Don’t you just hate being b00ty called! There is always some guy that thinks that he can just call up and get it on with a few words on the phone.
But what is a b00ty call? Originally, a b00ty call is one of those late-night phone calls when some guy is horny wanting to come over for s3x. Now a b00ty call is generally a guy who’s not really serious about the relationship but will call in when he’s feeling a little frisky.
No girl I know wants to be labelled as a b00ty call, but what if you generally like the person in question that is making the b00ty call? And what if you are trying to work out if he is serious about you or or not? When elements of quality times are missing such as times out to the night club or quiet night in watching the TV and chatting’ from a relationship point of view, the s3xual side seems to be the only surviving aspect. Sometimes a girl can fall for this and just get ‘b00ty called’ when ever the guy wants s3x but she thinks there is more to the relationship. This can be an ideal situation for a dude who’s “not very in touch with his emotions or maybe playing away with a wifee somewhere else. But How do you know? How would you know if you are a b00ty Call?
The question remains, “am I a b00ty call?” There’s a few solid ways to find out:
1: Does the bulk of your time spent together involve “nekked time?”
2:Have you met any of his friends?
3: Does he hang and chill with you after s3x or does he make excuses then rush out or rush you out?
4: Do you do things that don’t always end with a s3xual encounter?
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5: Do you do any date things together, i.e. dinner, shows, movies, etc.?
6: Does he ever ask questions about your world or have meaningful conversations about your life?
7: And obviously, does he call late at night wanting to come over?
The first step in how not to become a b00ty call is to minimize the s3xual aspect of your interactions. If he realizes that all he has to do is take you out for some Nandos and you’ll have s3x with him afterwards, then he will be trained to do “date-like” things to get your clothes off.
Hang out with him a few times, but create situations where you can’t stay for s3x or there is no possibility of s3x. Sure, do all the touching and kissing you want, but you have other stuff going on later and don’t have time for nudity. See how he reacts.
This is the true measure of what his intentions are. If he doesn’t want to just hang out or gets upset that you aren’t giving him any, then he only has intentions of making you a b00ty call! Sure he did all those cute, lovely, great things with you before he saw you nekked, but now that he got what he wanted (and continues to) he doesn’t have to work so hard any more. A true measure of a man’s desire to be with you happens after s3x, not before. So don’t look at all the sweet things he did for you before you slept with him.
