How to GET YOUR EX BACK

Getting Your Ex Back
How to GET YOUR EX BACK









We have all been in one or a couple of relationships. Some of which were amazing and others which were unbearable. If you were asked to lock all your exes out of the world with no food and no means of survival you gladly would but there is this one who still makes the spark glow in you. Someone who would make you reconsider your options. You broke up with your ex and now you want him back in your life. Sometimes you might be the only party with an interest of mending and bringing the pieces back together but it is possible to make him fall for you all over again though this time it might be a little bit more than before.

Reasons for the break-up

Why did you break up? Was it because of the long distance between you? Was it because he cheated or was there some form of physical assault between the two of you? This question will help you to recall all the good and bad deeds that your ex did to you.
Make a list in form of a column and write the good and things about your relationship and compare them.

Identify the reason as to why you want to get back with your ex. Is it because you are lonely? Is it because you pity him for the state you left him in when you broke up? Is it because you love him and still think you can still work things out?
This will be a wise step to start from before you choose whether you should begin your efforts to get him back or not.
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The person you were when you met.
When you first met, he fell for you because you were easy to talk to, you were funny, integral, outgoing and all but with time you changed. Identify the parts of you that changed and correct them. If you got a different and bad set of friends you should be in a position to change. Be positive about getting him back and be happy. Remember that if he gets back to you well and good but if he does not, then you were not meant to be.

Your past.
There is this dress he used to compliment every time you wore it. Wear it again. 

 

5 Things You Should Never Do To Your Partner

5 Things You Should Never Do To Your Partner

Have you ever reasoned out that our actions, little as it could be or seem sometimes, could actually be our greatest undoing and the cause for everlasting regret?

Do you aspire to live happily ever after with that Romeo or Julliet of yours?



Here are five (5) things you never should do to your partner to enjoy a blissful and peaceful marital sojourn.

Comparing Your Partner With Someone Else

It is never a good or brilliant idea to compare your partner with another person. Whether for fun sake, complimentary sake, derisory sake or spiteful sake, it doesn't always go down well with the significant other and it doesn't end well as well, too. If anything, it creates an impression of your partner being inadequate and it's nothing but a recipe for emotional demarcation and a drifting connection. Just so you know, a negative comparison with your ex (probably how he buys you islands, jets, Egyptian hair, Mexican shirts or how sweet her voice is, etc) is simply a good way to worsen your relationship; and next time you experience such urge, bite your tongue (real hard) for 10 seconds.

Constant Lies

Lies are never welcome guests in a relationship. They only breed distrust, hurt and irritation. Seriously, the way some lie, even the devil would be forced to marvel. Building a relationship on the foundation of lies; moulding and patching it with lies, would only end up crumbling on lies and probably crushing a life.

Being An Irritable Source Of Nagging

Every person looks towards his/her partner as a source of happiness when sad, comfort when distressed, calm when angry, encouragement when down, and smile when stressed up. However, no one enjoys being in the presence of someone who nags one like (s)he is under the influence of some territorial powers. Frustrating the life out of your partner is a liberal invitation for emotional distantness and eventual separation.

Showing Your Partner Little or No Respect

Respect for your partner here doesn't imply reverencing him/her like: His royal majesty or Her royal highness, etc. It means giving him/her regard by not doing the things that (s)he detest.

Badmouthing Him/Her To Others

Involving a third, fourth or hundredth party in your relationship should always be done with caution and prudence. The 'who' to tell and 'what' to say could make or mar your relationship. However, constantly badmouthing and negatively painting your partner bad to outsiders not only hurt your partner when they have the knowlegde of your action and words but ultimately sacrifices the relationship on the alter of unwise behaviour. If, as a matter of fact, you discover that you can't just break the habit or you seem to derive some pleasure from this, you might need more than a deliverance, you need a total overhauling.

If you've been engaged in any of the above or have a contrary opinion, kindly share your thoughts.

FACT ABOUT SEEX, DO U BELIEVE?

During s3x, what bring about excitement to the man is the ability of the v@gina to hold the pen1s tight and give it that sensation at the tip. There are thousands of unseen balls in the v@gina that gives it this ability of tightness. These balls continue to burst each time a girl engages herself in s3xual inter course and the more the balls burst, the less elastic the v@gina becomes rendering it not being able to hold the pen1s tightly during sex.


A girl who changes guys like the way she changes her pads stands the risk loosing more balls in Her v@gina. Such girls always have their v@gina so loose to the extend that, guys with smaller pen1s are not able to satisfy them and their partners don't also enjoy them during s3x making them to now play ''away matches''.
Have u ever asked yourself why most guys are fond of cheating on their partners? The truth is that they don't always get the kind of excitement they need from their partners. A girl who tries to abstain is likely to maintain her v@gina in good shape for a long time and is also likely to keep her man to herself without cheating setting in.

20 Easy Ways to Make a Lady Madly Fall in Love

Anyone who’s experienced heartbreak knows that there’s no magic formula for making someone fall in love with you. (Or in some cases, back in love with you). However, you can up your chances of making that special lady swoon by following a few of these simple tips.
1) Be All Ears
Women like to work out their problems. Offer a bended ear and fight the urge to provide a solution or rush her to the point. She just wants you to listen while she vents, explains or just muses.
2) Compliment Her
A lot of women put a lot of effort into looking nice for their date. Offer a flattering remark on her time well spent and she will be delighted that you noticed.
3) Throw a Pep Rally
Act as her cheerleader on life’s sidelines. Support her choices, feelings, successes and failures and she will appreciate (and lean on) her biggest fan.
4) Remember that Chivalry Is Not Dead
Man the door, pull the chair and wait for her to be seated. Treating her like a lady never goes out of style.
5) Focus All Eyes on Her
Focus on her with attention and interest. Extracurricular gazing makes you look bored and rude.
6) Leave a Message
Whether it’s your first date or the tenth, leave a message asserting how much you enjoyed your time with her and how you can’t wait to see her again.
7) Growing Love
Bring or send her flowers because it’s Tuesday or for no reason at all. Better yet, send them to work to make her feel beautiful and appreciated.
8) Be Mr. Clean
You may not know it, but every time she picks up your wet towel or cleans beard clippings from the sink, the romance wears off.
9) Play the Music Man
Learn how to play the guitar or hone your singing voice. Ladies melt over the simultaneous vulnerability and bad boy coolness of confident rock stars. No musical talent? Demonstrate passion in a hobby that you love.
10) Clown Around
Hone your funny bone to encourage her to feel comfortable, let loose and get silly.
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11) Drop It Like Its Hot
Shrug off the small things and let it go. A diffusing attitude and cool demeanor is always a welcome response to pending crisis.
12) Keep it All In The Family
Woo her friends and family, too. Her circle will be the first to comment on your worthiness of her attention.
13) Take the Consultative Approach
Seek her advice, even if you don’t really need it. Consulting her shows that you appreciate her opinion and that she is useful and comforting.
14) Zip It
If you aren’t complimenting members of her inner circle, zip it. It’s an instant turnoff to hear a negative opinion about those that have been in her life long before you came along.
15) Get Lost
While prioritizing her in your life is important, she can’t be the only thing going on. Spend time with others and do your own thing to make the heart grow fonder.
16) Slow It Down
Court her with a slow dance whenever possible. While lovely at cousin Ed’s wedding or at a jazz club on Friday night, surprise her with a turn around the kitchen during macaroni and cheese for impromptu romance.
17) Timing is Everything
Arrive on time for your date. Although traffic and miscalculations can be forgiven, consistently showing up late sends the signal that her time isn’t as important as yours.
18) Remember that Family Matters
Introducing your new ladylove to your family will demonstrate how important she is in your life. The way you treat your family presents a good gauge of what she can expect in your courtship.
19) Surprise!
Catch her unaware with that fetching coat she has been eyeing, a message on her work voicemail or a note in her bag lunch to keep her guessing and excited.
20) Soup for the Soul
Take care of her when she is under the weather with a care package of cough drops, chicken soup, or a get well note. She may not feel (or look) her best, but these moments will show that you are in it to win it.

Shock on MEN as RESEARCH shows SIZE does MATTER!!

When it comes to one night stands size does matter, according to a new study – but it’s not what you expect.
Women prefer men with a wider man hood for a casual fling the research from UCLA in Los Angeles found, while the preferred length stayed the same.
But it’s not all bad news for those lacking in the man hood department, because girls are more likely to prefer something thinner when they’re choosing a long-term partner.



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
The results were determined by 41 women who were asked to examine various pen1s models and choose their favourite. For the experiment, 33 different sized phalluses were made on a 3D printer and the women were asked to choose which one took their fancy.They ranged in length and girth with the smallest one measuring just four inches with a circumference of two and half inches.On the other end of the scale was an eight and half inch figure, which was seven inches in circumference.
When it came to one night fumbles, the models with the biggest girths were chosen.Length pretty much stayed the same, with the women preferring a six and half inch pen1s on average for one night stands and relationships.

 
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Researchers said: “They preferred larger-girth (but not longer-length) models for one-time partners than for longer-term partners.“Women’s s3xual selection may help explain why human pen1ses are unusually thick compared to other primates.” The findings were revealed at a meeting of the Association for Psychological Science.
A second study also found that women tended to overestimate the size of the organs in front of them.
Locally our interview with those who
have managed to sample men from various communities in Kenya ranked Luyha, Luo, Masai, Kisii as among the leading blessed breeds in Kenya while Indians, Kikuyu, Embu, Digo were ranked NOT SO BLESSED category. The Kamba and a Meru scored a cool AVERAGE!

Wayne Ronney's wife breaks down as her husband scores first England World Cup Goal. (photos)

Coleen Rooney breaks down in tears as husband Wayne scores first England World Cup goal

The WAG couldn't contain her emotions when Wayne managed to even the score out in the match - not that it helped overall unfortunately

Emotional moment


Coleen Rooney broke down in tears when she watched her husband Wayne score the first England World Cup goal tonight.

The stunning WAG - who flew out to watch the footballer with her brood this week - looked like she was sobbing as she watched the crowd erupt around her for her man.

Wearing a white blazer, the star held her hand up to her face to wipe away the tears, clearly overwhelmed by the moment (as we all were).

Uruguay ended up winning all the same, but Coleen tweeted after the match: "Gutted with the score, but so pleased @WayneRooney scored and his boys were here to see it!!"

Oh Coleen, we're welling up now too.

Coleen Rooney at moment of her hubby's goal and gets emotional afterwards


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The stunner arrived in Rio earlier this week with her sons and FIFTEEN suitcases, ensuring she had more than enough outfit choices.

However she rejected claims she was being ­extravagant as she had faith the Three Lions would last until July 13th.

Coleen, 28, faced a backlash on Twitter but hit back at critics and said: “There are more people in my party than me and the kids.... Nappies, formula milk, toys, bottles, wipes.

“And a lot of clothes to stay to the end of the tournament!! I have faith and support my country!”

Coleen was later seen wearing a pink bikini at the rooftop swimming pool . She was joined by parents Tony and Colette McLoughlin and brother Anthony – a keen football fan – as she soaked up the sun and stunning view. 

Via Daily Mirror

See The Romantic Way In Which This Guy Proposed to His Girlfriend In Front Of Family Members

See The Romantic Way In Which This Guy Proposed to His Girlfriend In Front Of Family Members

Marriage on your mind? She'll be telling the story of how you proposed to friends and strangers for the rest of her life, so put your own spin on this video and see how this brother uses one of the most fantastic methods of proposing to make sure it's memorable to his bride to be. Happy viewing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Man kills wife, posts dead body photos to Facebook

MIAMI, FL – A Florida man is in jail after telling police he killed his wife; then posted pictures of her dead body on Facebook.

On Thursday morning, 31-year-old Derek Medina posted “I’m going to prison or death sentence for killing my wife love you guys miss you guys take care Facebook people you will see me in the news” my wife was punching me and I am not going to stand anymore with the abuse so I did what I did I hope u understand me “.


Moments later a photo was posted of a woman on the floor with blood on her arm and face with the caption “Rip Jennifer Alfonso”.

Records show Medina and Alfonso were married in April 2012.

Police in Miami found a woman’s body in the couple’s home after Medina told them he shot his wife after a domestic dispute.

Bad Teacher caught having s3x with underage students

A North Texas teacher has been accused of having s3x with five high school students at her home. Arlington police said that the students are 18 or older, but it’s a criminal offense for teachers to have s3x with a student — no matter the age. Kennedale High School teacher Brittni Nicole Colleps, 27, of Arlington has been charged with five counts of having an inappropriate relationship between a student and teacher, a felony. She was jailed on $125,000 bail after turning herself in Monday morning. She posted bail later that afternoon.
Police said detectives learned that the teacher and students had exchanged text messages that included s3xually explicit pictures. The Kennedale school system’s attorney, Mike Leasor, said Colleps is an English teacher who’s now on administrative leave.

Pastor Caught sweating Live With A Miltary Officer’s Wife In His Bedroom

When I was growing up, the few times that such nonsense ever happened in my area, the men and women in the act were taken to pastors who prayed for them to be delivered from the spirit controlling and pushing them into such shameful act. But these days, some pastors are the one getting controlled by that same spirit. The Senior Pastor and general Overseer of Maximum Deliverance Church, Pastor John Simon was caught live in the act by policemen sent by a top military officer to secretly monitor the pastor and his wife…
Unfortunately, people are saying Pastor Simon may be using something on women he loves that confuses them and make them do anything with him. As seen in the photos, two woman, including the police officer’s wife were nudé in his bedroom with him when the soldiers busted him in the act. Now he is begging. Dear pastors, please talk to yourselves, this mess is getting too much!

Police Search For Woman Pictured Pointing Gun at a Toddler’s Head

A Facebook picture of a woman, apparently, pointing a gun at a toddler’s head has gone viral, sparking questions and outrage.

Is this real? Who is the woman? Is the child safe?

The picture was first sent to an anti-domestic violence blog, No Longer Victims. According to them, “I was sent this picture today by a friend who was very distressed to see it on her page. It apparently was posted to see if anybody could find the girl and if they cared well we do care and we have to find this baby as this scares the hell out of me.”

According to the Daily Star the photo first appeared on an Argentinian Facebook page about a month ago – and has since disappeared.

Internet myth de-bunkers say it could easily be photo-shopped as a prank. Regardless, this is disturbing and a cry for help for this child. The fact the person would even think to photo-shop an image putting a child’s life in danger is disgusting and concerning.

And this hasn’t been the first time; guns have been pointed at children in what are supposed to be “funny” pics. This image made the rounds last year on social media.

If anything, I hope this is a sick joke and prank. I’m glad it’s sparking outrage and creating buzz about child abuse and that this is not okay. I hope this baby is found, before it’s too late.

8 Things Every Woman Must Do For A Good Man

8 Things Every Woman Must Do For A Good Man



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It’s one thing if you meet a great guy, but it’s another thing if you are ready for him. Maybe you are having a ball living the single life and are not really in the mood to have a steady relationship. You could ruin a good man. So check yourself and see if you have these attitudes when it comes to guys and see if you are ready for a real relationship.

1. You are willing to put in the effort. 

You are willing to be consistent and interested in doing things on a regular basis with one person.

2. You will be OK with going with what he wants to do over what you want to do. 

That doesn’t have to be all the time. But basically, you must be willing to compromise.

3. You have to be a communicator.

Men can’t read your mind – they shouldn’t even try to! At the same time, you have to be willing to talk to him and relay information in a positive way. Remember, you are trying to build something here.

4. You have to be willing to talk about the future, and it would be helpful if you had a plan in mind for yourself.

Finishing your degree or starting your own business – it’s apparent that you have plans to do something with your life.

5. You are open to Mr. Right not being Mr. Perfect.

He’s going to have flaws, and you should be ready to let the little things slide and accept him as a man and not Prince Charming.

6. You are not ready for a relationship if you are in the mindset that a man will complete you.

You need to be a person that can stand on her own and be the navigator of her own ship tohappiness. Strong women attract good men. If he wants a meek woman, he wants someone he can control. That’s not healthy.


7. At the same time, are you ready to blend your life into someone else’s?

You should be willing to hang with his friends, be interested in his hobbies and be willing to support his career, at the same time that you are willing to share your interests, introduce him to your friends and expect support for your career.

8. You’ve left the luggage behind. 

You are over your ex. He is no longer a factor in your life(unless he is baby daddy and that is just contact for the kid).

Don’t play with a man that is sincerely looking for a committed relationship if you are not ready. Some day you will be ready and you will want one that hasn’t been ruined by a selfish, single, well, you know…

12 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You

12 Signs He Wants To Break Up With You

 

1. He becomes distant. He may be right there in front of you, but his mind is somewhere else.

2. He ignores you a lot and is constantly checking his phone. He wants to be someplace else and not with you.

3. He’s not returning phone calls or texts for days at a time instead of the hot and heavy frenzy that you are used to.

 

4. Starts fights for practically no reason. He’s snappy and not easy to get along with and is actually hoping to launch a fight big enough to cause a break up.

5. He’s not around much anymore. That’s just the way some of us are. Many guys would rather avoid you than tell you what’s up.

6. He’s inconsiderate and could turn downright mean. Your feelings don’t matter to him that much anymore, but he doesn’t have the nuggets to be straight with you.

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7. He works more than usual. It’s one place you aren't around (geez, unless it’s a workplace romance!) and it’s a place, well, he can hide.

8. He doesn’t include you like he used to when it’s time to hang with friends.

9. What you talk about is general. You aren’t having intimate conversations anymore.

 

 

10. The physical contact changes. Oh sure, he’ll take it if you offer, but the compassion and that loving touch is not there anymore.

11. He stops texting you so much and practically doesn't send any fun or silly messages anymore.

12. There’s no talk of the future. He’s already got one foot out of the door, and in fact, if you weren't paying his car note, he’d a hightailed it outta there sooner.

 

10 Signs He’s In LOVE With You – Otherwise STOP Fooling Yourself

10 Signs He’s In LOVE With You – Otherwise STOP Fooling Yourself



Guys may not be so good at expressing their feelings with spoken words, but there are telltale signs he does love you.

1. He gives up a night out with his boys to watch a movie with you! Wow. That means you really are important to him.

2. He cleans up after himself and even cleans up the apartment on his own once in awhile. This is huge and also means he’s probably a keeper!

3. He agrees to go with you to dancing orcooking classes. It’s a way of him showing he wants to truly bond with you.

4. He calls you for no reason. Dude is hooked. His nose is so deep he calls just to say “hi.” Talk to him. He doesn’t have anything to say. He just wants to hear your voice.

5. He remembers birthdays and anniversaries. He looks forward to the opportunity to showyou how much he cares.


6. He’s touchy feely even when he knows there is little chance of him getting the stuff that night.


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7. He can’t stand you being mad at him. Cross your arms and look at him like you’re angry and he’s not going to say, ”What did I do?” he’s going to ask, “What can I do to make it up to you?”

8. He introduces you to everyone – his boss, his friends, his dog and even his momma.

9. He has eyes only for you. Seriously. He will stare at your for no reason. He’s admiring his work. Yea – his. Men are possessive by nature and will show pride in what they have, and that includes their woman.


10. Let’s you have your way, even when, you know, he still ain’t gonna score the booty that night.

11. Bonus ...His favorite song might “Fortunate” byMaxwell

Spe'rm Facts Every Woman Should Know NOW

Spe'rm Facts Every Woman Should Know

 



 

 

 

 

 

 




Spe'rm, as teeny weeny as they are, can affect us in a HUGE way. There are about 200-500 million of those little guys in the average amount of sem'en produced each time a man ejacu'lates. 





Spe'rm are produced in the (Ladies, we've got to arm ourselves with knowledge so we can overcome the mighty sp'erm)

man's tes'tes — it takes 10 weeks for a single soldier to reach maturity.


Mature sp'erm can wait up to 2 weeks for their big day — they hang out in the epididymis - the coil like structure that runs across the top of each te'sticle.


If they are not eja'culated, those poor little s'perms are broken down and rea'bsorbed by the body.
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What to learn some more facts, like how long sp'erm can survive in a woman's body? Then read more


S'emen only contains about 10 percent sp'erm — the rest consists of enzymes, vitamin C, calcium, protein, sodium, zinc, citric acid and fructose sugar.SO IT WON'T MAKE A GIRL FAT!!!



 

 

 

 


What men eat can affect the taste of their sp'erm. Red meat, dairy products, onions, garlic, and coffee may not go down as well as foods containing natural sugars, such as fruits.


Healthy males produce about 70-150 million spe'rm a day — but when they eja'culate, they lose three times that — that's a tiring proposition.(why men get tired after s'ex)
When inside a woman's body, a sp'erm can live up to five days.


There are male and female spe'rm - the females are slower, but stronger, while the males are faster, but weaker.


By Mama Yao

Keep it cool after breaking up, this how you should behave to your EX.

Keep it cool after breaking up, this how you
should behave to your EX.

1.whenever he/she calls just pick their call and
inform them about your achievement and never
give them a chance to reconcile, never abuse
them.


2.You should never block them or unfriend them
in fFacebook and always update on your happy
moments and avoid updating on your miseries.

3.Be close to their friends so that he/she can feel
more jealous.

4.Never call their relatives.

5.whenever you meet them on the road greet
them and wish them well but never give them much
time,always look jovial.

6.Never be the one calling them.

7.If they try to make advances, say NO with
capital
letters and tell them to mind their own business.

8.Improve on your dressing and personal
appearance, once they see you they might even
commit suicide.

9.Date someone who has achieved more than
him/her and who is more handsome/beautiful
than them.

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SEE The Difference Between Making Love and Having Séx

SEE The Difference Between Making Love and Having Séx




 

Making love or having séx, are they the same thing? How do I differentiate love making from just having séx? This nature of questions comes up frequently from spouses and proffering answers to them may sometimes get all the parties confused if not well explained.

Basically, making love is when lovers are deeply in love with each other and indulge in all form of passionate séx, while having séx may just be about experiencing érotic pleasure down there. But oddly enough, both are very necessary in any marital relationship.

Almost always, ladies say they like making love simply because it involves lots of touching, long sénsual foré-play and the like; while many men can’t help but say they like having séx. However, gender generalisation may really not be true because many men prefer love making to having séx.

Although, making love and having séx may sound similar, there’s a big emotional difference...

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While making love involves the feeling of love, the spouse connection, love doesn’t really have to enter the equation when it comes to having séx. When couples have been in a relationship with each other for few months or years and they are deeply attracted to each other, such partners are probably making sweet love every time both of them get into bed. Making love is far more relaxed and slow paced than just having séx. It brings with it all the hot pleasure of séx and each time these two emotions come together, the pleasure would definitely be more intensified.And the best part about making love is that there is more room for communication, deep sharing and prolonged foré-play. Both partners would not only be comfortable with each other, they will be aware of each other’s moves and deepest desires, that naturally may not surface when having séx.In one word, séx is just a perfect fusion.

But when it comes to having séx, it is usually triggered off more from object of attraction, boiling arousal, séxual famishment, long abstinence, and prolonged denial. Foré-play is usually skipped; this type of séx is usually fast and furiously done in the car, under the shower, on a road trip, in a private office, at a friend’s place… anywhere secure and at least semi-comfortable! In this type of séx, you just want to have it to quench your arousal-hunger and endless torture and you wouldn’t care about awkward positions or cramps and sprains until the deed is done. While having séx is more of a pure carnal satisfaction, yet both make séxual intimacy in marriage spicy.

Sometimes, just having séx with your husband or wife can be more fun than making love. At the start of a marital relationship, it’s the séxual attraction that makes making love feel so séxy. But when couples make love all the time and avoid having fast, quickie and furious séx, the hot rush of passion may start to drop because neither of the partners is focusing on séxual attractiveness and triggers.

It is not uncommon that both may be deeply in love with each other yet séxually unsatisfied due to lack of what can be called the attraction. Sometimes, this may even lead to loss of lib-ido, lack of séxual desire, weak er-éction and some org-asms challenges.

You can still experience the best love making in séx and even stay loyal to each other while both of you exchange hot quick ideas and séxual thoughts while having séx.

Time of love making helps séxual romance to bloom; it gives room to communion well and also helps activate the mind while creating fantasies and imagination together. Spouses can even create new and exciting séxual memories.

Time of lovemaking is time of pure openness; it allows you to say what you are thinking and also makes you to talk like you’re having an affair. The séxiest way to talk freely with your partner is when you are most relaxed; it helps you to fantasise about passionate moments. In any successful relationship, couples need a perfect blending and balance of making love and having séx. So therefore, when a spouse feels like his or her partner is not emotionally connected in bed, that is not the moment to fret.

At times, just having séx can be a good thing too, just as long as you look for ways to bring lovemaking back into the bedroom now and then. Balance the equation; make love, have séx. The combination can be super!-

4 Benefits To Waiting Until Marriage To Have S3X

4 Benefits To Waiting Until Marriage To Have S3X



4 Benefits To Waiting Until Marriage To Have S3X

A popular pastor that I follow quotes that s*x can be considered 3 things, “gross, god, or a gift.” I believe this to be very true in our day, due to how s*x is overrated outside of marriage and underrated within marriage. It is gross to those that have been taught their entire life that s*x is bad and will cause people to look at you differently. For some it can be become a god, taking over your time, money, and relationships in order to appease it. But, it is God’s purpose for s*x to be seen as a gift. s*x is a gift to be shared with your spouse within the confines of marriage. My wife and I, by the grace of God, were both vi'rgins at the moment of saying, “I Do”, to one another on our wedding day.


Based on our first hand experience, here are 4 benefits of waiting until marriage to have s*x.
1. Keeps God at the center of your relationship
Honoring God in our relationship was my wife and I’s supreme goal and saying no to s*x made that goal easily accomplish-able. God is the inventor of marriage, which means you need Him in your marriage in order to have a healthy one. The stages before you say “I Do’ are the most crucial for laying a solid foundation for your marriage. Establishing a no s*x boundary will keep you focused on the important aspects of a courting relationship. Yes, the desire to have s*x will come, but with God, you will be able to have the strength to resist temptation. Trusting God in your relationship will help you to make a confident decision when you feel that person may be the one you desire to marry.

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

2. You learn how to talk it out before you walk it out
Communication has always been and will always be one of the key components of a healthy relationship. My wife and I had a long distance relationship, so the majority of our time spent before marriage was over Skype or on the phone. It was one of the hardest things I had ever done, but it was so worth it. We really learned each other on so many levels, and when we did see one another the boundaries we had set in place kept us focused on enjoying one another communicatively versus physically. Early s*xual satisfaction in a relationship delays you from discovering key areas of the relationship such as the ability to commit, compatibility, and agreement on future goals.
3. Protects you from being attached before you say “I Do”.
There are only a few things that can attach you to someone for the rest of your life and two of those is a child together and s*x. Children are a blessing from the Lord, but can also be a challenge to raise in hard circumstances. Protect yourself from this by agreeing to wait until marriage to have s*x. Another attachment that can form through s*xual activity is a soul tie. s*x was created by God to tie that couple together forever. But when done outside of marriage, the same effect happens. But now it’s an illegitimate tie versus a covenantal tie. s*x outside of marriage may feel good in that moment, but that’s all you will be left with after that night is over. If the relationship doesn’t work out, then breaking it off will be much easier if there hasn’t been a spiritual soul tie through s*x.
4. Incomparable s*x within marriage.
You can guarantee that if you abstain from having s*x during your courting stage that the value you place upon one another will last your entire life. This value adds volumes to your s*x life in marriage. Studies show that those that wait to have s*x are happier in the long run. I do not look at my wife like a piece of meat, but a treasure worth being handled with tender care. I proved that to her by denying my flesh, and leading the stand for our purity. Our wedding night was the most beautiful encounter as we exchanged our gifts to each other. Our marriage was established on a sure foundation with God in the center of it all. Married people have the best s*x!
Even if you have already had s*x in a previous relationship that doesn’t disqualify you from making the decision to abstain until you are married. If you are in a sexually active relationship now, but desire to change things, then pray for God to give you wisdom as you approach your girl/boyfriend. I guarantee you it will be worth it in the end.
Source: marriedandyoung.com

10 habits men consider 'un-ladylike' in women-must read

10 habits men consider 'un-ladylike' in women





A tongue-in-cheek definition of feminism is the act of women trying to emulate the bad habits of men. Indeed, Nairobian women are famed for their wild and aggressive behaviour when compared to their Ugandan, Rwandese and Tanzanian counterpart. Anyway, here are the ten habits that make men frown, sometimes unconsciously when they see a lady do them openly. There is a difference between a woman and a lady. One is polished and refined. The other is not. If you consider yourself a lady, desist from these... 


1. Scratching airtime card with nails

There is something violent about scratching airtime card with one’s nails. For women, there is carelessness to the whole process that men really frown upon. Scratching with a coin is the accepted standard. Scratching and then blowing the thin zinc coating away… Not very lady like. 


2. Dismantling, dusting and assembling your phone in a matatu

Common along Thika Road. Maybe it is because of the traffic jam boredom. You see a woman dismantle her phone and proceed to breathe into the screen to make it moist and then wipe it with the sleeves of their sweater. Or the collars of their blouses. Some use wet wipes. Then they assemble it back and sit back and relax like they have not committed a serious gender and environment crime. 


3. Taking beer from a can or bottle 
A woman drinking beer straight from the can is challenging established social norms and order. Drinking from the bottle, especially brown bottle is the ultimate statement of vul'garity. The world is so kind, it even made fancy beer and wine glasses for women. Why Nairobian women are disregarding defies any logical explanation.

4. Picking teeth using nails 
It is not uncommon to plant your fingers to fish a meat strand entangled annoyingly betwixt your teeth. Toothpicks were precisely invented to intervene when such happens. Men can be excused. But a woman who uses her nails to do so is inadvertently disgracing the feminine fraternity in the world. It is not cool. Certainly, not ladylike. 


5. ‘Kutoa’ lock and extreme sheng

It is a linguistic crime of enormous crime when a lady talks in Sheng that is spoken at the heart of Dandora. Words such as mtu wangu or the gratingly wrong mtu nguyaz are masculine. And kutoa lock (drinking alcohol in the morning or at any other time to nurse a hangover) is a male excuse to abuse alcohol. If you hear a woman ever utter the words, run. Run my brother. She is an addict.


6. Hanging jackets on restaurant seats
When you see a young woman take off her jacket or coat and hang it on the back rest of the bar room seat, you start asking why Mboya and Pinto were assassinated. It is only corrupt and bureaucratic civil servants who are allowed to hang their worn-out coats in bar room seats. 


7. Using too much chilli sauce and pepper You have probably seen a woman in those fast food chains pour chilli sauce on her fries and proceed to eat them without even a whiff of a sneeze or some incipient tears in her eyes. And if you are a man who can barely manage two drops of chilli sauce, you feel like giving her your man card to keep for you. 


8. Hooting in traffic 
Hooting in traffic is characteristic of aggressive male behavior. Now when women engage in provocative hooting, where does that leave us as a country? Cool down. 


9. Too much swearing 
Swearing is a province of frustrated individuals. African-Americans are allowed to swear all they can for all the slavery they went through warrants their rage to date. It does not make you any more civilized than it makes you American. Calm down. 


10. Dancing to riddims and ragga
Dancing to riddims is the height of self-hatred. The misogynist lyrics and exploitation should make any woman schooled enough to reject the backward and socially retrogressive music.

(((VIRAL VIDEO)) OMG BOYFRIEND FINDS HIS WIFE RED HANDED WITH ANOTHER MAN IN HIS OWN BED!!!! OOPS

OMG SHE IS CAUGHT red-handed and she is still arguing and defensive!!! oops



 

 

 

 

 

 

 
This video is shocking and will leave you shaken. kindly watch it. CLICK ON PAGE 2
 

This is my advice for all Ladies:READ AND SHARE

This is my advice for all Ladies:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm sorry If it will annoy you but it's the Truth, you really have to take
correction now.

 

Dear ladies,
Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age because you are looking for a perfect man, Something is wrong with you, Sorry to say that but it's true. Your propaganda magazine and TV shows tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely?.

Is it that there’s something wrong with about  African men,
OR there is something wrong with one African Woman?.Ladies, you certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every night at a beer palour or bar and
waiting for a guy to buy you a drink and take you home.

 

Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday nights does
not exactly make you look like a marriage material.

 

You want a man?. Invest in a good wardrobe, and dress responsibly. When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your kind of man.

 

Ladies please and please, stop going into a relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad and all men are Dogs, then it
will become a self fulfilling prophesy.

 

 

No man is perfect!. Even you!.
You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic ora carpenter?. If a carpenter was good enough to marry MARY THE MOTHER
OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST", why isn't one good enough for you?. Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the
potentials to be.

 

What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good
looking and non caring man?.

 

Do you want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your car with sunglasses covering your swollen eyes, you look out of the window
and see a happy couple in the slums holding hands and laughing like
newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage.

 

Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him. Your perfect
man is out there, believe, work and pray and you will get him..

 

By Joshua Mbaga

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Nigerians Offended After Singer Maheeda Posted Unclad Photos of Herselfwith a Nun Outfit AGAIN!!!

The controversial singer would do anything awkwardly possible to be in the news.
Quite a number of people were offended yesterday that controversial singer Maheeda, known for posting unclad pictures on social media, posed in a nun outfit.
The first set of pictures was not bad so but then Maheeda had to get people talking.
She removed the Nun tunic (the gown) and revealed a sexy lingerie-type costume underneath it while still wearing the nun white coif and black veil. Some felt she’s mocking the Catholic Church.

NIGERIA- MOTHER CATCHES SON AND DAUGHTER HAVING SE'X!!!!

A brother and sister in Bulawayo’s high-density suburb of Nkulumane 5 are living in shame after their stepmother allegedly caught them having siex. The incident happened on 26 December 2013.

The stepmother of the two minors, who are teens revealed that she caught them busy in the act in the early hours of Boxing Day in the sitting room where they sleep as she was making her way to the toilet to relieve herself.

In an interview last Thursday the shocked mother said her daughter (14) opened up about the siexual relationship with her brother (15) after she and her husband had thoroughly beaten the incestuous siblings.

“She told us that every night after everyone had gone to sleep the two of them would have se’x because her brother had proposed love to her. “She said he told her that it was natural for people who love each other to have se’x. I am amazed that she fell for that because she is an intelligent girl. “But we got nothing from the brother as he refused to co-operate. He denied that he was sleeping with his sister. He even called me a liar in front of his father and said I was falsely accusing him because I hate him,” she said.

The stepmother, who disclosed that she and her husband had been fed up with the disgraced boy and had concurred to send him to his biological mother who stays in Pumula South high-density suburb, said she was finding it difficult to face her neighbours and friends after the embarrassing incident somehow became known through the gr*pevine.

“I don’t know how news of what happened got out, it goes to show that walls have ears, but I can tell you that the whole family is embarrassed. When we are walking on the streets we see that people are talking about us and somehow you become paranoid and think that everyone who laughs, whispers or looks at you is talking about the se’xual relationship of my son and daughter,” she said. The father was not available to comment. The discredited sister told Sunday News that the incident had given her sleepless nights and destroyed her family.

“My father now hates us and I can tell that he is disgusted by the way he looks at me. I am sorry for what I did and I wish I had not done it. My brother was chucked out of the house and he now lives in Pumula South with my mother,” said the tearful 14-year-old. Sunday News called the disgraced brother last Friday morning and he denied that he was sleeping with his sister and vowed that he was going to make his stepmother pay for tarnishing his image.

“I love my sister and my stepmother is jealous of that. She has always been on my case because I don’t treat her like my mother. She is the reason my parents’ marriage ended. I hate her. She is lying that I was sleeping with my sister, I can never do that because it’s unnatural,” he said .