are she will buy you the second drink which of course will be spiked after a while..

Nigerian campus chics turn to juju to make their v@g1nas sweeter

Majority of Nigerian hos on and off campus do juju.
I have met and befriended about three of them and they were all well educated and from comfortable families. Those who were close to them would never believe that such beautiful ladies were members of cults they joined when they were students at different universities in Nigeria. One of them even made sacrifices at the lagoon of the UNILAG. The second used special candles for rituals and the third one confessed that a python once came out of her vagina and said she was no longer in the cult. But her close female friend told me that she lied, because she was still keeping her white ritual plates. I made sure I never slept with anyone of them. I always had my Holy Bible whenever I passed the night with one of them. My friend dated another one who soon showed him her true colours one fateful day as they slept after making love. She suddenly got up and started singing and dancing in a strange ritual.

These are not rare cases, because many girls and ladies in Nigeria are ritualizes and pretending to be "Christians". They practice juju which they use in their relationships with men.

Shocker as parents recruit their daughters to pr0stitution

A group of women from Karen are luring young girls into hos. The women target young girls promising them some huge amounts of money.

Sources reveal that the women operate their businesses from the least likely location. They visit seminaries where they convince young girls to quit and join the oldest profession on earth.


According to one of the victims, the women approached her at a youth meeting in church and promised her a good job. They took her to a house where she met other girls. Later on the women promised to show them the nature of the work.

Men would visit the house which was too big and engage in s*x with as many girls as they wanted. They pay some good amount of money which the women divide among them all.
The women are not new to them. Most of them are friends to their mothers.

They have formed a ring that is now luring young girls into hos.

SHOCKING Revelations Of Nairobi Pr0stitutes Spiking Their B0obs To DrugTheir Victims. VIDEO BELOW

After watching the VIDEOS above, you have realized that it is no shocker in the city that pr0stitutes or just criminal minded women have been on the loose spiking drinks,drugging their victims and sweeping them clean. Tales of one partying in Westlands and the next thing they realise is waking up in a ditch somwehere in the estate 18 hours later are order of the day. The charming women who oftenly pose as potential catch to sex scavenging men in the clubs have been having their way since time in memory.

It is not only ladies who spike drinks but some men wil also do it on their victims either men or women and s*xually assault them. Nairibi Exposed has learnt a new shocking trend that is about to make things thick,according to Anne* who has so far taken down four victims with this style,the business gets sweeter she says. The women lace their jugs with the drugs which will throw a victim into a temporary comma and by the time you wake up,you are swept clean.


With people getting more careful and sensitive with their drinks,these women have coined a new style,"men don't think beyond their heads when drunk and sex is the only thing on their mind,mostly,i quicly rub **** on my breast when i have identified one,as we drink will tell him of my fantasy to have breast sucked that happens mostly in the club,he can do this and immedietly suggest we go to his car before the drug takes effect and by the time we get into the car he is completely done and i carry him" laughs off Ann* as she confesses the dirty secret to source.

However,club is in minimal cases and according to Simeone Ndiga a clerk at a city law firm,your own home can be your crime scene. This is especially on those fond of picking up random ladies on a night out and taking them home for casual sex rather known as Mpango wa kando in Nairobi,I picked this lady from Psys and she was a goos catch going by her looks,i just thought she was like the rest i have been taking home for quick snacking. We got home and i remember making out with her,the last i vividly remember is nibbling on her nipples,the next thing i realised i woke up in an empty room with nothing but a boxer and vest on,for a moment i thought i was dreaming then it happened to me that i had been drugged and my house swept clean" narrates Ndiga to source.

Anne goes to laugh off saying the method is so effective that failure probability is nearly impossible if you execute well," myself im more advantaged given my big jugs that will have them thirsting to have a taste,once you put your face and mouth on them then you are done. Since sex starts with foreplay,one would obviously go for the jugs and so easily trapped" reveals Anne to NE.

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[Shocking Photos] Two Naija Girls Fight Violently Over sugar daddy withrazor blade

The girl above was cut by her friend and neighbour, she was reported to have stolen and slept with the her friends sugar daddy which was introduced to her. The sugar daddy owner got pissed and went to confront her neighbour friend. They started shouting and it got violent with the Sugar daddy owner using a small knife to cut the sugar daddy stealer’s face.

When neighbours saw them fighting and saw blood, they took law into their hands and mobbed the sugar daddy own stripping her naked and shame. When the reason they were fighting was known they were later let go.

Sugar daddies must be very scare or this particular sugar daddy must have a lot of money or a good kondo 

Shocking VIDEO [ADVISORY]!!! A mother and daughter fight over a married man. WATCH BELOW

Mum and daughter fight over a married man who wanted to marry the daughter but was also the mum’s Mpango wa Kando this happened when the husband was bed ridden
A crowd of onlookers were attracted to a cat fight between a mother and daughter over a man in Greenfield estate located in Donholm. It was so serious that the estate guards were unable to cool the situation which led to police being called and arresting the two women.
According to a close relative the said man was the mother’s mpango wa kando before he started wooing the daughter and that’s when he started sleeping with both mother and daughter. After sometime the man proposed to the daughter who accepted to become the second wife. The source claims that he bought her a Toyota Prado as a gift and the mother knew but let it slide.

What pissed the older woman was when the man proposed to her daughter and she agreed. She couldn’t bear it and that’s when she confronted her daughter. According to her it was a taboo for a daughter to get married to a man that was sleeping with her mother, this did not go well with the daughter and she refused to listen to her mother.
The two were in their house and when they did not come to a conclusion that’s when hell broke loose, the house couldn’t hold them and that’s when they rolled to the streets scratching each other while their clothes were all torn.
When they were arrested they panicked and that’s when they came to a conclusion and were released. The mother begged friends and family members not to tell her husband since he had a heart condition that could worsen if he gets to learn of any bad news.
All this happened when the older son and his father had gone out and had no clue over the illicit love triangle.

Two high school principals fight over a pr0stitute

Two school principals at the recently concluded head teachers’ annual conference in Mombasa fought over a pr0stitute at a popular nightspot causing a standoff that lasted almost half an hour.

The head teachers, after what seemed like a long day characterised with boring presentations and speeches, had chosen to shoot the breeze as they blew up their per diem on drinks at a night club. The club, popular among international and local tourists, is infamous for brazen prostitutes who patronise it daily.

After a few hours of quaffing beer and entertaining themselves, some of the head teachers who had thronged the spot, began staggering away in trickles, each with a lady of the night in tow. The few who remained continued sipping the frothy contents of the brown bottle, not knowing that it would be a catalyst for an embarrassing scene moments later.

At midnight, matters boiled over when one of the teachers waddled clumsily towards a curvaceous light skinned wench who looked desperate for any ‘willing buyer’. No sooner had he established contact than another equally inebriated teacher, who had been drooling from his corner all along but had chickened out on making a move, sauntered over and started making a sales pitch

With each trying to outsmart the other in arresting the prostitute’s attention, the argument rapidly degenerated into a shouting match with everyone pledging what he was willing to part with as she calmly assessed the two.

Female Teacher Defiles 4-Year-Old Pupil in Lagos

At Golden Sharon Nursery and Primary School (formerly Kingdom Sharon), located at Ijaba area of Ota, Ogun State, an incident occurred on Tuesday, November 26, 2013, that has created panic in the family of Mr. and Mrs. Johnson (not real name).

One of their twins, four-year-old Lydia (not real name), who attended the school, was defiled by a female teacher, Olajumoke Oyewole, in a fashion they suspected had ritualistic intent.

Lydia, who is a pupil of Nursery One with her twin brother, got home on Tuesday afternoon and started complaining of a nagging pain in her private part. But things she later revealed confounded her mother.

Saturday PUNCH decided not to reveal the real names of the victim and her parents because of the nature of the case.

The mother, who spoke with this correspondent on Thursday at Ota after a visit to the police station where the accused female teacher had been taken, said after Lydia came home after school, she began complaining consistently when she wanted to urinate.

She said, “I asked her what was wrong and she said, ‘stone.’ I thought she meant that somebody stoned her and I waved off the matter that she would be alright.

“But when the pain persisted and she kept complaining, I decided to check why she was feeling pain there. That was when I discovered a wound on her private part.

“I was alarmed and I asked her who did that to her. She immediately mentioned Aunty Jummy (the accused.) I asked what the teacher did to her and she said the lady dipped her finger in her private part and brought out a stone which she used to scratch her there.

“The lady is not her class teacher. She (Oyewole) teaches another class beside my daughter’s. I did not understand this and I quickly called my daughter’s class teacher on the phone to help investigate the issue. She said I should come the following day but I decided to go that same day.

“I reported the matter to the head of the school and while we were leaving, we went past the (accused’s) class. My daughter said, ‘Mummy come, this is where she did it. She sat on that chair and put me on her lap and used the stone.’ She pointed to the teacher’s chair in the classroom. The lady was not around at the time.”

According to the woman, who was clearly confused when she spoke with our correspondent, the way her daughter was defiled was strange. She said she had to take her daughter to the family clinic to conduct a test on the little girl.

Meanwhile, she had apprised her husband who is away at work in Benin, Edo State, of the incident. He instructed her to report the matter to the police as soon as possible.

“The doctor examined her and asked me to have a look at my daughter’s private part. She explained that apart from the wound from which my daughter was bleeding, her hymen had been torn. The doctor said only a state hospital could give a report on such test since it was suspected that a crime might have been committed,” the woman said.

Nigerian Woman Beats 3 Year Old Sick Child To Death For Vomitting

The Lagos State Police Command for allegedly beating her husband’s three-year-old niece, Deborah Bassey, to death, has arrested a 21-year-old woman, Rebecca Bassey. According to police authorities, the suspect beat up the girl because she vomited and defecated on herself. A police source told reporters on Thursday  that the incident occurred at Ijaiye Ojokoro area of the state on July 22, 2013.

He said, “The victim (Deborah) lost her mother in 2010. Early this year, Deborah’s father was evicted from his home and he decided to send Deborah and his second child to go and stay with his brother, Vincent, until he settles down.

“Deborah and her nine-year-old sister were living with Vincent and his wife, Rebecca, in a one-room apartment at Powerline, Jankara, Ijaiye Ojokoro. However, Rebecca was always maltreating the two children.”

 

According to police investigations, on the day of the incident,   Deborah woke up around 5.30am with a high temperature.

The three-year-old girl was said to have started vomiting and defecating soon after. This was said to have angered Rebecca, who instead of administering treatment to the child, decided to beat her up.

A police source said, “In the process of beating the girl, the suspect pushed her and she fell, hitting her head against the edge of a wooden chair in the room.”

Reporters learnt that the victim started to bleed from the head. Some neighbours rushed her to Ahmadiyya Hospital, where she was referred to Orile Agege General Hospital where she later died.

A woman leader in the area, Kudirat Ogunseyi, was said to have reported the matter to Ijaye Ojokoro Police Division after which the suspect was arrested.

Some neighbours, in their statements at the police station, described the suspect as a hot-tempered woman, who was fond of beating the children.

“The way that woman beats up the children was very worrying to the extent that the landlord had threatened to evict them,” one of the statements reads.

  Vincent  told the police that he was not present when his wife beat his niece to death.

“I was not at home when the incident happened. I am a photographer during   daytime  but I   work as a vigilante  group member.  So I hardly sleep at home,” he said.

The suspect however said she did not kill the victim deliberately. She said she only pushed Deborah and she hit her head against the chair.

 “I am a housewife and I have a 10-month-old baby. I did not mean to kill her (Deborah). I only pushed her because she vomited and defecated on the floor. I was only trying to correct her. It was not deliberate. I am a mother too and I know how I would feel if my son was killed,” she said.

It was learnt that the matter had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba.

A source at the SCID said the police were waiting for autopsy. He added that if other wounds were found on  other parts of the victim’s body, it would prove that the victim was indeed tortured before her death.

When contacted on the telephone, the Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, said she would call back.

Father charged with murder after leaving toddler in hot car for 8 hours

ATLANTA, Ga. – A father has been charged with murder in the death of his 2-year-old child after he allegedly left the toddler in a hot car for eight hours.

Police said Justin Ross Harris, 34, was supposed to drop the child off at daycare, but forgot.

He then drove to work around 9 a.m. Wednesday and left the toddler in the car. It wasn’t until Harris left work and started driving home that he looked in the backseat and saw the child still strapped in the car seat and unresponsive.

A witness saw Harris pull into the Akers Mill Square shopping center, stop his car straddling two lanes of traffic, jump out and begin CPR on the toddler.

“He was constantly saying, ‘What have I done, what have I done.’”

Harris is charged with murder and cruelty to children, both felonies and is currently being held without bond at the Cobb County Adult Detention Center.

Anyone with information about this case which may assist detectives is asked to call 770-499-3945.

Temperatures in Atlanta topped 90 degrees Wednesday afternoon. Temperatures inside a hot car could go as high as 130 to 140 degrees in a few hours.

Nigerians Bombard Hong Kong Billionaire’s L3sbian Daughter WithMarriage Offers

Gigi Chao, the daughter of a Hong Kong billionaire says she has been bombarded with marriage proposals – and even nude photographs – from Nigerians and other nationals after her father offered £40 million to the man who could woo her.

The Hong Kong billionaire, offered $65m to any man who could win the heart of his lesbian daughter

Gigi Chao, daughter of property tycoon Cecil Chao, entered a civil partnership with her girlfriend of seven years in a ceremony in Paris five months ago.


But Mr Chao, 76, has told the South China Morning Post that reports of his daughter’s civil ceremony were “false”. He announced the HK$500 million dowry earlier this week.

It has sparked a deluge of offers. Speaking on Thursday Ms Chao, 33, said she had received about 200 proposals and that the number of people following her on Twitter, YouTube and Facebook had jumped by 1,500 since her father’s announcement.

“People are contacting me on Facebook, by email, on Twitter. It’s ridiculous. I can’t sort out the serious proposals from the half-hearted ones. I can’t make head or tail of it,” she said.

Ms Chao, an executive director of her father’s company, Cheuk Nang, said that in addition to receiving enquiries from gentlemen who say they are looking for love and ask her out on a date, she has received some introductions that are less conventional.

Some hopefuls have attached nude photos of themselves or provided information about their financial situations. She has received proposals from all over the world, including Nigeria, India, Turkey and Bulgaria. Numerous bankers have contacted her.

“Some of them had obviously done their research, you know, gone on my Facebook and looked at my background,” she said. “Some of them are quite poetic.”

But far from getting angry at her father, she said she was “touched”.

“At first I was entertained by it, and then that entertainment turned into the realisation and conviction that I am a really lucky girl to have such a loving daddy, because it’s really sweet of him to do something like this as an expression of his fatherly love,” she said.

While Ms Chao knew that her father would go public denying the union, she did not know he would offer the reward. “I think the HK$500 million really came as an afterthought.”

Even though Mr Chao has not accepted the union, Ms Chao said she loved her father and that they had a good relationship. “It’s not that he can’t accept me,” she said. “It’s that he can’t accept how society would view me and the status that it would incur. Marriage is still a form of social status. I do understand him. I understand why he’s doing this.”

She added: “But I don’t appreciate getting 1,500 emails.”

Ms Chao, who also runs Haut Monde Talent, a model management and PR firm, met her partner, Sean Yeung, who also goes by Sean Eav, while they were working together.

Ms Chao she was drawn to Ms Yeung because she was straightforward, not manipulative, honest, had strong family values and cared about her friends deeply. “I’m very happy when I’m with her,” she said. Ms Chao, who has dated men and women, said she has always been open and honest about her relationships to her family.

However her mother has not accepted her sexuality. Ms Chao recalled that when she told her mother about a relationship with a girl when she was 16 years old, her mother “banged her head against the wall, literally”.

Although they have become more visible in recent years, members of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community in Hong Kong are still largely not accepted by the vast majority of the population.

Ms Chao believes gay rights are picking up, but said work was still needed on the social mentality. Mr Chao is not so conventional himself. He made headlines in 2003 when his Rolls-Royce caught fire while he and his girlfriend were inside.

The tycoon has never married and once claimed to have had “intimate relations” with about 10,000 women

5 Reasons to Marry an Older Man

5 Reasons to Marry an Older Man

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Older men are the stuff of high school dreams. 
"I hoped that an older man would be bolder and more knowledgeable about the world," says Levi. "He'd be someone who could show me the world (very Aladdin, I know). Someone who could expose me to things I had never experienced."

And that's just it. Older men can open doors you've never even considered. If they're your thing, you're in good company. 


Here are 5 reasons to date and marry an older man:

1.) He can teach you things. Older people just know more. He's had 10, 20, or 30 years more to grow and change, and learn. That matters.

"One of the first things I remember him teaching me was how to send back food at a restaurant," Levi says. "It opened my eyes to a better way of living and not settling. It showed me in a very tangible way that I deserved what I asked for and that it could be excellent or better. And he loved me enough to want that for me, too."

2.) An age difference is not always such a big deal. While a decade may seem HUGE when you are 19 or 20, that fades. And quickly.

"I don't consider a 10-year gap to be significant, especially in middle age," says "Dr. Romance" Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., psychotherapist, and author of Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. "Most women base their romantic relationships on emotional connection rather than physical appearance."

It's so true. Women I know who are married to men a decade older have no problem introducing their friends to their husbands, and he has no problem getting in the mix. Every month matters in elementary school, but it's just not true later in life.

3.) Your maturity levels match. If you get married young, the fact is, a 10-year age difference won't seem all that significant. Guys tend to mature more slowly than women, so a 35-year-old man might be ready for all the things that a 25-year-old man just wouldn't be. If you are looking for marriage and the whole package, an older man might be where it's at.

Most of my friends are married to men who are two or three years older. It's a small age gap but can feel enormous when it comes to maturity. One friend jokes that she and her husband never would have gotten together had the age difference not existed. He simply would have been too immature.

4.) The se'x is better. Yes, I know this goes both ways. Younger men have stamina. But older men. Well, they've got years. And years count.

Writer Jennifer Leckstrom, who is married to a man 25 years her senior, said it perfectly in aYour Tango essay about her marriage: "Unlike with younger guys, the experience with Tom was more about the two of us than just him and his desires," she explains. "Maybe like a fine wine, men too, improve with age. With him, I felt like I went from vi'rgin to vixen in record time."

5.) He's established. No one likes a gold digger, but looking for someone who's done his time in the early career years is not a bad thing. If a guy you're interested in is a doctor or lawyer, for example, getting him when he's older and past the associate or resident levels (which typically come with ultra long hours) is ideal. For many people in intense careers, things start to ease up in their 40s when they're more established. THAT is the time for families. So for women looking to settle down now, finding an older man can be perfect.

Age is just a number. Or so they say. Love is going to triumph one way or another, and while some may look down on a significant gap, plenty of relationship experts do not.

"As long as both parties are adu'lt, and the couple have talked about the age difference and the future possibilities, I don't make judgments about their ages," says Tessina.



Are you married to someone older than you?

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How To Last Longer In Bed

How To Last Longer In Bed: The Best Ways To Make Her 



 

So maybe you’re not the “One Minute Man” Missy Elliot rapped about in 2001, but if you’re still looking for ways to have longer-lasting erec'tions (and longer-lasting se'x), you’re not alone. Se'x experts agree that it’s one of the most common things men are insecure about—but they’re not always using the right methods. “Of course all men have their own extending technique, from thinking about football or baseball or counting backwards in their heads,” says A.L. Harper, a se'x expert and former editor of a UK-based men’s magazine.

“However, these distraction techniques can result in making them worse in bed because they aren't paying attention to their partner's pleasure.” If you’re curious to find out the real ways to last longer, we’ve asked three top industry experts to share the advice they give their clients—no Vi'agra required.

1. Study the Ka'ma Sut'ra. “There is a technique mentioned in the K'ama Su'tra for delaying ejac'ulations that basically comes down to training yourself to last longer,” says Harper. She instructs men to start slowly—with no more than one “in/out” stroke every three seconds. “He should then build more strokes slowly over the course of 4 or 5 minutes, until he is moving one stroke per second.” If the man starts to feel like he is going to come, he should stop and “hold himself inside his partner until he feels in control again. Then he begins the whole process again.”

2. Get Out of Your Head. “Performance anxiety is the number one killer of sustaining an ere'ction,” says s'ex coach Dr. Patti Britton, a board-certified Clinical Se'xologist. “Shift your thinking to a more confident inner voice, as opposed to a worried voice.” Britton explains that a “self-debilitating mindset” is what shuts guys down. “When you begin to feel anxiety, the strategy is to stop, take a breath, and then focus on how things feel in the body. Stay out of your head and get into your body—focus on the feelings that your body is producing for you.”

3. Change things up. The best thing to do if you’re getting close to the edge? Alter your speed, advises human se'xuality expert Catherine Toyooka, the founder of Catherine Coaches s'ex workshops. “Try teasing her. Take your penis out and rub just the head of it se'nsually up and down and between her labi'a. Vag'inas have lots of nerve endings clustered in the lower portion of their va'ginal c'anal, so this move will still be very enjoyable for her to experience.”

4. Slow down! “Instead of the fast-paced jack-hammering style that many men are so fond of, try taking your time,” says Toyooka. Se'x at a slower pace leads to a more connected experience for both people. “It’s more sen'sual because you are caressing and exploring the rest of her body. Kiss her neck, nuzzle her ear, let your hands gently explore her body,” she says. The most important thing to keep in mind that will help you last longer? Enjoy the journey that leads to your destination.


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5. Try a different kind of exercise. Dr. Britton suggests exercising the PC muscles (or pubo'coccygeus muscle, if we’re being technical). They’re the ones that stretch from the an'us to the urinary sphincter. To figure out how to squeeze and contract the PC muscles, try stopping your urine flow while you’re in the middle of pe'eing. You’ll know it when you try it. Three sets of 15 reps per day should do the trick. “Daily PC muscle reps help a guy to literally pump himself up. Squeezing those muscles triggers good blood flow to the pe'nis, which in turn leads to mental confidence,” she says.

6. Practice the 7 and 9 method. Similar to the Ka'ma Su'tra method (mentioned in no. 1, above), Harper recommends her favorite— the 7 and 9 technique. “It's 7 fast in/out strokes, followed by 9 slow in/out strokes. Then repeat: 7 fast, 9 slow, 7 fast, 9 slow,” she says. “This rhythm is good for guys who don't last quite as long as their partner needs, and good for the ladies as it establishes a good rhythm for her sti'mulation too.”

7. Don’t go deep. “If you feel that continued deep thrusting will bring on an all-too-quick org'asm, try penetrating only the lower portion of her va'gina—in other words, take more shallow thrusts,” says Toyooka. “Also, alternating between shallow and deep thrusts can make you last longer, and will also make the experience a lot more fun!”

8. Squeeze. Britton recommends that men explore the “squeeze technique.” “There are three areas of the pe'nis where squeezing or applying pressure can help a man sustain or maintain an ere'ction.” For the first, make a tight ring with the index finger and thumb around the base of the shaft when it is ere'ct, simulating a pen'ile ring. It can help a man keep blood flow to the engorged p'enis. The second: Apply pressure on the underside of the head. “That’s a male hot spot, densely packed with nerves,” Britton says. And finally, pressing on the “perineum,” or the spot between the an'us and the base of the tes'ticles. “It will feel like the tip of the nose. If he presses with his finger, it will congest the flow of ej'aculate and help quell the early release of the er'ection.”

13 Lies Every Man Wants to Hear From a Woman

Lies Every Man Wants to Hear From a Woman



 

Today’s woman has forgotten how to keep a man. The divorce rate globally is skyrocketing. A few decades ago, the lifelong goal of most women was to get married to a good man and raise a family.




Now, amidst the hunger for a career, equality, affirmative action and equal opportunity, this classic idea of the homemaker is almost a forgotten career choice.


It is no wonder that Kenyan legislators (obviously male dominated) passed a new law allowing polygamy. Well, whether you have been hunting without success, struggling to keep your man, trying to get your man back or even trying to be a second or third wife, there are a few lies that every man wants to hear.

Ingredients:
1. Please, Thank You, Sorry
2. You Make Me Laugh
3. This is Steve, Steve meet my friend George
4. You are so different
5. You make me feel comfortable
6. No one else makes me feel this way
7. I have never…
8. Thinking of You
9. I have had a wonderful time
10. Wasn’t It you I told that story?
11. I’m not Mad
12. I am so Confused
13. You Made Me This Way
14. You’re the best

The Recipe:

1. Please, Thank You ,I am Sorry


Standard British etiquette works. Everywhere.
Use it, even if you don’t really mean it.
Manners set you apart from all the other ratchet chicks he’s been hanging out with, makes you classy, special.

2. You make me laugh


Every man has been told the fable that women laugh at jokes told by men they like, good or not.
“You make me laugh” is a trigger, tells him, I like you, he has been conditioned to believe this is so.

3. This is Steve, Steve meet my friend George


This is when you are with the A man, and you need to introduce him to the other man in your life. Or your friend. Or whatever.
From Steve’s perspective, you called him by his name, and made the other man “the friend”, declaring him the winner of the cock fight, at least for that moment.


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4. You are so different


LOL. I never understand why men buy this one.
But all men like being told they are sooooooooo different from other men, they are special, unique.
He feels selected, chosen, elevated, placed on your pedestal.

5. You make me feel so comfortable


This has psychologically been proven to trigger a sense of long term passion.
Pick your moment to use this line very carefully; as it sends some packing if said too soon, said just right and you have him for life.

6. No one else makes me feel this way


Use sparingly. 
This can evoke vigorous emotions and untold reactions in some men.
Say it in bed as well. Say it once. He will remember it forever.

7. I have never ….


I have never … is a very simple but extremely effective game to play.
Run with it as far as you can!
Make it seem like you are Africa and he is Livingstone or Speke, he discovered all the rivers and the mountains, the hills, valleys and lakes, forget about all the others that have been running around everywhere.
Take him to your local introduce him to your favorite waiter. Claim to have never introduced anyone else.
He came by at the salon you told your favorite hairdresser his name, claim you have never let any other man see you at the salon. 
He meets you up with the girls and you told every one who he is, claim you have never let anyone meet your friends but he is different, he makes you feel comfortable and no one else makes you feel that way.
Get the idea?
This makes him feel special, stroke his ego.

8. Thinking of you


Men are dogs, they need training. Pavlov’s dog was trained through repetitive triggers.
Train your man the same way.
For example, if you want him to always think of you at 8 pm every day, for two weeks, every other day at exactly 8 PM, send him the text, “Thinking of You”.
By the end of the second week of doing this, he will always think of you at 8:0 1 whether he wants to or not.

9. I have had a wonderful time


He wants to satisfy you. The illusion that he makes you happy makes him happy.

10.I HAVE HAD WONDERFUL TIME....
Sadly, men always, eventually, get comfortable.
This lie is to stir things up.
When he’s been getting some on the regular and is getting lazy as all men do, he begins to slip up.
Even though the two of you may have been in your honeymoon phase and have been inseparable, the idea that you have shared tales with another man and he is so close to you as to impress a resemblance between them will jolt him to some form of action.

11. I’m not mad


This one is about restraint.
You go out and he is checking out the competition? Don’t say a word about it, don’t be mad.
That ish will Mess. Him. Up.


12. I am so confused


This is especially true when you are being chased by other men.
It is closely followed by I have a lot on my mind.
These ones buy you time momentarily but be careful, they may not hold out for too long.
This lie strings him along as you decide what to do.

You Made Me This Way


And after all is said and done, he still needs to feel like he was the centre of your existence.
All the things you are now, he made you that way.
This lie can evoke responsibility, and comebacks…

13. You’re the best


Most people think this is the right thing to say during the relationship.
But men know this may not be true, and may stir insecurity instead.
This lie is best used after its over, and you want to keep ties.
He believes this lie at this point.
He thinks you have evaluated the relationship from outside its confines, and without selfishness, crowned him the best.


Lie with your body and mind. Remember, the heart is not so smart.

7 Se'x Positions Men Love .The bedroom moves that men love

7 Se'x Positions Men Love 


The bedroom moves that men love: try these se'x positions tonight. 


Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these se'x positions that men love. Ultimately, se'x is about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways. 



1. Woman on Top:

Ask your guy what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and we're betting he'll say it's pleasing you. This s’exy position puts you in the driver's seat, and that's exactly where he wants you. Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what you like, leaving his hands free to roam. The bonus? He loves having your curves in full view…so flip on the lights and give him a show. 





2. Missionary:

This standard go-to is a favorite because it puts him in control, while still being intimate: your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he's in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best s’ex is like a conversation, and missionary allows you to communicate with your bodies. 






3. Reverse Cowgirl:

This reverse variation of the woman on top position is the best of both worlds for your guy. It gives him the s’exy view he gets during doggie style but it puts you in control. This position doesn't allow for a ton of touching or eye contact, but it's a nice contrast to some of the more classic, romantic positions. If you're craving a connectionflash a look back at him while you're doing your thing—it'll drive both of you over the edge. 



4. Doggie Style:

This rear entry positions puts him in control, allowing him to call the shots and to go at the speed that's best for him. Plus, it allows for deeper penetration, making him feel like king in the bedroom. Some women love the intense full feeling, but if it feels like too much, let him know. Communication is key to enjoying s’ex and experiencing the full psychological benefits of physical intimacy. 



5. Standing Up:

Getting it on while standing up is probably not your go-to move, but it's perfect for that sweaty, gotta-have-you-now s’ex that'll make him feel irresistible. Whether he's bending you over the new kitchen table or you're steadying yourself against the wall, this spontaneous position is perfect for a quickie.

Two Nigerian Gay Pastors Arrested For Having Intercourse In A Hotel Room In Lagos

Two suspected gay pastors, Prince Ejimole, 26, and Lawrence Udo, 25, have been arrested and charged to court after they were allegedly caught having sex in a hotel room at Ijeshatedo, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria.

They are facing charges of having carnal knowledge of each other against the order of nature before the presiding Magistrate, Mrs A. O. Awogboro.

The pastors were arrested at a popular hotel at Ijeshatedo where it was alleged they usually lodged to have sex with each other.

Sources at the hotel said the duo usually lodged in the hotel under the guise of praying.

They were arrested after Pastor Ejimole and Udo allegedly lured another member of the congregation, Chidiebere Mozie, who needed prayers to the hotel. But they allegedly forced him to have sex with them.

Mozie alleged that when they got into the hotel room, Pastor Ejimole started sucking his breast and was pulling out his penis as well to penetrate into his anus.

He raised the alarm that attracted the hotel management who had allegedly been suspicious of their activities.

The management contacted the police at Ijeshatedo division who arrested them and took them to the station.

A four-count charge of conspiracy, unlawful carnal knowledge, etc. was slammed on them.

The first count reads: “That you, Prince Ejimole and Lawrence Udo on the same date, time and place did have carnal knowledge of each other against the order of nature.”

The second count reads: “That you, Pastor Prince Ejimole on the same date, place and time did gross indecency by sucking Chidiebere Mozie’s breast, attempting to suck his penis and having carnal knowledge of him.”

The police said the offence the defendants committed was contrary to sections 516, 214 and 516 of the Criminal Code Laws of Lagos State of Nigeria 2004.

They pleaded not guilty.

The presiding Magistrate, Mrs Awogboro, granted Ejimole bail in the sum of N250,000 with two sureties, while Udo was granted bail in the sum of N100,000 with one surety.

TOP 10 MOST ROMANTIC PLACES ON EARTH

TOP 10 MOST ROMANTIC PLACES ON EARTH

10. Tahiti, French Polynesia

A single-room, thatched-roof bungalow overlooking the crystal blue waters of a tropical beach is just about the most romantic place you can hide away from the world. That’s why Tahiti, an island in French Polynesia, is synonymous with lover’s paradise.

9. Taj Mahal, India

A mausoleum crafted out of love is certainly worthy of a little adoration by modern day lovers. The magnificent beauty of the Taj Mahal can be witness each and every day as the sun sets in hues of tickled pink, bathing the structure at sunset. The Taj Mahal was built by the Mughal emperor, Shah Jahan in tribute to his third wife, Mumtaz Mahal.

8. Grand Canyon, Arizona, USA

Leave your partner in love speechless with a trip to a true world wonder. The Grand Canyon is ideal for adventurous couples who are up for hiking its steep, carved stone cliffs. Pack a picnic, and once you reach the top, you can reward your team work by witnessing the “out of this world” view!

7. The Maldives

Nothing says romance like floating with your infatuation in the blues and turquoise waters of a deserted lagoon, bathed in bright, warm sunshine. The Maldives, islands tucked away in the Indian Ocean, are all about uncovering a new level of intimacy—whether it’s snorkeling in the underwater coral gardens or strolling hand-in-hand along the endless beaches!
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6. Belize

In Belize it’s difficult to tell what’s warmer—the embrace of your beloved or the embrace of this alluring country with its azure waters, endless beaches, lush green tropical forests, and sultry climate—either way, your stay on these sandy shores will ignite new passion or inspire old ardor.

5. Bora Bora, French Polynesia

You will fall in love over and over again on the island Bora Bora. Here the island beckons you to forget your troubles as you literally melt into the warm, blue water, let the sunny skies kiss your body, and relish a little rest and relaxation (and perhaps a fancy cocktail or two) with your special someone.

4. Venice, Italy

The spirit of love is legendary in Venice, Italy. It draws people in love from all around the world who do like the Italians—embracing in the street, floating in gondola up the Grand Canal, sharing a gelato, and finding tucked away stone doorways for a little canoodling.

3. Casablanca, Morocco

There’s a good reason why one of the most romantic films ever takes its name from this particular city. Morocco with its sweeping deserts, stunning beaches, snow-capped mountains, and charming villages embraces lovers and then weaves its romantic spell. Trust us; be it sand, snow, or surf, Morocco promises something special for every couple.

2. Santorini, Greece

If you’re looking for the most spectacular sunset on earth, a perch atop the unique, cliff-top village on the island of Santorini will take your sweetie’s breath away. This is where you can grab a delectable seafood feast at one of the many outdoor white and blue restaurants—while you watch the bright rays of the sun reflect and then disappear into the azure waters of the Aegean.

1. Paris, France

Ooo la la, the city of the city of lights, charming cafes, wine, art, and of course, love awaits couples in gay Paris. Even a whisper calls to mind magical evenings spent lingering with a glass of wine, or two, at an outdoor bistro. Or a nighttime boat cruise with the perfect view of the grand Eifel Tower. Wherever the streets of Paris take you, it will certainly be an unforgettable experience for you and your lover.

19 Places To Find A Good Man

19 Places To Find A Good Man 






1. Business Conferences – While the first thing that comes to mind is that men are only looking for an extra-marital fling on business trips, there are still quite a few single, ambitious, smart men at seminars and business conferences. Since the atmosphere is business, it’s very easy to approach and ask a man who he is and what he does. Meet greet and start up a conversation… Just be sure to check his left hand for the presence of a ring or tan lines.

2. Bars – We’re not talking about the fancy, trendy bars like the 40/40 Club where everyone is fabulous and the women are even more fabulous in their stilettos and party dresses. The local bar/tavern in a nice neighborhood attracts mostly people with adams apples. Sports bars, in particular, are best. Bars boast of games, pool tables and even slot machines depending what town you are in. The big wide, flat screens, usually turned to sports coverage, offers a variety of conversation-starter topics.



3. SPORTS GAMES – Don’t go trying to go be a groupie at the local NBA game.. Instead use sites like Meetup.com to find adult sports leagues in your area! A lot of couples have met like this.

4. VOLUNTEER GROUPS – If a man is volunteering his time to help out the elderly or the homeless chances are he has a really good heart.. A surprising number of newlyweds met this way.

5. THE WORKPLACE – You hear people say don’t mess around where you work at, but what better place to get to know someone than the workplace.. You can tell his work ethic, you know his pay grade, and you can even watch him from a distance before you make yourself noticed.

6. CHURCH – The house of the lord is a excellent place to find a good man because any good man first has his foundation set in God.. However, every man at your church is not a good man. You have to get to know the man of God the same way you would a man you met at another place.. After, all, Men of God are still humans that make mistakes

7. Right in Your Own Backyard – Your neighborhood is filled with good men. Walk your dog around the block or go jogging. You might run into Mr. Right.

8. Family - Ask your family members to introduce you to eligible men they know.. This might be old fashioned, but it works.
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9. SCHOOL CAMPUS – We are all adults here so I’m definitely not talking about your local middle school or high school. I’m talking college campus’ where many adults roam from building to building and class to class.. A very high number of successful couples was college sweethearts.

10. Every year, NBA All-Star Weekend comes to a town, and all people think about are the groupies… The groupies are on to something… They realize something that the respectable women don’t know… There will be thousands of eligible, good men flocking to this major sporting event… A very high number of couples has met this way.

11. Festivals – The Essence Music Festival, known as the “party with a purpose” is one of a kind. With live music from top entertainers and very popular speakers, the festival draws over 200,000 men every year… Get yourself down to New Orleans this year.

12. Hardware Store – A hardware store or home-improvement store like Lowe’s is a great place to meet men, plus it’s easy to strike up a conversation with a man about any given product. Chances are he knows more than you when it comes to the tools and will be more than happy to answer your questions.

13. Childhood Friends – Did you ever think that Little William, who you used to beat up would grow up to be such a handsome man? Childhood friends can make very good mates.

14. The Grocery Store – Everyone has to eat. Single men have to do their own grocery shopping. So don’t go to the store with scarf on your head thinking no one will see you… A good man may bump into you in the health-food aisle.

15. The Gas Station – Everyone does have to stop and get gas eventually. Even if you don’t need gas go in there and grab a snack or a bottle of water… Mr. Right might see you walking out.

16. Throw a House Party – If you’re single throw a party at your home. Tell everyone to invite all of their male acquaintances and women too. Pull out the barbecue grill, serve some hor’dourves, have a wine tasting or simply a nice dinner party… Since you’re the hostess you will definitely need to introduce yourself to the handsome man across the room… Even better make him a drink.






17. The Internet – Social Media sites like Facebook and Instagram are good for more than just updating your status and looking at other people’s photos. Plenty of single people are on these sites just waiting to meet someone they can fall in love with.

18. Don’t forget about the coffee house – Lots of men love Starbucks just as much as women… Men sit there drinking coffee and reading newspapers… Walk in there and get yourself a Caramel Frappuccino and an excellent man to go. Don’t take me literally and move too fast, I did not say coffee and a one-night stand… Remember we are talking about catching a good man.

19. Steakhouses – Single men often times crave a good gourmet steak and are often seen dining by themselves at steakhouses. Instead of getting a table most of them have a drink and eat their steak at the bar… You, on the other hand, should definitely not sit at the bar… Instead sit at a table next to the bar… Also this may feel a bit weird, but do not take your girlfriend with you, as men are more comfortable approaching a woman when she is alone.