How To Have s3x On The First Date: What To Do During The Date
Now I will cover in detail, exactly what to do during the date with a girl to help you maximize your chances of getting laid and sleeping with her on date #1.
Your goal while on a date with a woman should be to make interesting conversation, build an emotional connection, and get to know her.
I have already covered exactly what you should say and talk about while on a date with a woman in the post “What To Talk To Girls About On A Date”.
However, what I WILL add here is that you want to convey the image to women that you are a guy who doesn’t judge and likes women who are adventurous and spontaneous and free-spirited.
You also want to begin touching a girl during a date and using kino. Women become s3xually aroused when you touch them. They also become more comfortable on a date when you convey the message that you are comfortable around her and this helps let women know that you want to be more than “just her friend”.
You also want to keep the topics of the conversations focused on HER, so that she can share her passions, hopes, fears with you and begin getting more invested and connected to you.
As long as you concentrate on coming across as cool and with a chill vibe, your first date with girls will run smoothly.
Which brings me to my final point…
How To Get Her Back To Your Place And Get To s3x Quickly
This is the section you’ve been waiting for, the part where I share with you my foolproof method for getting women back to my place and sealing the deal.
One thing you should subtly mention during your conversations with women on dates, is something that you would like to show her that is back at your place. It ends up looking like this:
Girl: “Yes, I really enjoy reading books and bettering myself as an individual. I am so big on self-improvement.”
Guy: “Yeah, I totally agree. I get totally fascinated by reading interesting things. Hey, by the way, there’s this awesome new website that I HAVE to show you. It is totally awesome and you are going to absolutely LOVE it.”
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What the guy is doing here, is he is setting the stage for him to have a REASON to invite this girl back to his place.
Why does he need a reason like this you might ask?
Because women need what is known as plausible deniability, that is she needs an excuse that she can tell herself before she goes back to your place just in case something happens.
Basically, she can’t be apart of the planning phase of her own seduction, she wants to be able to shift the blame and say that “It Just Happened”.
And girls to do this all the time, especially when they talk to their girlfriends. You will usually hear them say something akin to “I don’t Jen, I was at his place having a drink and we was looking at Books and one thing led to another and it just happened.”
Why do girls do this you might ask yourself?
Because girls don’t want to come across as “too easy” or come across like a “slut”.
Whenever you plan to invite a girl back to your place, ALWAYS make room and give a woman plausible deniablilty. You will see your seductions run much more smoothly once you do.
What To Do Once You’ve Gotten A Girl Back To Your Place
This is the part where most men screw up and cost themselves the chance to sleeping with a new woman.
The biggest mistake I see men make once they’ve gotten a girl back to their place, is moving too slow.
Whenever I get a girl back to my place, I give myself no more than 10 minutes to make a move.
When you wait longer or try to wait until “the right moment” to make a move, you give yourself anxiety, put the burden of making a move on the woman, and always end up never making a move and going to sleep with blue balls.
The solution to this problem is to stop thinking about the potential problems that can arise from you making a move and physically escalating. In other words, you need to get out of your own head and STAY out. Remember, in order to succeed with women, you NEED to act quickly and get them alone with you in the shortest amount of time possible.
Another tip that you can use and something that I always do is, as soon as a girl comes inside your house, tell her to take off her shoes. You should do this for 2 very simple reasons:
Doing this shows that you care about keeping your house clean, which is attractive in and of itself and
more importantly, it makes the girl subconsciously believe that she is going to stay longer and it’s 100x easier to s3xually escalate on a girl once you’ve already gotten her shoes off.
Another tip is for you to immediately take her back to your room and sit on your bed and make sure that you have no where else to sit down in your room except on your bed.
Obviously, all of these tactics are done subtly but they are of great importance if you want to maximize your chances of getting s3x on the first date.
Sealing The Deal And Taking Her To Bed
So you’ve gotten a girl back to your place and you and her are now in bed together.
So the question on everyone’s mind is, how do you get to s3x and make it look natural?
Good Question. Simple Answer.
You begin to talk more slowly and sensual, and you also begin to give your girl s3xy, lingering eye contact. You then begin slowly touching her and carassing her back and legs.
Generally at this point, I will usually kiss girls and s3xually escalate from there, and most of the time they won’t resist it especially if you’ve done a good enough job on the date getting to know a girl and coming across as a s3xy and charming man.
But… what she offers you some last minute resistance?
Here’s what I do whenever that happens. I immediately stop escalating, go back to talking about whatever conversation we were talking about and then after 2 or 3 minutes I try escalating again, but…
Instead of trying to s3xually escalate again with a kiss, I offer to give her massage.
Who’s going to turn down a nice and innocent massage :)
By the time I am massaging her, I can sense that she is becoming more and more turned on…
So I usually tell girls to turn over but I tell them to keep their eyes closed.
Then I take out my dick and begin teasing her pussy with my dick but I do NOT insert my dick into a pussy and begin s3x, rather I keep on teasing her and after a certain point, she begins wanting me to fuck her and she begins begging me to put my dick inside her.
And at that point, I simply seal the deal. Congratulations, you have successfully seduced this woman and you will seduce the other 100 girls who you meet and go out on a date with after her.
