Why do most female secretaries sleep with their bosses??......find out here!!!

If a woman rubs a man on his chest, arms, back or neck on about 3 occasions there is a 98% chance that the woman is sexually interested in the man, even if its a married woman doing the rubbing, or the man is a married man receiving such rubbing from a single woman! but some men don't know this!

a woman who is being chased by a man that has money will make the man feel so special, that the man will think hes the only one who is having an affair with her. unknown to him that as soon as he leaves her she has another rich man coming for his own frolick
and this is how some women juggle 3 or more men at a time, all the while they will be milking them.

one of the rich men will buy her car, another will buy her house, another will buy her dresses, another will pay for airstrips, another will give cash for general spending etc

the men could range from an alhaji, to business man, to accountant, to medical doctor, to engineer, to soldier, to a chief and all the while they will be wondering if the money they gave her is enough to buy the nice dress they saw her wearing, or the nice food they are eating at her place unknown to them its one of the other men that bought her the dress, or gave her the money for the food!

So these woman are robbing peter to pay paul!

8 sings that your woman is DONE with you......all men should read this!!!!

No matter how shocked you feel by a breakup, your ex most likely sent a few distress signals before she kicked you to the curb. “People really disengage when a relationship is about to end,” explains John Gottman, Ph.D., an expert in divorce prediction and author of What Makes Love Last? “Women try to let men know that they’re not happy.”

That means you have a chance to salvage your relationship before she totally checks out—as long as you’re adept at picking up on her cues:  On average, women decide to call it quits after just 6 days of deliberation, according to a survey by SheLeft.Me, a breakup site for men. Translation: You need to act fast when you spot these signs of relationship trouble.

1. She criticizes your grammar when you fight.

Imagine this scenario: In the middle of a fight, you declare, “I could care less”—and rather than trying to understand your angst, your partner smugly replies, “Actually, you should say, ‘I couldn’t care less.’” She's not just being a grammar Nazi, Gottman says. “She’s saying it from a superior place. It’s an attempt to make you small and meaningless.”

This kind of condescension is a classic sign of contempt—the number one predictor of early divorce in Gottman’s research. “It’s a really acidic, destructive way of eating away a person’s self-esteem,” he says. Even if her words aren't scathing, you can see scorn all over her face: The signature expression is pulling the left corner of the mouth to one side, creating a dimple, often with an eye roll for extra effect.

2. She consistently cheats on your Netflix shows.

Your nightly Netflix ritual is about more than Mad Men. It’s about the two of you as a team, says Monica Lieser, a licensed marriage and family therapist. And that kind of connection breeds contentment: “When couples invest in creating and maintaining rituals, they have more longevity,” she says. So when your little habits—whether it’s a walk every night after dinner, or calling each other on your lunch break—start to dissolve, you lose a critical part of your bond. “A shared experience all of a sudden starts to feel like a chore,” she says. “The engagement somehow doesn’t feel good anymore.”

3. She makes sweeping generalizations about you.

“You always come home late” is a much weightier accusation than “You didn’t put the dishes away last night.” This kind of global criticism—marked by words like "always" and "never"—is a serious predictor of a split, according to Gottman’s research. (Another classic line: “What’s wrong with you?”) “The reason it’s so harmful is that it’s so non-specific,” he says. “It’s really damning the entire character and personality of the partner.” The result: You just feel attacked—which rarely, if ever, leads to a productive conversation about the relationship.

4. When you voice your concerns, she only gets defensive.

Relationship troubles go both ways—which means both of you will occasionally have to own up to screwing up. Unfortunately, defensiveness is a more natural reaction. And it’s a destructive one. “It takes two forms. One is the counterattack—I’m going to attack you 10 times harder than you attacked me,” says Gottman. “The other form is acting like an innocent victim, whining as you’re talking. Why are you picking on me? What about all the good stuff I do?” If your partner can’t ever admit to her mistakes, she’s placing the weight of the relationship entirely on your shoulders. And you can’t sustain that.
5. She turns down requests for things she used to do.

Maybe your girlfriend used to willingly proofread your work emails. Or always offered to take your shirts to the dry-cleaner. Now she treats those little favors as infringements. Odds are she hasn’t just become suddenly selfish. There’s a good chance she no longer feels valued by you—a potent relationship killer—so she’s not interested in making your life easier, says Lieser.

6. You’re unable to talk about your s3x life.

You’d probably freak out if the s3x suddenly dropped off, but that's not the most pressing problem—it's communication. “Frequency is just a measure of behavior,” says Lieser. In other words, how often you knock boots tells you very little about the strength of your bond: Even if a couple only has s3x once a month, but have mutually decided what works for them, their connection can still be strong.

By contrast, if a couple messes around 20 times a month—but can’t talk specifically about their likes and dislikes—their relationship is likely lacking emotional intimacy, which creates desire, says Lieser. And as Gottman points out, if one partner starts to lose interest or feel dissatisfied, but can’t explain why, the other is just left feeling rejected.

7. You often eat dinner in silence.

Your relationship isn’t necessarily doomed if you dine in silence—but it definitely needs some work. “The foundation of a healthy relationship is friendship,” says Lieser. If you have nothing to talk about, you probably aren’t pals with your partner—which means your relationship can only last so long after the passion fades. And, in the long term, friendship breeds more than good conversation: It leads to playfulness in the bedroom and allows you to openly discuss your needs, s3xual or otherwise, says Lieser.

8. She's been having a lot of girls' nights lately.

That time with her gal pals won't kill your connection—but it will when she hangs with them in an effort to avoid you, Lieser says. So how can you tell when her nights out mean trouble? Ask about her evening when she comes home. If she doesn’t dish the details—say, some creeper bought her best friend a drink, or she tried an awesome new cocktail—then that shows she’s not interested in involving you in her personal life. And that probably signals a bigger issue, since “partnerships are all about sharing yourself with somebody else,” says Lieser.

7 Ways your relationship can hurt your health

1.For better or worse

Can your relationship status make a difference in your overall well-being? To borrow a commonly used Facebook phrase, it's complicated. Research shows that strong partnerships can help us avoid illness, adopt healthier habits, and even live longer. On the other hand, troubled relationships tend to breed stress and weaken immunity.

"So many factors affect our health, whether it's the behaviors we exhibit toward each other or the habits that we pass on to each other," says psychologist Maryann Troiani, PhD, co-author of Spontaneous Optimism. So whether you're dating casually, shacking up, or already married, keep in mind these 12 key ways your romantic bond may influence your mind and bod
2.Weight gain

It's a common belief that couples "let themselves go" after pairing off, and there may be something to it. According to a 2012 review, people tend to gain weight as they settle into marriage and lose weight when a marriage ends.

But Troiani has seen the opposite happen quite often, as well: "A happy couple can motivate each other to stay healthy—they'll go to the gym together, set goals, and feel responsible for each other." When couples do pack on the pounds, she adds, it may be a symptom of conflict, not slacking off. "Dissatisfaction in the relationship can lead to passive-aggressive eating behaviors and sleep problems, which will lead to weight gain," she say
3.Stress levels

Surprise, surprise: Regular physical intimacy appears to reduce stress and boost well-being. One study, published in 2009 in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found that people who frequently had sex were healthier mentally and more likely to report greater satisfaction with their relationship and life overall.

Sex is just one aspect of a relationship, however. And your partner's behavior outside the bedroom can just as easily send stress levels soaring in the opposite direction. Parenting disputes, disagreements over money, or even questions as simple as who does which household chores have been shown to increase stress.
4. Feel-good hormones

Sex isn't the only type of physical contact that can lower stress and improve health. In a 2004 study of 38 couples, University of North Carolina researchers found that both men and women had higher blood levels of oxytocin—a hormone believed to ease stress and improve mood—after hugging. The women also had lower blood pressure post-hug, and lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

"These types of caring behaviors are so important: a touch on the arm, holding hands, a rub on the shoulder," Troiani says. "It only takes a few seconds of contact to stimulate those hormones and to help overcome stress and anxiety.
5.Sleep problems

Sleeping next to someone you love and trust can help you fully relax and embrace sleep, Troiani says. A big exception to that rule, of course, is if your bedmate keeps you up at night—by snoring, for instance, or by tossing and turning. In a 2005 poll, people were more likely to experience daytime fatigue and fitful sleep themselves if their partner was struggling with insomnia.

Relationships can affect sleep in less direct ways, too. Research shows that relationship insecurity or conflict is associated with poorer sleep—and to make matters worse, sleep problems can exacerbate relationship problems, creating a vicious cycle
6.Anxiety

Relationship difficulties can put anyone on edge, but in some cases they may actually contribute to full-blown anxiety. Several studies have found a link between marital problems and an increased risk of diagnoses such as generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety.

These links can be difficult to untangle, however, since anxiety has been shown to breed relationship problems (and not just vice versa). What's more, some research suggests marriage may help protect against anxiety. In a 2010 World Health Organization study of 35,000 people in 15 countries, those who were married—happily or otherwise (the study didn't specify)—were less likely to develop anxiety and other mental disorders
7.Depression

Depression and anxiety often go hand in hand, so it makes sense that relationships can affect depression in similarly complex ways. On the one hand, some studies have found that long-term relationships—and marriage, specifically—can ease symptoms in people with a history of depression.

On the other hand, fraught relationships have been shown to dramatically increase the risk of clinical depression. In one small but highly cited study, women—regardless of their personal and family history of depression—were six times more likely to be clinically depressed if their husbands had been unfaithful or if their marriages were breaking apart

Things you should know after loosing your first love.......

Losing your first love is no easy situation. I know, we’ve all probably had this happen to us, since it is rare most #people end up marrying their first love. Losing your first love is not the end of the #world, and there is a lot you can learn about losing that first special person in your life. Losing my first love was certainly not a walk in the park, but it taught me several #things about myself and love in general that I think are important. Keep these tips #below in mind if you’re struggling with losing your first love.
1. You Are Still Worthy

Losing your first love can cause a lot of insecurity within, and it can make us want to shy away from relationships for a while. Remember that just because you lost your first love doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of love. If the breakup was your fault and you feel a need to make amends, so be it. If it wasn’t your fault, however, remember that it doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy enough to have made the #relationship work. You need to keep all this in mind so it doesn’t cause you to start believing lies about yourself, or what relationships you deserve to have in life.

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN'T KEEP YOUR V!RGINITY FOR YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND

"Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be s3xually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship. As well as abstaining from s3xual thoughts, s3xual touching, pornography, and actions that are known to lead to s3xual arousal.”

At the age of 10, I took a pledge at my church alongside a group of other girls to remain a virgin until marriage. Yes, you read that right — I was 10 years old.

Let’s take a look at who I was as a 10-year-old: I was in fourth grade. I played with Barbie dolls and had tea parties with imaginary friends. I pretended I was a mermaid every time I took a bath. I still thought boys were icky and I had no idea I liked girls, too. I wouldn’t get my period for another four years. And most importantly, I didn’t have a clue about s3x.
The church taught me that s3x was for married people. Extramarital s3x was sinful and dirty and I would go to Hell if I did it. I learned that as a girl, I had a responsibility to my future husband to remain pure for him. It was entirely possible that my future husband wouldn’t remain pure for me, because he didn’t have that same responsibility, according to the Bible. And of course, because I was a Christian, I would forgive him for his past transgressions and fully give myself to him, body and soul.

Once I got married, it would be my duty to fulfill my husband’s s3xual needs. I was told over and over again, so many times I lost count, that if I remained pure, my marriage would be blessed by God and if I didn’t that it would fall apart and end in tragic divorce.

Story to be continued tomorrow

PHOTO: SHOCKING: ANOTHER FEMALE KIDNAPPER SET ABLAZE, (graphic photos+VIDEO)

The pics from this scene is so gory, I don’t know if I should share it. The woman pictured above was accused of attempting to kidnap three primary school pupils in the Ekoro area of Abule-Egba, Lagos yesterday . Eye-witnesses claim the woman stopped the kids, who were aged 7-10 years as they were going to school, and asked to take them to school.

Then a female hawker in the area, suspecting the woman was up to no good, alerted others in the area who then surrounded the woman and started asking her questions. They say the woman claimed they were her children but couldn’t give their names and the direction she was taking them wasn’t where their school was…plus the children said they didn’t know her and before anyone could stop it, they descended on the woman. Beating her to a stupor and then setting her ablaze.

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Men's secrets:5 SURE WAYS TO GET A WOMAN TO HAVE S*X WITH YOU!

1.Be Attentive
S*x is a journey, not a destination. It’s time to realize that the real goal of s*x is to satisfy the other person. Some younger guys haven’t yet figured one out; they see s*x as a way to pleasure themselves, as in, a selfish act. An older woman knows how to have an orgasm (plenty of 20-something women have never had one). If you learn to focus on satisfying your partner first, you’ll find that s*x will become a more fulfilling experience for both partners.

2.Be Honest
Once you jump into bed with an older woman, forget about trying to manipulate her with your disingenuous promises. Be upfront about who you are and what you want, including if you are looking for a relationship or just a hookup. She knows all the games guys play — she just wants honesty.

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3.Don’t Be An Assh*le
Kindness rules with older women. While some men seem to think nice guys finish last, you will not be successful with an older woman by acting like a prick. These women are done with bad boys, so be your most gentlemanly self.

4.Confidence
This is the one thing you can fake if you must. Confidence is especially important for an older woman. She wants someone who is sure of himself. Regardless of whether or not you feel completely secure, act the part. Say things that exude your confidence and walk into a room with your head held high.

5.Discretion
Older women expect the details of their s*xcapades to remain secret. They don’t feel the need to brag to their friends, so if you’re still acting like a frat boy, high-fiving your bros after each lay, she’ll pick up on your immature attitude toward s*x. She’ll move on to the next young stud who’s more responsive to her needs for discretion.

It should come as no surprise that older women come with a lot of wisdom. Many have spent some time alone, and they may prefer solidarity as an alternative to dealing with someone who doesn’t treat them with the utmost respect. By this point in their lives, they know both what they want and what they don’t.

8 Guaranteed Signs She Will Be Good In Bed!..For men!

1.She’s a good k!sser
It takes all kinds. If you like the way she k!sses you, then she’s good for you.

2.She’s a good dancer
Even if you’re not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of her horizontal skills.

3.She’s flexible
She could be a yoga instructor, a ballerina, a contortionist… basically, these allow for more possibilities in bed.

4.She gives seductive looks
Maybe she co'cks an eyebrow, or offers other fl!rtatious or coy looks. Hell, maybe she’s undressing you with her eyes. A woman’s regard is the most important indicator — of her intentions, her anticipation, and her confidence, which is directly related to her skill. Both the amount of eye contact she offers and the type are important.

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5.She enjoys tasting her food
You won’t always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or provide some other obvious or'al showcase. Still, whenever things are going in her mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest of s3xual metaphors. What does she do with this situation? Does she handle/cut up the food daintily? Does she put it in her mouth sensually? Animalistically? Absent-mindedly? Does she chew like a lady, or like a dog? Does she even seem aware of the messages she’s conveying, like it or not? If not, she may not be interested in you in a s3xual way.

6.She talks about s3x
She often makes s3xual references and discusses what she likes/does in bed. If she does it too much, however, she may be overcompensating, and could just be a tease. Does she seem to know what she’s talking about? The important thing is that she be open to talking about it, or better yet (because it’s more subtle), that s3xual innuendo not put her off.

7.She doesn’t talk too much
Loosely speaking, I’ve noticed a bit of an inverse correlation between chattiness and bedroom skills. That is, they might be more used to impressing with their words than their actions, or may even be consciously trying to compensate for one with the other. Quieter women, on the other hand, are often demons in the sack. They prefer to express themselves non-verbally… although they get vocal when you get them in the right spot. Put another way, if the woman won’t be quiet, do you want to deal with that during foreplay, or especially after run-of-the-mill s3x?

8.What she suggests as a date
This applies if you’ve taken down her number and then arrange a date with her. A woman who is not afraid to go to a bar where there’s dancing probably has more confidence, for example. Likewise for a woman who suggests something unconventional for a date. If she suggests something more platonic, like lunch, she’s deliberately taking it slow because she’s still uncomfortable — with you, with herself, or some combo thereof.

10 Ways To Tell That She is "Faking It"...

1. Notice how heavy she is breathing. org@sms are very intense, so it is nearly impossible for women to maintain their regular breathing patterns. If you are trying to figure out how to know if she’s faking it, keep in mind that natural breathing usually indicates that she hasn’t had an org@sm.

2. Pay attention to how many org@sms she has. Although multiple org@sms are possible, they aren’t all that likely. If you’re trying to learn how to know if she’s faking it, notice whether or not she has multiple org@sms every time and if so, know that it’s probably not real.

ALSO:Has My Woman Been “Faking It” In The Bedroom This Entire Time?!….Advice needed.

3. See how long it takes her to function regularly. This can be one of the easiest ways to learn how to know if she’s faking it. An org@sm can really drain a woman’s energy. If she gets out of bed and goes back to her daily life only moments later, she’s probably faking.

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4. Take note of how long her org@sm lasts. Since org@sms only last for a few seconds, she shouldn’t claim that hers last for minutes at a time. If you are trying to determine how to know if she’s faking it, remember that the length of her org@sm can tell a lot.

5. Consider whether she seems to be acting. If it feels like you’re having s3x with a p0'rn star, there’s a good chance she’s not being genuine. Unless she knows you love her to be loud when you have s3x, this can be one of the easiest ways to know if she’s faking it.

6. Notice if you feel any contractions. If you really are wondering how to know if she’s faking it, this is important to keep in mind. Any time a woman org@sms, you will feel her v@gina contracting, even if it’s not very strong.

7. Pay attention to her body temperature. One of the easiest ways how to know if she’s faking it is to see if she feels really warm afterwards. Also be sure to notice if her cheeks have a red, flushed appearance.

Has My Woman Been “Faking It” In The Bedroom This Entire Time?!....Advice needed.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard men say “If my woman was faking it, I’d know!”
Oh yeah, I’m sure you would.

As admirable as it is that men so confidently believe they know just how their women think & feel, or more importantly, that they definitely satisfy her in bed, the truth is women fake org@sms. Actually, about 99% will admit to at least faking it more than once, and for some, it’s all the time. And almost always, men can’t tell the difference.

Although women are a lot more vocal about their s3x lives now in the 21st Century, many women don’t feel comfortable telling a man how they like things done in bed, let alone admitting that he really isn’t doing it for her at all, because the truth is, women understand just how fragile the male ego really is. Men would like to believe that when they are making love to a woman, they’re giving her the best experience of her life, every single time or at least that they’ve satisfied her better than a previous partner ever could. And most are even convinced that they know the signs; one being how ‘dripping wet’ she becomes (which is hardly an indicator just to let you know!)

Knowing all this, how does one then begin to confess that they didn’t org@sm this time, or – for at least 10% of all women- never org@sm at all?
Wait, so do you mean to say some women never org@sm at all? Yes, that is exactly what I said. It’s called anorg@smia, the inability to reach org@sm either by any means or during certain s3xual situations, and believe me when I say, it’s actually quite normal.

At this point, you’re probably asking why would she fake it?
The reasons could be endless, but there are a few common reasons.
1.) She’s tired, and wants nothing more than for it to be over and you to get off her.
2.) She may feel guilty that she’s taking too long, so faking it will give you the signal that you no longer have to work on it.
3.) She wasn’t in the mood in the first place, but to avoid any arguments or unnecessary tension, she just decided to go along with it.
4.) She’s mad at you, maybe not mad enough to tell you, but just know she’s cussing you in her mind and smiling about how you are such an idiot you can’t tell the difference.
5.) You just don’t turn her own. Your beer gut and smelly breath makes her cringe everytime but maybe she loves you too much to hurt your feelings, or doesn’t love you at all and has her own ulterior motives, so she’ll pretend to enjoy it and end it with an Oscar-winning climax.

So where do we go from here?

You’ve just figured out your girlfriend or wife has probably been faking it this entire time, do you ask her about it? Do you beat yourself up for being the worst lover possible on the face of the planet? Do you now swear off women forever and move into a cave in the mountains?
The latter would probably be extremely difficult for most, but what you can do is your research to find out other ways you can stimulate your woman, or perhaps try asking her what she likes next time, if at the very least, she’ll know you care enough about her to put in the effort of helping her achieve a REAL one.

by Brenda K

Pr0'stitute Steals Man’s $25K Rolex Watch And Hides It In Her v@gina [See Photo]

Shacarye Tims is a New York lady who stole an Australian tourist’s $25,000 (£15,600) Rolex in her private after convincing him to take it off during a massage.

She then started complaining that Brenton Price’s luxury time piece was scratching her as she rubbed him down in his room at the Holiday Inn hotel.

As soon as he removed the watch and placed it by the bedside, she then took Rolex and hide into her private.

It was only when Price turned around that he realised Tims had stolen the watch and she made a dash for it, police said.

He then chased and caught Tims, who reportedly unleashed a flurry of blows at him.

Tims then allegedly owned up to the theft and pulled out the Rolex, which had been hidden in her body.

What It's Really Like to Be a S3x Worker and a Mother (NSFW).....My story!

Bonnie, 39, is a mother of three. She's also been a s3x worker since the age of 18. Photographer Marie Hald followed her as she went to work and came home to her kids. Bonnie "pays taxes and is registered as a business, though she is in trouble with the IRS and has been to prison more than once," Hald writes. Bonnie is more upset about how her work affects her children though:



"The older children know what her profession is, and so does their school, the community and so on. It is not easy for Oliver and Michella and Michella has been called names and asked how much her mother costs. That made her very upset." See more of Hald's photos below:

Warning the video is graphic. Saudi family hang an Ethiopian maid from hook and brutally beat her.

Warning the video is graphic.

Saudi family hang an Ethiopian maid from hook and brutally beat her.

Unfortunately this treatment of migrant workers is not uncommon.

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Transexual Pr0'stitute Speaks on Night Spent With Chris Brown.Did they "do it?" – Plus PHOTOS

A recent Facebook photo posted by “International Adult Companion” Shauna Brooks sitting in Chris Brown’s driveway immediately sent Breezy fans into a frenzy, mainly because she is trans3xual, leaving the public wondering exactly what she and Breezy were up to.

Brooks recently spoke out about the picture, saying she did spend the night at Chris’ Virginia home, but only because she was invited to the house party and that there was absolutely no funny business.

“Breezy’s party was a blast and he was a great host,” she said.

She admitted in the interview that she has been intimate with several well-known celebs as an escort, but that the “New Flame” singer isn’t one of them. She actually said she respects Brown more now knowing that he isn’t ignorant enough to judge her based on the fact that she’s trans3xual.

“The issue is that people are ignorant out of fear and then bash who and what they don’t understand,” she said. “If more people took the time to get to know people for who they were instead of labeling them and throwing them into some checked box with a stereotype, the world would be so much better.”

BIZARRE PHOTOS: Horrific Snake Bite Causes Girl’s Leg To Shrivel And Turn Black After Venom Causes Necrosis

This horrific picture shows a young girl’s leg that has shrivelled and turned completely black after being bitten by a snake.
The snake’s venom caused severe necrosis – the premature death of cells.
This caused the tissue in her leg to die, leaving it withered and rotten.
The 13 year old girl suffered severe necrosis – the premature death of cells – due to a snake bite that was treated with local indigenous remedies for a month before she was brought to a hospital in Carcaras
The 13-year-old girl, who is unidentified, was first treated by remedies from the indigenous culture she was from, according to a photograph posted on Instagram by the username ‘juventudmedica’.


A month later she was eventually brought to Carcaras, Venezuela,for medical treatment.
One doctor, who has seen the photograph, told MailOnline the girl will need her leg amputated but is still likely to die from the snake venom.
Dr Arun Ghosh, a private GP in Liverpool, said: ‘Snake venom is very complicated and depends on the species of snake.
‘But the picture shows clearly severe tissue necrosis that will need amputation, though she still may die from this due to the nature of the poison.
‘The whole lower leg is black, it’s spreading up. Looking at the rest of her body she’s showing signs of muscle wastage from the poison. Her other leg is thin. It’s likely she will still die.’
He added that the necrosis has led to a condition called rhabdomyolysis, in which muscle tissue will begin to die throughout the body.
Rhabdomyolysis can result in damage to the kidneys, which coupled with low blood pressure, can lead to kidney failure and even death if left untreated, he said.
Being treated with local remedies probably meant she was given antibiotics, but not treatment to adequately control poisoning from the snake venom, which contains agents that paralyse the nerves and cause the blood to clot.
Dr Ghosh said: ‘This girl has had classic rural treatment which is often only able to treat local infection secondary to the bite (at best say equal to antibiotics).
‘But she is unlikely to have received anti-venom treatment (which entails giving  treatment to stop blood clotting) to keep her blood flowing through her body.’
The photograph’s caption said the girl also suffered a broken elbow from the incident with the snake.
The bite caused a laceration to the artery in her leg and the resulting bleeding led to what’s known as ‘compartment syndrome’.
This is a serious condition when pressure within a compartment such as the leg causes a decrease in blood supply to the affected muscles

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7 Things Every Nekked Man Wants to Hear!

1."Your chest/stomach/back is amazing." Hey, we're not working out for our health. Well, actually we are working out for our health, but we're also working out because we want you to notice the little muscles sprouting up under our skin.

2."There's not an imperfection on your body." If you can't figure out exactly where to direct your compliment, this Hail Mary approach works just fine. Actually, it works even better.

3."Tell me what you like." This tells us that you're willing to try new things, and that you want our s3x life to be experimental. And trust me—if you try your guy's kinky suggestions, he'll try yours.

4."That's one handsome p3nis." There's something about an absurd compliment that feels totally sincere, like there's no possible way you're just quoting something you heard in a romcom. So feel free: We accept all forms of bizarre flattery relating to any part of our body or s3xual performance. Plus you'll introduce a little humor, and that's never a bad thing.

SEE ALSO:VIDEO + PHOTOS: Cheating Nigerian Wife Caught In The Act and Forced To Have S3x With Her Boyfriend In Public [GRAPHIC JUNGLE JUSTICE]
5."You can do whatever you want." A line like this is guaranteed to make a man's mind wander to some amazing places. Of course—only say it if you mean it (and totally trust this guy).

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6."I have a c0'ndom." There's not a damn thing wrong with a woman who can take charge of her s3xual health. It lets us know that when we sleep with you, we're not sle'eping with all the other men you've slept with.

7."You feel so good ins!de me." The average guy knows he's working with average sized equipment. But he wants to believe that he's using that equipment in such an extraordinary way that you're never left wishing he had another inch or two to work with. So yeah, a little reassurance is nice.

VIDEO + PHOTOS: Cheating Nigerian Wife Caught In The Act and Forced To Have S3x With Her Boyfriend In Public [GRAPHIC JUNGLE JUSTICE]

See some of the barbaric act going on in Nigeria,

A cheating wife was caught in the act with her boyfriend by her husband and the people in the community took justice into their hands by forcing the cheating partners to have s3x in public while they watch.

The husband who couldn’t watch, walked away from the scene to throw away the properties of his cheating wife from his house. This jungle justice happened in the Eastern part of Nigeria.

Research!!Men who sleep with multiple women reduce their risk of pr0'strate cancer

Some men will like this ..A new research claims, men who sleep with multiple women are less likely to develop prostrate cancer.The Researchers found men who have more than 20 s3xual partners slashed their risk of pr0'state cancer by 28 per cent.And  men who have slept with more than 20 women reduced their chances of getting the most aggressive tumours by 19 per cent.

It further states that ,Cel!bacy doubles the risk of the disease.The rationale behind the findings is that regular intercourse may flush out cancer causing chemicals as the prostate secretes the bulk of the fluid in s3men.The study claims m@sturbation and having much s3x with one partner doesn't count ..

When asked if it meant health authorities would encourage men to sleep with many women in their lives to protect against pr0'state cancer, Professor Marie-Elise Parent replied:

'We are not there yet. 'It is possible that having many female sexual partners results in a higher frequency of ej@culations, whose protective effect against pr0'state cancer has

The research was published in the journal Cancer Epidemiology.

Amber rose is back, shares Ex'treme photos of her Nekked big b#tt and her pierced Ta'tas!

 

Sweet Amber, these lady has been my crush since the day 1 of my knowing
Her, well, its only been weeks since she filed for divorce from her ex husband
Wiz khalifa, and she is already back to the spotlight where she belongs, Guess no
More hubby to worry about being a good wife to lols,

Lies We Believe About Men: Men Only Want One Thing!

By Juli Gorman.

What more could he possibly want from me?
Greg seemed dissatisfied with our love-making. Displeased, discontented, and disappointed. Put a “dis” in front of it, and Greg probably experienced it.
I felt him becoming more and more distant.

“What’s the matter?” I asked, exasperated.

Without skipping a beat, Greg responded. “I want you to want me!”

I seethed with anger and thought to myself. What? You want me to want you? Oh, please! Get over yourself. I am so sick and tired of not measuring up to your standards. Why am I never enough for you? I never deny you sex. Give me a break!

“I don’t want to just have s3x with you, Julie. I want you to want me,” Greg continued. “I don’t just want to have sex. I want to make love. I want to connect. I want you to want to kiss me passionately.”

TV scenarios of women dropping everything to respond passionately to their lover’s touch flashed through my mind.

Seriously, Greg? You’re going to complain about my level of passion now? Most men would feel ecstatic if their wife didn’t say no to their physical advances. It’s not enough that I push my fatigue to the side to engage with you in bed? It’s not enough that when I’m not in the mood I willingly avail my body. No, that’s not enough for you! Now, you want me to rip off your T-shirt at the drop of a hat and be some bubbling bombshell who …

Greg interrupted my thoughts. “Julie, I just want you to want me.” It was the third time he’d used that phrase, and I couldn’t take it any longer.

“You want me to want you?” I erupted. “Greg, I have never denied your needs. I’ve never declined your advances. I’ve never—ever—ever said no to you!” I snarled with prideful disdain. He couldn’t rebuff that!
“You’re right. You may have never said no, Julie … but you’ve also never said yes.”

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As I looked into my husband’s eyes, I saw something I never noticed before. Greg displayed a passion for me, not just my body. I began to realize he wanted me to say yes to him in my heart, to love him with my soul, to connect with him in my mind. And so did God!

Unfortunately, my view of sex swung on a pendulum of great extremes, both of which were wrong! On one side, I manipulated sex to maintain and keep Greg’s affection. On the other side I despised and held sex in contempt, secretly angry and privately disgusted by its demands. I performed sex out of fear of what would happen if I didn’t. My limiting thoughts stifled my expression of love. I didn’t want to feel that way, but I couldn’t help how I felt. I desperately needed God’s intervention to overcome the lie that Men only want one thing.
Here’s the danger of believing that lie.

As a single person, if I believe that Men only want one thing, I am more likely to make concessions to my faith and compromise my standards, believing this is what I’m supposed to do next.

As a married woman, if I believe Men only want one thing, I’m tempted to treat sex as an item on my busy to-do list. Let’s see: I dropped off the dry cleaning, check. Chauffeured the kids to school, check. Made dinner by 6:00, check! Had sex with my husband, check! Check! Check! And, in the process, I miss out on the sexual intimacy and oneness God intended.
The deception that a man only wants one thing violates God’s design.

It mis-aligns God’s plan. God intended s3x as a celebration of oneness—oneness of body, mind, and spirit reserved for the union of a husband and wife in holy marriage.

Married women, ask, “Do I express tenderness and connection in my love-making?” If not, ask God for a greater int!macy and renewed passion.

Single women, ask, “Have I given away my affection outside of God’s design?” If so, ask for His forgiveness, and commit to express s3xual int!macy only within the confines of marriage.

God wants husbands and wives to enjoy His gift of sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage. He desires us to celebrate the marriage bed and keep it holy. And within the confines of marriage, God encourages us to drink in intimacy and embrace unity with our spouse, not treat sex as another duty needing to be checked off our ever-growing list of responsibilities.

For more help on this topic, pick up a copy of What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men. You’ll discover strategic Scriptures, questions, and practical applications to align your thoughts with God’s and life-transforming insights on how to experience a more intimate relationship with Him.

For Women – 5 Reasons Your Husband Is Not Giving You s*x Anymore!

1. Physical Problems Can Make a Husband Not Want s3x
If he will, get him to talk to the doctor. Some medications can lower his s3x drive. He could also have low testosterone. In other cases, their s3x drive is lower because the husband has had impotence issues and he’s afraid to try again. Impotence, though, can be a signal that there is a circulatory problem, and often is a sign that heart disease, diabetes, or kidney disease may be starting. So a doctor’s visit is definitely in order!

In most cases of younger men with decreased l!bido, though, it’s not a physical issue. It’s more likely an emotional/psychological one. Let’s start with these issues.

2. Stress/Emotional Problems Can Lower a Guy’s s3x Drive
In this economy, many men don’t feel like men anymore because they can’t provide for their families well. If this is the case, go out of your way to show your husband you do appreciate him and you do look up to him. But whatever you do, don’t baby him. If he’s feeling emasculated already, he doesn’t want you trying to make it better or fix it for him. Show him you think he’s capable. Be a listening ear, but don’t be his nurse.

In a similar way, we can undermine our husbands with the way we talk without realizing it. I know many good, Christian women who belittle their husbands in public quite a bit without apparently cluing in to what they’re doing. When you open up your mouth to say something about your husband to others, make sure it’s laudatory. Praise him in some way. If he’s telling a story and he’s getting it wrong, don’t correct him all the time. Let it go. And when you’re alone, make sure that you express gratitude as much as you express criticism. Even more. I have known men who have withdrawn s3xually simply because they had ceased to feel like men in the relationship. The woman had taken over everything.

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3. Lack of Friendship Can Quench Desire
Often when there is a problem in the marriage it shows up in the bedroom. But because the SYMPTOM is in the bedroom, we often think the SOLUTION is too. So we concentrate on solutions that have to do with s3x–buying lingerie, playing risque games, getting toys, trying new things.

In reality, often the solution is found outside the bedroom. s3x embodies our spiritual, emotional, and relational selves. What I often suggest to women whose husband have a low s3x drive that isn’t due to a physical problem or stress is that you work on your friendship. Spend more time together. Take a walk after dinner. Find a hobby you can enjoy together. Do something that he likes, even if you don’t (like watch hockey games) simply so you can be together.

Often couples get into a rut where they spend their lives doing errands and watching TV. That isn’t going to help your relationship. If you want to spice things up, don’t look at the bedroom. Look at the gym. Or the ice rink. Or the restaurant. Do stuff together. Cultivate a real relationship. Start talking again.

Often this helps you feel connected, and then, even if the s3x doesn’t always follow, at least you feel more kindly towards each other.

4. p0'rnography Use Can Obliterate a Man’s Desire for His Wife
The main culprit of a low male s3x drive, though, of course, is p0'rnography. The more men are into p0'rnography, the less they are into s3x in real life. p0'rn trains the brain to be aroused by an image, and not a relationship, and is extremely destructive. p0'rn is not harmless; the effects of p0'rn are really far-reaching. If your husband is into p0'rnography, get help! Talk to a pastor. Talk to a mentor. It’s not okay to be a p0'rn addict. It’s not harmless. It just isn’t.

p0'rnography and m@sturbation go hand in hand. If he is using p0'rn, he’s also m@sturbating and thus getting rid of his s3xual tension in another way. He’s also less likely to be able to get in the mood with a real, live person, like you. So if this is the issue, it must be addressed. I’ve written before on this topic, on how to recover from a p0'rnography addiction. I think it will help. And I have lots more links to other posts on the subject here.

5. Maybe There is No Reason for His Low s3x Drive
Finally, for some men, there simply won’t be a reason that he doesn’t want to make love. You have a higher s3x drive than he does. Maybe it’s even as if your husband has no s3x drive and never wants to have s3x! Think about it this way: in any given population, some men will be really short, and some really tall. Some will have really big hands, and some really small ones. We vary, and some people are on the extremes. By definition, 5% of men will have abnormally low s3x drives without any apparent problem or cause. It’s just the way they are.

What do you do? Accept him, and more than ever, work on your friendship. Make sure there is goodwill between you, that you can laugh together, that you can do things together. The more you laugh, the more you’re able to talk, and you can share with him how you feel. Just because he has a low s3x drive, for instance, doesn’t mean that he can’t make love. He can! And he can even increase his s3x drive by making love more frequently (the use it or lose it phenomenon), and even by exercising and building muscle, which builds testosterone levels, too. If he lays off the beer, that can also help, because beer has a chemical that acts in the body in a similar way to estrogen.

But more than anything, you’ll just have to learn that this is the man you married. Get your peace in God, work in your friendship so you don’t feel emotionally rejected, and learn to love him anyway.

Madness:Boy, 9, and his 62-year-old bride who has children TRIPLE his age, renew their marriage vows

HARD TO BELIEVE BUT TRUE.

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Boy, nine, and his 62-year-old bride who has children TRIPLE his age, renew their marriage vows.
(ACTUAL DATE:21 Jul 2014)

‪#‎Saneie‬ Masilela from South Africa, repeated his vows alongside his wife in a traditional second ceremony to make their marriage official

‪#‎Helen‬ Shabangu, the bride, had her first husband and five children attend

‪#‎The‬ couple first married one year ago after Saneie claimed his dead ancestors told him to wed

‪#‎His‬ family defended the union saying it’s a ritual and not legally binding

A nine-year-old schoolboy has become one of the world’s youngest grooms for the second time – marrying his 62-year-old wife again.

Looking a little taller in last year’s silver tuxedo, baby faced Saneie Masilela clutched the hand of Helen Shabangu as they repeated their vows one year on.

The second marriage ceremony was this time held at the home of the blushing bride in Ximhungwe in Mpumalanga, South Africa, in front of around 100 guests.
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Nine-year-old schoolboy, Saneie Masilela and his 62-year-old bride Helen Shabangu, wore traditional attire as they renewed their wedding vows in South Africa +10
Nine-year-old schoolboy, Saneie Masilela and his 62-year-old bride Helen Shabangu, wore traditional attire as they renewed their wedding vows in South Africa
The duo first married one year ago, but they decided to follow through with South African traditions which involves a second ceremony to make the marriage official +10
The duo first married one year ago, but they decided to follow through with South African traditions which involves a second ceremony to make the marriage official
Wide-eyed residents looked on as the married mother-of-five shared a piece of cake, a toast and even a kiss with her young groom Sanele – and long-term husband Alfred Shabangu, 66.

Last year the boy, from nearby Tshwane, tied the knot with bride Helen after claiming he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed.

Shockingly his family took the message from the heavens seriously and hurriedly forked out £500 for the bride and a further £1,000 for the big day.

But little Sanele -the youngest of five children – wouldn’t rest until the couple followed through with South African traditions insisting they have the second ceremony to make their marriage official.

Despite stunned villagers branding the act ‘sickening’ the boy’s family defended the union saying it was just a ritual and not legally binding.


Last year the bride and groom tied the knot after Saneie claimed he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and his family took the message from the heavens very seriously +10
Last year the bride and groom tied the knot after Saneie claimed he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and his family took the message from the heavens very seriously
Helen’s husband of 30 years, Alfred Shabangu, 66, (right) and their five children, aged between 38 and 28, all attended the ceremony +10
Helen’s husband of 30 years, Alfred Shabangu, 66, (right) and their five children, aged between 38 and 28, all attended the ceremony
Alfred said that he and his childrne were happy about the marriage: ‘we don’t have a problem with her marrying the boy – and I don’t care what other people say’ +10
Alfred said that he and his childrne were happy about the marriage: ‘we don’t have a problem with her marrying the boy – and I don’t care what other people say’
Sanele’s 47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela said: ‘Sanele was fine and he was happy about the ceremony last year and it what he wanted – he was not shy.’



‘He was just happy to get married, very excited and was not embarrassed about it. So much so he wanted to do it again.

‘After the wedding last year people keep asking them question like will they live together, sleep together, have babies but I keep telling them that after the wedding everything went back to normal nothing changed.

‘Sanele moved to Venda not long after the wedding because he wanted to learn a new language, but they are very close.

Sanele’s 47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela, insists that the marriage is simply symbolic and not legally binding and that her son is very happy about the arrangement +10
Sanele’s 47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela, insists that the marriage is simply symbolic and not legally binding and that her son is very happy about the arrangement
The young groom said he hoped to have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older +10
The young groom said he hoped to have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older
‘Our families are very close. It was nice celebrate with a wedding once more, it was after all a calling from the ancestors.

‘By doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn’t done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family.’

The widow, who works at a recycling centre, added : ‘I didn’t have a problem with it because I know it’s what the ancestors wanted and it would make them happy.’

Young groom Sanele said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older.

‘I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to,’ he said.

‘I’m happy that I married Helen – but I will go to school and study hard. When I’m older I will marry a lady my own age.

Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to their normal lives +10
Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to their normal lives
The groom’s mother (right) strongly believes that the duos’ unity is a necessity and a ‘calling from the ancestors’, saying: ‘If we hadn’t done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family’ +10
The groom’s mother (right) strongly believes that the duos’ unity is a necessity and a ‘calling from the ancestors’, saying: ‘If we hadn’t done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family’
‘I chose Helen because I love her and although we don’t live together all the time we meet at the dumping site where my mother works regularly.’

Old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged between 38 and 28, yesterday said she was still happy with the arrangement.

The recycling worker- who donned the same dress – said: ‘I’m very happy that the boy chose me and my family support and understand that it is part of making ancestors happy.

‘One day Sanele would grow normally and have family of his own and get married one day, all this ceremony is for making ancestors happy. We are playing.’

Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together.

Both have gone back to their normal lives.

Helen’s husband of 30 years and builder Alfred, attended both wedding ceremonies along with the couples five children.

The 67-year-old added: ‘My kids and I are happy because we don’t have a problem with her marrying the boy – and I don’t care what other people say.’

CRAZY:Another couple hold a totally NEKKED Wedding in Scotland! PHOTOS+VIDEO INCLUDED

Ubu bukwe bukaba bwubatse amateka, aho abageni bava iwabo bambaye ubusa bakajya gusezerana imbere y’Imana bambaye ubusa, umukozi w’Imana akabazeseranya bambaye ubusa, bakajya no kwiyakira bambaye ubusa. Ibi byabereye muri Scotland ariko siho honyine kuko mu minsi yashize no mu gihugu cya Australia mu Mujyi wa Melbourne naho byahabaye.

Another Boyfriend Expos.ed Sugar mummy’s video + pics online after sweet bed time(21+)

Sometimes, if you prove to be wise it may lead you to some place  either negatively or positively. Sugar mummy did not want her boyfriend to married and treat  to hurt him if he try to quite, so the guy now exposed her online to break the relationship. what a shame, see one of their event.

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7 Things You shouldn’t Put Up With In Your Relationship!

Things like:
1.Emotional abuse- A lot of people limit abuses in relationship to physical abuse and to them, any form of abuse makes the woman (only) the victim.

This is not true.

Men also can be victims of emotional abuse from their women and it can be as horrible as when it happens the other way round.

Someone who emotionally abuses you, takes you for granted, tells you in subtle or non subtle ways that you are not worth it, should not be held on to.

2.Cheating, especially serial cheating- There have been various reasons why people cheat. I have heard from the downright ridiculous to what seemed like a “reasonable” reason to cheat.

However, cheaters are not usually the best people to be in a relationship with. Your emotions are likely to go back and forth and you are most likely going to get hurt a bit too much.

Its usually worse when you are with a serial cheater, those ones who constantly cheat and with no reason whatsoever to.

You should not put up with this type of people, its never really worth it.

3.Lying- This usually goes hand in hand with cheating. A cheater most times, lies about everything he or she thinks would cover up their dirty habit.

A lying partner is one that would hurt you deep and the best thing is to leave this type of person be, because except you love being lied to, people like this hurt their partners a lot.

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4.Physical abuse- He hits you, she hurls the closest dangerous object at you when you are having an argument, He slaps you when he thinks you are being stubborn, she bites you or tries to steer the wheel in a dangerous direction when you fight… Whatever your situation is, physical abuse is a valid reason to quit your relationship.

It is not healthy for you and except you are both hoping to end up dead, then you should leave right now.

5.Makes you unsafe- Your relationship should be your safe haven. If you are not safe in your relationship and it is the last place you want to be every time, it means you need to leave like yesterday.

Your partner should be your team mate, the one person who cheers you on and always has your back. Not someone who makes you feel awful all the freaking time and who makes your relationship somewhere you always want to run from.

6.Disrespect- If your spouse loves and cares about you, then they would never disrespect you.

If your man/woman never respects you in your relationship then time is now to leave.

7.Never carries you along- And I mean from him/her hanging out every Friday night to making key decisions in his life without your knowledge.

Most times, we think its okay if our partner doesn’t tell us his/her plans for the weekend and several pictures surface days later to show he/she has been hanging with the buds.

Not like you should be updated every second, but knowing where your partner is, is very important and someone who wouldn’t tell you about things as simple as Friday night plans is not likely to include you when planning something big.

Oh trust me, it works like that.

He/she doesn’t let you in on the small stuff? then you would be surprised by the big stuff too!

There are more things an individual should not put up with in relationships, share your thoughts on other things you think should be a no-no and a valid reason to walk.

10 Things Every Woman Should Do In Her Twenties!

1. Date, or even just have s3x with, a ridiculously hot guy. I mean, or fall in love with him? But you probably won't, because there is a good chance he will want to talk about the plot of his novel or how much he loved being on a commune or some other bullshit like that.

2. Go abroad. Ultimately, spending money on experiences is more important in your 20s than spending it on stuff. Exposing yourself to a different culture will make you a better, more broad-minded person, plus the FOOD, GUYS.

3. Wear crazy neon crop tops to music festivals. Now's the time.

4. Take a lot of Instagram pictures. 'Tis the age for many unabashed selfies, so that when your adult child is spoon-feeding you Yankee Beans in the nursing home, have proof that you were once dewy-skinned and had a life.

5. Pick up a sport you've never played before, even if you suck at it. That way you don't have to drag yourself to yoga as often, you can meet a new bunch of people to drink with, and you can buy cute sneakers.

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6. Eat whatever. Literally whatever. I have thought about mainlining super-cheesy, super-carby lasagna bolognese with more depth and nuance than I have thought about loved ones. Ignore the nutritional label and don't look back. EVER.

7. Drink a lot of green juice. Not to lose weight, but to balance out the bolognese. It probably sounds like it tastes like the Jolly Green Giant's jizz, but it's shockingly energy-boosting when fresh.

8. Spend time with your parents. Because they're getting older and you don't want to regret not doing it down the line.

9. Read Edith Wharton books. Specifically The Touchstone and New York Stories, because they're all about twentysomething men being weak and wishy-washy and women being smarter and more interesting than them. Also, ballgowns.

10. Keep a journal/sketchbook/scrapbook. Think about how much you are drinking in this decade. You'll want to remember things, and it will be hard if you don't keep some kind of record.

-cosmo

6 Things Guys Think When They See You Nekked ...

You've been seeing each other for a few weeks. You packed your toothbrush in hopes this date leads to an overnighter. So, what does he think when he sees you nekked for the first time?

1."She looks amazing."
It doesn't matter how many other women a guy has seen nekked. The first time you get undressed in front of him he's going to respond like a kid unwrapping a Christmas present. He's likely been wondering what you look like nekked for quite some time, and no matter how much he's thought of it the reality is always going to be better than the fantasy.

2."Keep your sh*t together."
There may be some anxiety on the guy's end. He may temporarily become self-conscious about his own body issues (yes, we have those too) or worry about his ability to perform at peak stamina or skill. He may also be a bit over-excited by seeing you nekked for the first time and doesn't want to give that away either.

3."Take a mental snapshot."
He's going to want to remember this. If he forgets in the mind-blowing, glorious moment that is seeing you nekked for the first time, he will get around to taking a mental snapshot sometime soon. This isn't a casual, "Hope I remember this." It's him summoning some foreign aspect of his brain that acts as a camera to insure he doesn't forget the shape of your body.

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4."Those are amazing br3asts/n!pples."
Each pair of br3asts are unique. Maybe one of your br3asts is smaller than the other. Or you have very long n!pples. Or surprisingly large areolae. Whatever it may be that the guy notices as "different" is not bad! In fact, new is often good and exciting. Just don't be surprised if your new guy seems to focus more of his attention there that night rather than other parts of your body. What may be your insecurity, might just be his favorite thing.

5."What in the world is that tattoo doing there?"
If you have a hidden tattoo on, say, your bikini line his mind will immediately go to it and try to figure it out. The fact that you got it in an area you normally keep covered makes us think there's some deeper message attached, one that you wouldn't want people asking you about when they saw it on your arm, for example. Don't be surprised if he asks you within the hour after he first sees it; he's been trying to figure it out since the moment he laid eyes on it.

6."Oh man, I'm lucky."
I have never met a man who sees someone nekked for the first time and turns to his friend the next day and says, "Her body was not nearly what I was hoping it would be." Quite the opposite. The first, second, and millionth time you strip down in front of him he will be counting his lucky stars. So don't worry about a thing; he's going to be excited to see you in all your glory.

7 Types of Sex - Which One Is The Most Exciting?

There are plenty of "types" of s3x that turn people on. I've compiled a list, and I think it proves that tension is the ultimate spark that creates great/fun s3x:

1.Makeup s3x

Makeup s3x is the release of tension created by an argument. It appeals to humankind's masochistic side: the emotional pain of an argument, cured by the high of healing through great s3x.

I wonder if people start arguments with their significant other just to set up the possibility of makeup s3x. I'm so hard headed, and bent on winning, that once the arguing starts, I can't stop.

I'd probably still be thinking: "did I give in too easily," right in the middle of the s3x.

2.Random s3x

The one night stand/random encounter is much like eating McDonald's. While you're doing it, it feels amazing, but afterward you feel awful and guilty.

While a one night stand might pump up my ego, I bury myself in shame afterward, worrying about all the other consequences of the risk I took.

3.Risky s3x

People get a thrill from the possibility of being caught (perhaps in an airplane bathroom), or  having something go terribly wrong (like doing it on a roof, or somewhere dangerous).

I have enough to worry about during s3x, so I shouldn't set myself up to worry about more.

4.Spontaneous s3x

Spontaneous s3x is the "grab each other and go at it" style. Of course, this could happen anytime, anywhere, so you end up diving on to a kitchen table, for example, and going at it on a whim.

Movies set a high standard for spontaneous s3x. It's a hot idea, but I'm not sure I could make it as good as they do in the movies. I'm rarely hyper focused on attraction or s3x enough at random times to engage in grabbing her and going at it.

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5.Kinky s3x

From dressing in a mascot suit, to having people watch you, to threesomes, kinky s3x would be defined as anything outside the realm of normalcy. "Normalcy" is a relative term, varying from person to person, so it's complicated.

Personally, I would need to be extremely comfortable with someone to try certain things. Also, I'm way too lazy to get too kinky. The process of shopping for, and applying things (such as costumes or handcuffs) is way too much effort.

While I consider myself someone who likes to do outlandish things, I'm still struggling to get comfortable with s3x. If regular s3x is Algebra I, then kinky s3x is Trigonometry.

6.Forbidden s3x

For some reason, I think forbidden s3x is pretty hot. Perhaps it appeals to my desire to test the boundaries and do the wrong thing from time to time.

Cheating on someone or with someone, hooking up with your best friend's ex, a co-worker, or the person that your friends and/or family don't approve of would all be considered forbidden s3x. I've had a few scrapes with this, but I should stick to fantasizing. Forbidden s3x is forbidden because someone, somewhere, will be hurt.

7.Consistent Casual s3x

Casual s3x can be exciting because there are no strings attached and you can experiment because your comfort level grows with each encounter.

But I think casual s3x is impossible and unhealthy, because at some point someone will care, and most likely get hurt for caring.

Some of these types can overlap. For example, you could have Spontaneous Random Forbidden Kinky Risky s3x.

Almost all s3x is culmination in a way, whether there's a short or long period of tension-building. The right tension building and correct timing and release of this tension is all you need.

Many of these types of s3x might help in keeping a s3x life spicy in long term relationships. People are constantly looking for new ways to build tension as their relationships mature. Hopefully they avoid negative ways (cheating), and focus on cultivating this tension with their significant others.

What type of s3x turns you on the most? What are your thoughts on my list, and what would you add to the list? What role does tension play in good s3x for you?

You Can Tell if a Guy's Cheating Just by Using this single trick!

At one point or another, we've all wished we had psychic powers so we could know for sure whether or not our partner was cheating on us. Ideally, you trust your partner and red flags would never indicate that might be happening, but sometimes you date someone and some small part of you thinks, Maybe? Now there's a new study to help you out [via PSMag].

Brigham Young University psychologists studied 51 undergraduates (35 women, 16 men) who were in romantic relationships and asked them about their relationships, including whether or not they'd ever cheated.

Then they videotaped conversations between the couples and asked unbiased third parties to watch the videos and decide if one, both, or neither of the members of each couple had ever cheated. Their judgments were shockingly accurate.

Research team leader Nathaniel Lambert said of the study:

"I was personally amazed about what could be surmised about people after watching them on a video for just a few minutes," said Lambert. "First, I couldn't believe how consistent the observers were with each other at independently rating who they thought were cheating on their romantic partner. Second, I was surprised by how often they were right on the mark."

Lambert says it makes sense the ability to sense these things could come from basic evolution, since the ramifications of cheating can vary from financial to physical to emotional, so chances are, you don't need to be a genius to know if he's cheating on you. Just trust your gut, or your friend's gut. According to this study, they're probably right.

Via Cosmopolitan

6 Surprising Health Benefits of S3x!So have more s3x everyday!!!!

1. Helps Keep Your Immune System Humming

“s3xually active people take fewer sick days,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD a s3xual health expert.

People who have s3x have higher levels of what defends your body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that college students who had s3x once or twice a week had higher levels of the a certain antibody compared to students who had s3x less often.

You should still do all the other things that make your immune system happy, such as:

-Eat right.
-Stay active.
-Get enough sleep.
-Keep up with your vaccinations.
-Use a c0'ndom if you don’t know both of your STD statuses.

2. Boosts Your l!bido

Longing for a more lively s3x life? “Having s3x will make s3x better and will improve your l!bido,” says Lauren Streicher, MD. She is an assistant clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago.

For women, having s3x ups vaginal lubrication, blood flow, and elasticity, she says, all of which make s3x feel better and help you crave more of it.
3. Improves Women's Bladder Control

A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in their lives.

Good s3x is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens them.

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4. Lowers Your Blood Pressure

Research suggests a link between s3x and lower blood pressure, says Joseph J. Pinzone, MD. He is CEO and medical director of Amai Wellness.

“There have been many studies,” he says. “One landmark study found that s3xual intercourse specifically (not m@sturbation) lowered systolic blood pressure.” That's the first number on your blood pressure test.
5. Counts as Exercise

“s3x is a really great form of exercise,” Pinzone says. It won’t replace the treadmill, but it counts for something.

s3x uses about five calories per minute, four more calories than watching TV. It gives you a one-two punch: It bumps up your heart rate and uses various muscles.

So get busy! You may even want to clear your schedule to make time for it on a regular basis.  “Like with exercise, consistency helps maximize the benefits,” Pinzone says.
6. Lowers Heart Attack Risk

A good s3x life is good for your heart. Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, s3x helps keep your es'trogen and t3stosterone levels in balance.

“When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease,” Pinzone says.

Having s3x more often may help. During one study, men who had s3x at least twice a week were half as likely to die of heart disease as men who had s3x rarely.

5 Craziest Places That Africans Have Séx ...

1.The bush, maize farm or coffee plantation
This specifically applies to people who live in ‘ocha’. Not all, but only a specific sample, especially the mean perverts who can’t get a room and the teenage high school folk who can’t control their surges of adolescence. People will persevere the pain of thorns, the toughness of stones and the itchy feeling that maize leaves give in order to enjoy the glory of séx.

These areas offer the much needed privacy but it’s surprising how people are willing to go through all the discomfort and brave the dangers of viscous animal attacks just for some few minutes of pleasure.

2.Washrooms.
The number of people who have been caught eating each other up by janitors or bouncers in clubs is as high as my followers on Twitter. As a result, these unlucky ‘thirsties’ have had to engage in endless negotiations or offer bribes. Some bouncers won’t even take bribes, despite the fact that they need extra tight t-shirts.

Once they catch you in the act, they see that as a golden opportunity to impress the boss. I know of a guy who was caught and imprisoned in the club washrooms by a bouncer until when the manager came. By the time he was allowed to go, it was 6 pm the next day.

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3.The car
Be it a taxi or just a private car in a parking lot, Kenyans have felt no shame doing it in automobiles. It doesn’t matter whether it’s in the squeezed space of a Toyata Votz or the spacious arena of a Probox, so long as nyege calls, things are going down. Some cars have even become worn out quickly not because they travel long distances but because of the wear and tear caused by frequent lungula.

4.The park
We all remember the infamopus Muliro Gardens story. Uhuru Park is also a popular ground for fornication. The pleasurable sin happens in hundreds of other parks all over the country. Do these people even enjoy it? One thing I know is that they constantly have to look over their shoulders because a mortal can pass by any minute. Why go through all the trouble?

5.The pool
Then there are those humans who find it adventurous to engage in cōituss inside a public pool. I have been a witness to this every time and despite not wanting to snitch, I have always wished that an imaginary shark would emerge and bite off the privates of such Kenyans.

There’s no problem having lungula in the pool if it’s just the two of you, but I have no respect for people who unleash their tools.

By Phillip Etemesi

This Is How A Well F**ked Woman Looks Like!!

Being well-f**ked means that you are connected to your se’xual energy. You’ve tapped into it and you are infusing it into every area of your life.

Even if you aren’t having se’x, you can be totally well-f**ked.

What does this look like?

1) You glow.

That well-f**ked quality that Gunter observed in me (or not) for years, that I now can read in a split second, will radiate from you. PEOPLE NOTICE.

A friend of mine has been focusing on revving up her se’xual energy for months now. She is diligently using the jade egg practice to wake up her vagina and reconnect to it as a source of power.

Men are stopping her on the street to talk to her. She can’t even fill her car up with gas without being asked out.

These men are acting on a visceral feeling. It’s blowing them over. She’s irresistible.

2) Your body, like the barometer it is, begins to reflect your self love.

A client of mine had been trying to lose weight for nearly two decades. She’d hired trainers, she was well-schooled in nutrition, but she couldn’t seem to lose that extra 20 pounds she’d carried around as a protective buffer for the past 18 years. After applying these ideas of connecting to her sexual energy, even as a single woman, she began to notice a change. In her words:

“The weight is just falling off me. I’ve lost 20 pounds in two months without even thinking about it. Instead, I feel fed by a love and a connection that goes beyond human existence.

My insecurity and a feeling of missing something were what used to cause me to overeat.

Now, I feel a completeness. I’m tapping into God-source.

It’s as though the feelings of love and connection I experience now are energetically sculpting my body, without any conscious ‘dieting’ effort.”

Well said.

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3) You get rich.

The money comes pouring in. I talk a lot about the connection between se’x and money. It’s profound.

If you are se’xually blocked, you will be financially blocked. Period. Fire your business coach and start f**king instead. (Kidding. Your business coach can stay on if you start f**king too).

4) You get happy.

I read the shi’ttiest article ever last month in, uh, Vogue magazine. I was in the checkout line at Whole Foods, and the headline on the cover caught my eye: “Good Mood or Good Sex: Do Women Have to Choose?”

Curious, (anything with “sex” in it will draw me in) I bought the magazine and read the article.

In it, the author tackles a conundrum that she claims many women face: If they go on anti-depressants, they’ll lose their libi’dos.

The way she describes the women in the article is as though they take antidepressants like others throw back vitamins. “I don’t feel so good. I must need antidepressants!”

She goes on at great length about how so many women feel so bad. They go on antidepressants. Then they feel numb. And have no desire for se;x.

HEY! LISTEN UP!! I HAVE A SOLUTION FOR YOU!

You can kill two birds with one org@sm.

If you have rev up your sexual energy, if you learn how to channel it into your life, whether single or married, your depression will lift.

Have more se’x—gourmet sex. With yourself or with a partner.

If these women in the article (and millions of others) were well-f**ked they wouldn’t need the antidepressants in the first place.

The Best S3x Positions For G' Sp0t Org@sms !!(a must watch video for every man)

Every man's desire is to give his woman a night she will hardly forget.Below is a video that will make that dream come true....

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10 Ways to Make the Best of a Terrible Date!

1. Try every weird drink on the menu. Chocolate rum mudslide? Sure why not. Mango mojito? Down the hatch. Instead of hearing someone drone on about their day, you can hear someone drone on about their day and broaden your horizons.

2. Take a shot every time they ask you a typical small talk question. You might not have fun but at least you'll be drunk by the time they say, "So this weather, huh?"

3. Eat nachos. You're already out, and a day with nachos is never a bad day. Gandhi said that. No, sorry. I meant Guy Fieri.

4. Drag them to that movie no one else wants to see with you. The Zac Efron guilty pleasure you can't get anyone to go watch with you? Now you can go see it without looking like a creepy loner. Bonus: You're not supposed to talk during the whole thing.

5. See how long you can push the uncomfortable silence. Embrace it. Turn it into a game. Can you stare at a virtual stranger for five minutes without speaking? We shall see!

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6. Treat it like a therapy session. You've already decided you're never going to see them again, so why not tell them all your terrible secrets and politically incorrect opinions. Just vent to them. You'll feel better and they'll be left a broken shell of the person they once were, but at least you'll be pretty much guaranteed they won't send you a text at 2 a.m. next week like, "hey wut r u up 2??"

7. Make friends with the waitress. If you make it really obvious you're on a first date and it's not going well, you might be able to score some free breadsticks. Maybe she'll even come over and hang out with you while you desperately try to avoid conversation with this guy.

8. Network. You might not have a love connection, but maybe you can have a business connection. It's worth a shot.

9. Go to some weird fusion restaurant. If you're not worried about making a good first impression, you might as well go try that place that combines Buffalo wings and cereal. What's the worst that could happen?

10. Have meaningless s3x. Your date might be a boring human, but if you're at least physically attracted to them, you can end your dry spell.

-cosmo