7 Things A Man Only Does If He’s Serious About You

 


#1 Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or a doctor’s appointment, a


meeting about a possible promotion, or just something you had once mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious about you. Men who aren’t serious about a woman make a point of not asking for too many details about her life.


(EXCLUSIVE VIDEO)MAN and his cheating lover caught stuck during s3x after husband casts a spell

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This is incredible! A Kenyan man suspected his wife was cheating on him and eventually went to a juju house to help him catch who she was with. Seems the juju spell somehow managed to work and the wife and her lover became glued stuck after a love making session.

Meanwhile, a big crowd had swelled outside the house where the s3xual act was taking place to witness the drama. But as police ran out of options on how to help the two, the cheating man finally agreed to pay the husband Sh20,000 (Kenyan shillings) in compensation.
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Eventually, a local pastor had to be called in to pray and the two were finally separated. At the end of the video the cheating man is seen heading out to withdraw the money from a nearby ATM.

 

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Two cheating sisters divorce and marry each other’s former spouse







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(Scroll down for video) Two sisters cheated behind each other’s back. 

Interestingly enough, the two sisters of Hunan Province, China, swapped husbands after falling in love with each other’s spouse.

The younger sister, Liu Xiang, had a baby with her husband. She stayed home to take care of the child while her husband, Wang Yang, took a job in Shenzhen. 

When the older sister got married, she also went to work in Shenzhen, while her husband stayed in Hunan.

The lonely sisters found comfort in the arms of their brothers-in-law and eventually fell in love. 

When their affairs were finally exposed, the two couples divorced and married their lovers. 

They both went on to have kids with their new husbands.

 

 

12 Things Men Dislike About Women






things men hate about womenWhat is it that irritates men the most? Have you ever stopped to take a moment for a reality check? I did that after endless talks with my male friends from a wide range of ages and backgrounds. And they all seem to have pretty much the same list of things they dislike in women’s behaviour ranging only in few things. We were talking about things that irritate us in relationships the most in general. We were talking about solutions and ideas for improvements. If I would compose the whole list of things men hate about women I would have spent the whole day or two at home doing so. But I can’t. Let me introduce you to the top 12 things men hate about women.

12 Things Men Hate About Women


1. Spare time?! I thought it’s “Me Time”?!


Ok, I must admit, it’s a natural desire to be as close as possible to our loved ones. We want them to be there for us, to share our good times and bad times… We want them to be there for us CONSTANTLY. No interruptions. But when a woman thinks that all the spare time her man has should be devoted only to her  - that’s when the irritation begins. Girls, understand that your man loves you very much and when he wants to spend some time doing his own thing or devote it to a hobby – it doesn’t mean it should be taken as an offence. Who are we if we don’t have our interests, hobbies and things to wonder about?! It develops us giving us more topics to discuss and more reasons to admire each other. Every once in a while we need our space to breathe. And it’s completely ok. He wants to go out and catch up with his mates? So what? Let him. No need to tug along. Every one of us needs a close net of connections. If he just came back from work and decided to read a book he was trying to start for couple of months now – let him. Let him be on his own and on his own terms and he will be greatful. Don’t worry, he will in fact dedicate you his time with a lot of gratitude for letting him to be himself….

2. Broken nail ain’t good reason to cry


Men are easily irritated by excessive emotions women may express. Broken nails and heels, smashed perfume bottles on bathroom tiles and endless cries over some soaps you may have made him to watch is far from the whole range of emotional roller coasters you can take him on for a ride in your very own “amusement park”. Too much emotions about little things may seem totally adequate for women but for men it’s too much drama. Try to be less emotional about things that don’t matter. Perhaps, stop for a moment and think “will I still be upset about this tomorrow and a week from now?”. If the answer is no then it is not worth spending your energy on splashing out too many emotions on it.

3. Talking Much?!


Loud and endless giggles, over-excitement and never ending talkativeness. “Seriously?! Does she ever shuts up” – said Mark when he met a girlfriend of our mutual friend. I didn’t understand back then why he was so upset whenever he would come across a person like that. “I just can’t stand people making all that pointless noise! Why all the perfect silence should be filled with stupid and obvious comments, giggles and general over excitement” – Mark continued. There is no need to state the obvious and be loud about things that don’t matter. In fact, being loud and talking too much about meaningless things is very annoying to everyone in general. Why talk much? Why can’t we speak only when it’s meaningful?

4. Communication Maniac


“It boils my nerves whenever she calls every 10 minutes or sends me meaningless messages! Is there any polite way to say that enough is enough?!” – Bill, 29/NY

Seriously girls. Is that nessesary to call him this much all the time? Bugging him and checking every tiny little detail during your day?! Really?! Think twice before annoying the hell out of him especially if he is in the middle of something really important and doesn’t have time to pick up the phone or text you back. Men do not like that much attention when it is over the top. To them it lingers at the borderline of obsessive, demanding and jealous. You don’t need to keep him updated about your every move and every little detail, just as you don’t need to know what he is doing, where he is and what he is thinking about right now every minute of your day. Give him some space. Give him some time to miss you.



5. Nagging


Is it really necessary to nag him all the time about not helping you around the house and then when he actually does, to find a new reason to say that what he did was not good enough?! Do you think he enjoys all the dirty chores you put him up to do: taking out a trash, washing the dishes, hoovering, tidying up the garage just because you are not happy how his tools were organised? He doesn’t and he only does them because he can’t take that nagging anymore. Try thanking him for everything he does instead. You will see a drastic change in his behaviour if he feels appreciated for doing all these things. Less nagging, more appreciating and gratitude, please.

6. Are You Licensed to Spy? Jealous much?!


“Ooh, I just want to smack her across her face whenever I see her snooping through my personal stuff, Facebook or phone. Is it really necessary?! ” – Mike, 26/San Diego

Who gave you the licence to spy and always search for something incriminating?! What’s up with this obsession? Understand that such a behaviour will just make him become more private and closed from you and the end result will be that he will trust you less. He is with you, he loves you. This is what counts. And every person needs its own space. We need to remember and respect that.

7. Embarrassing Storyteller


“I actually broke up with one of my girlfriends because she had this stupid tendency to tell an embarrassing story in front of my family and friends. She just couldn’t help herself… ” John, 27/London

If you are downgrading your boyfriend or speaking badly about him behind his back – the only conclusion people will make is how foolish you are “to be with such a horrible person” that you described. Do you need that “record” on your consciousness? The only thing people should ever hear is how lucky you are to have such a great person by your side… Many people don’t and they are not as lucky as you to find a match and be together with someone special… Praise your man and he will be forever grateful.

8. What Are You Thinking About NOW?!


Really?! Why is it important for you to know his exact thought process right now? The whole question itself is ridiculous and irritates the hell out of even the most calm and all-forgiving person.



9. Make-up overdo vs. Natural


Men don’t particularly like long nails, artificial hair and excessive make up! They love natural looking girls. Natural look is always more attractive to men and it tells them more about you than anything else. Even though you might think they all like women who wear slutty clothes - believe me, they prefer stylish and humble ones on you!

10. Health wise


Men hate all these endless talks about modern diets, especially when they don’t see the results of your hardships. They want to see you healthy and good looking. Remember, most of the time men love with their eyes so anything you are doing to improve your looks and health will make them even more attracted to you.

11. Fashionably late?! Leave it to those who read cosmopolitan!


Seriously! Stop being late if you are always late! There is no beginning to explain how distasteful it is not to respect other people’s time and make them sit and wait for you while you have the luxury to be “fashionably late”. There may be different reasons why you are late but when your time managment and lack of self-discipline makes you late all the time – it has to change. Espessially if you are late for your fisrst date… Because it can be your last with that person.

12. Cultureless


If a woman has a bad taste in clothing, uses swear words in conversations, has poor general knowledge, doesn’t care about self-development, doesn’t read books and knows nothing about any subject in more depth – that’s just too bad. Men are generally bored with lightheaded and stupid girls. And it’s just a matter of time until he will waves goodbye or kicks her so hard out of his life that she will end up in a public library for a change and not on Facebook procrastinating and wasting her precious time! Develop, grow, be interested and be interesting as a person and a man will never be bored or irritated by a girl like this.

 

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Are Men Polygamous by Nature? READ MORE.

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A question posed to us by a dear reader, Ibnu Adam, inspired me to ask, “Are men polygamous by nature?” In response to the post, “Why Do Men Engage in Polygamy in 2009?”, Ibnu Adam asked, “Are we men really born with the desire for more than one woman, of which one of the solutions is by having multiple wives? Or is it something than men have to conquer to have a higher level of imam?”


No one responded to his question. Nonetheless, I began to ponder it. I’d venture to say many men have an innate desire for more than one woman. They were born with that characteristic. I think the number of men who “cheat” is evidence of it.  I really don’t like using the word “cheat”, as it is not a well-defined word; although, we all know what it means.


I wonder what it would be like, if everywhere in the world men could lawfully have more than one wife; how many men would do so? That would be interesting.  I know there are some women out there who want to rush in a mad haste and say, “My husband doesn’t want more than just me (her).” Well, of course that could be true, as I’m not speaking of every man on the planet.


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As to the second part of Abnu Adam’s question, “Or is it something than men have to conquer to have a higher level of imam?”, I think in cases where men tried polygamy, but it didn’t work; they divorced all the wives, except one and remained monogamous afterwards, it would be a prime example of how it could help them on their spiritual path. This could happen as they could put behind them the quest for more than one wife (as they had been there and done that), and can now focus on what’s more important – their spirituality.


What do you think about it?


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10 Things That You May Have Done In Your Life


 

10 Things That You May Have Done In Your Life

TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN GUYS AND LADIES!

1. Guys Will Always Be The First
To Text A Girl, But Once That Lady
Spreads Those Legs For Him, She
Would Be the one texting Him Every
Time.


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2. Most Guys Will Say 'Its Not A Must
We Have S3X'
But Truth Behind it is 'Why don't We
have It Every time we are Together'?.


3. Most Girls Will Say 'I Have DATED
only Two Guys' Which Its A Lie.
She Has Dated More than that.


4. Most Guys Will Say 'I Want Us To be
together Forever' But Once He Got
What he Wants From her Then
Problems Starts, Break-up Is Here.


5. Most Ladies Give in To S3X Just To
keep that Relationship Strong But to Guys,
The More You Give in To S3X the More you
Become Cheap and useless To Him.


TRUE OR FALSE?

How to Tell if a Guy is a V1rgin

First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing that he’s still a v1rgin – guys don’t have anything like a hym3n which can be broken during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is a v1rgin. 

 

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Are there any common signs that suggest he is a v1rgin? The answer will be a yes and a no. Yes there are certain instinctual behaviors that a v1rgin guy would exhibit but it’s not foolproof, moreover a lot of guys can just pretend at being a v1rgin too.

Signs a Guy is a V1rgin


In this article we suggest a few signs that tell you if a guy is a v1rgin. Here’s what you look for.

He Is Very Shy About Touching You


This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a v1rgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite se'x decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But can you tell if a guy is a v1rgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a v1rgin.

He Is Very Uncertain While Getting Physically Intimate


If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys who are not v1rgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps condition their mind. V1rgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. If you are not a v1rgin, you will find the v1rgin guy especially clueless.

He Kisses Awkwardly


Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are v1rgins. But if a guy kiss3s awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is a v1rgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a v1rgin no matter what he says. Kissing takes practice and people get good at it with experience. Even the bad kissers are not clumsy or awkward; they just go at it all wrong. Another aspect to look out for is whether he closes his eyes while kissing, most v1rgins tend to do that a lot.

He Asks For Permission While Making Love


Typically a v1rgin guy is pretty unsure of what his moves ought to be. Being physically intimate is new territory for him. Even if he has watched several adult movies, the first real experience is bound to be overwhelming for a guy. He is likely to fumble around a lot and he will ask for permission before touching you or kissing you intimately. He is also bound to be confused about when to enter you. If he looks like a lost sheep, though he may pretend as if he is very confident about what he’s doing, then you know that it’s his first experience.

He Has A Very Quick 0rgasm


If it’s his first intimate experience in love making, he is sure to orgasm quickly. Some v1rgin guys tend to eja'culate even before entering or as soon as they enter. The first experience is always a nervous one for a guy because he will be constantly thinking about how he is performing. Moreover he will get aroused at the smallest act of intimacy on your part causing him to come to an orgasm quickly. Guys with experience are more sensitized to their ar'ousal and can control themselves a lot better. 

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a v1rgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees. If you see a guy exhibiting these behaviors when you get intimate, you should ask him if it’s his first experience and make it as comfortable for him as possible. 

4 WORST BREAKUP LINES








Man cryingAs human beings have always found it hard to tell off the people we are not ready to be with or no longer want to be with at all. That’s why we invented breakup lines. There are some lines which are satisfactory but some are just stupid. Even though they are foolish lines, you’ll still hear them from majority of people Here are some of them.

1.It is not you, it is me, you deserve better
These words are supposedly meant to make you feel better about yourself, so you would think the problem is with the person saying it hence you end up just letting them go. This is one of the oldest and the most used breakup lines yet it stays trending.   The truth is when you hear this line from someone, it simply means one thing, “It is actually about you.”

2.I am not ready for a relationship.
If the person saying this wasn’t ready for a relationship, they wouldn’t be with you in the first place. What this line actually means is that the relationship wasn’t what they expected.When someone tells you this, it means you are no longer appealing.
If the person wasn’t really ready for a relationship, they would have told you up front and not lead you into believing they want you or want a relationship with you.

3.I am too busy right now, I don’t have time for anything serious.
If you like a person you always find the smallest time to be with him or her no matter how busy your schedule is. In fact, you are always eager to get off your busy schedule and be with this person. .
So when your partner tells you they are too busy for something serious, it means they are not taking you seriously or you are simply not worth being taken seriously..

4.I am still young and trying to find my feet
It’ said that relationships are the best place to find your feet. Nothing beats that push or drive that a partner who cares for you can give you. You can both talk about life, career and your goals while you give each other the much needed push.
So when people asks for space to concentrate on themselves it’s always just a lame excuse.







 

10 Weird Questions to Avoid Asking on the First Date


You have been waiting for this date since the past few days. This is your first date together and you are worried about making a good first impression. You have made all the preparations you need to. Thought for hours about the restaurant you are dining at. Spent countless hours figuring out what to wear. Showered for such a long time as if you won’t get another chance to shower for at least a month! Stood in front of the mirror wondering if the make up’s too much or too less. Don’t worry, you haven’t gone mad.

You just want this person to like you back. You haven’t felt this way for a very long time and suddenly, after all this time thinking that you don’t need anyone else for you to stay happy; you have realized that you want this person to be everything to you. You find him/her irresistible and there’s nothing more you would want at this point of time than for your date to go smooth and she/he reciprocates the same feelings for you.

 

Well, everything’s alright but don’t you think you need to calm down a bit? A word of advice, keep the feelings in control and don’t be overwhelmed by them. The way this date turns out, your first impression and what your date perceives about you after tonight is going to determine your future together. What you speak and the way you speak is the most critical factor based on which your prospective better half judges you. Read on to know the 10 weird questions not to ask on the first date.

10.How do your parents earn a living ?
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Money Matters! Questions like this will come across as interview-type questions. Questions on which you’re going to judge him/her. Does it matter what his/her parents do for work? No, it doesn’t! What’s more is that you don’t know anything about the relationship he/she has with them. Remember, you are there to seek love and not money. Such questions imply you are judging his/her financial status. It would be embarrassing for your partner if you ask them about their parents’ work on the first date. It could lead to awkward deadlocks, something I am sure you don’t want to happen on the first date!


9. Why are you so passionate about this?



Don’t ask them why they are passionate about particular things. There’s no point questioning if you don’t understand his/her point of view. Asking will do nothing but highlight the unlikeness. It would be better if you focus on what you two have in common. Get to know each other better. Then he/she will be more comfortable explaining his/her perspective. Everyone has his/her own obsessions. Understand that pretty well. They might appear weird to you but then who are you to question them? Some people have deep emotional attachments with certain things and it’s best to not bring up any such issue on the first date. Lack of understanding between you two might ruin further chances.

8. Can I borrow some money?



The person you’re with is a virtual stranger and asking to borrow money from them , even if it is a genuine emergency, is a no no. If you find yourself in a financial scrape; don’t even dream of asking your date for help. Rather Call a friend They don’t know you and asking for money will create an image of you as someone who is careless or, even worse, a scammer. Also, avoid arguing much on who will pay the bill. It’s perfectly alright if the guy does that. If both mutually decide to share, what can be better?

7.Do you believe in God?



Religion may be a critical factor for you, but there’s a time and a place to bring up spiritual matters.The first date definitely isn’t!. He she maybe a complete atheist unlike you and bringing up such questions will surely lead to fruitless arguments. Still, if such a topic is brought up, be calm while dealing with it. You aren’t proving your beliefs at a world conference; you are here on a romantic date! Behave like a secular, educated and religion tolerant person.

6.How were your previous dating experiences?



You can’t possibly think of anything more awkward on a first date than having to answer a questions enquiring about the last time they were on a date or the last time he/she had sex. The only thing you’ll do with that information is form an opinion about him/her. If he/ she says 6 months ago, you’ll wonder why he/she hasn’t dated anyone since then. An answer like “last week”, will make you think he/she is mendacious. But the simple fact is, none of that is any of your business! All you need to remember is that he’s/she’s choosing to be on a date with you implies he/she wants to know you. Focus on that, and give the relationship a chance to develop.


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5.What do you think about marriage?





Don’t even bring the ‘m word’ up! You notice anything that would bring up the topic of marriage just bulge your eyes out, put a hand on your heart and groan with all the might you have. Drop down on the floor too if you are not so convincing! On a serious note, please don’t talk about marriage. You never know, your date might have been divorced. As warned before, the first date is definitely not the time to start digging up his/her past. Keep it buried. Your date might not be ready to settle down yet and talking about marriage will do nothing but make him/her uncomfortable. You mention this word and ninety nine times out of a hundred you will be dropping a bomb.

4.What are your views on Sex ?



Whether you’re asking about the sexual positions they prefer, or how many sexual partners they have had, all conversation about sex should be avoided until further down the time. I am sure you don’t want to come across as someone who is just looking for cheap thrills if what you’re really in search of is a lasting, committed relationship. When did you lose your virginity? Whoa! Way, way too personal. Don’t go there. In a nutshell, anything related to sex should be stayed away from. It usually creates a wrong impression. Such questions are a strict NO NO!

3. Do You Like Me ?



Obviously it’s the question we all want to know the answer to but it’s also the one you should never ask on the first date. You will seem needy and insecure. Instead of being direct, look for clues by observing their body language, conversation and manner towards you and you’ll have a better way of concluding whether they are attracted to you or not. If they ask for a second date, you will know that they would like to know more about you. There are people who like to go away and ponder about the way the date went before they decide if they want to see the person again, so be patient and not insist on an answer too soon. After all, good things come to those who wait.

2. What is your age/ salary/ dream family size?



No! NEVER! Rather avoid questions whose answer is a number. This includes age, how much he/she pays in rent, and how long he/she has been at the current job. Don’t ask how often he/she goes to the gym or how many children they may someday want. It’s not necessary to enumerate anything on the first date! Sharing too much is the biggest mistake people make and it can leave you feeling vulnerable and exposed. Remember that a first date is more of an introduction to help you decide if you want to meet again. It is undoubtedly not the time for you to jot down the numerical figures. Do not forget to give each other the required space!

1. Your Former Boyfriend/ Girlfriend.. ?




Good dates result from good energy. The best bet is to avoid bringing negativity into the discussion. Keep the past in the past. Bringing up questions like how long their last relationship was or why did they guys break up? Or whether they are still in touch with their ex or not are just too weird questions to be asked on a first date. You should remain as far as possible from such prying questions. First date is not the time to ask anything about previous relationships. Give them a chance to feel comfortable with you (at least a few dates) before asking about their past relationships. Isn’t it obvious that he/she is there with you because he/she is looking for a fresh start in life? Let that Happen!

Top 10 Advantages of Getting Married




Most people are not aware of the advantages of marriage due to their weak perspective. But once you perceive the positive aspects of marriage then you will definitely change your pessimistic views about it. In fact marriage comes with many benefits and it will make a satisfactory difference in your life. Agree it or not, the society is crafted to make life effortless for married couples! If you want to know why marriage is beneficial, you have to go through the top 10 advantages of getting married!


10. Financial Benefits



10. Financial Benefits

Being a married couple, you can not only earn more money but you can also lower expenses and save extra money. If both husband and wife are earning then the two incomes contribute to financial security. Marriage also provides financial stability besides companionship. Married people can buy assets without much legal problems. Studies have also shown that married couples accumulate more assets than people who remain unmarried. There are also many tax breaks especially for the married couples. Marriage also gives financial responsibility which is one of the reasons why married men earn more compared to single guys. So marriage also increases earning power. People out there thinking that marriage is a financial burden, it is time to change that opinion!




9. Sharing Life



9. Sharing Life

Staying single is not as appealing as it looks. At some point in your life you may feel the need to be loved and taken care of. You would wish there was someone to share your sad and happy moments, someone to share your success and failure, someone to do things along with you, someone to accompany you on vacations, just someone who shares life with you! Marriage allows you to have this someone who will share your feelings and experiences. When you have someone to share everything with, then you get to know what is more important for you and your relationship. This will help you to realize your dreams and make them come true.


8. Social and Religious Acceptance



8. Social and Religious Acceptance

If you want the society to accept your relationship then getting married is the right way. Most religions do not approve cohabiting and premarital sex. A relationship can get religious and social acceptance when the couple gets married in front of family and friends, and exchange vows affirming their lifelong commitment to each other. Getting married to the person you love is the courteous and respectful way to live with each other. Most cultures across the world expect people to find their companions and settle down once they become adults. It may seem old fashioned but marriage is a part of well functioning society and has always been demanded through the changing times.


7. Better and Safer Sex Life



7. Better and Safer Sex Life

Marriage means better and safer sex. Married sex is more sophisticated and healthy than single sex. The things people say about sex life becoming monotonous and predictable after marriage are just misconceptions. Most couples who have been married for so long admitted that sex life keeps on getting better. After years of being married, it will become easier to open up to your spouse about your fantasies and desires and get what you want without any fear of being judged. Sexual experimentation is what keeps married sex spiced up for years.


6. Good for Mental Health



6. Good for Mental Health

People who are single feel more burdened by life’s hardships whereas married people have a partner to support and comfort them thus making them worry less about such obstacles in life and improve their emotional health. Married people are less distraught and less psychologically perturbed than single, divorced, cohabiting or widowed people. When people marry, their mental health improves in a steady and considerable manner. But divorce leads to decline in mental health and self esteem leading to depression and estrangement. A failed marriage doesn’t serve as a reason to avoid them altogether. Instead you should refrain from getting into bad relationships and marry the person whom you truly love. A happy marriage reduces the stress levels, the reason being the positive influence of your partner on your life style contributing to better health.


5. Companion to grow old with



5. Companion to grow old with

You have to question yourself whether being single will work out for you even when you get older, when all your hair is white and your face is full of wrinkles? As you get older, you’d love to have someone to take care of you and love you till the end. Having that someone by your side in these last days will not let the fear of living and dying alone to get into your mind. You have to remember that it is your spouse who will save you from spending your remaining life in solitariness by being your companion in old age. It is difficult to understand this need in a young age but I know for sure that it is what will rescue an old soul from a lonesome death.


4. Children



4. Children

You will feel the need to have kids in your life in order to make it meaningful. Life is definitely meaningless without family and marriage is the foundation for a family. Marriage allows you to fulfill this desire of having kids besides helping you to continue your bloodline. Being a parent is an aspect of adulthood that every person wants to experience and marriage gives the most stable environment for that. To be a parent of a kid is an extraordinary experience that one can have in a lifetime. The cute things that kids do when they are so small give the parents’ hearts the joys that can’t be compared to anything in the world. Nothing is more sweet and beautiful than the unconditional love you will develop towards your children. And even more heart warming is the love that your kids will show towards you. To raise your children in a good and healthy atmosphere, marriage is very much necessary. Children can lead a positive and secure lifestyle if their parents stay married.


3. Commitment



3. Commitment

Through marriage you prove your love by giving your partner a lifelong commitment and taking the responsibility to be with them in every aspect of their life. Marriage is the highest commitment you can give the person you love. As a matter of fact, it exemplifies everlasting commitment in a relationship. Making this commitment will change your life. When you and your partner are wholly committed to making your relationship work, then the best thing to do would be to get married because marriage is the only realistic means of permanence in a relationship. In my opinion without commitment any relationship has no direction for the future. The question that pops into my mind is that if you don’t commit to your love of life by marriage, then how could you get to experience the next stage of relationship – a future together?


2. Happy Life



2. Happy Life

Married couples tend to be happier than the unmarried or divorced people. They experience positive emotions and find deep satisfaction in married life which is the main reason they stay happy. Marriage provides stability and support that allows both the spouses to succeed in all other aspects of life which adds more happiness to their married life. Marriage is the kind of relationship that can give contentment and life satisfaction. In other words, marriage is a gateway to the castle of happiness!


1. True Love



1. True Love

There is no bigger proof of true love than marriage. Marriage ultimately signifies true and real love. If you love someone so much that you don’t want to lose them ever, then you can do that through marriage. Married couples are more likely to stand high in altruistic love compared to unmarried people. Marriage will definitely help true love to thrive for a very long time, even a lifetime. In this context, I want to remind the line quoted by Judith Viorst which says “One advantage of marriage is that when you fall out of love with him or he falls out of love with you, it keeps you together until you fall in again”. When I find my true love, the first thing I’ll do is propose!


 

10 Places in the World known as Love Proposal Sites


Well we all need a good proposal story to brag about in front of our friends and family because this story which will be told and retold over the years. You want to capture that moment and keep it safe in your memories and want to keep reliving it in your thoughts. Asking a woman to marry you is the most important thing in a man’s life. You should be aware of the perfect timing, perfect location and most of all you yourself should be sure about this big decision. Some women like to keep it private, some like it in front of the crowd with people applauding. It all depends on how your women want it  because this is the day you really want to make her feel special and ‘The Right One’. The most important thing is that you plan it. If you really want to make your proposal a remember-able moment for her, you can plan a holiday in Paris at Eiffel tower which is the most common of all or Phuket, watching the beautiful sunset with the champagne and bending down on one knee. So here is a list of the best places to pop the question.



10. Santorini, Greece




The Greek Island of Santorini is like heaven on Earth and is The most romantic spots for a memorable proposal. This island was made by the volcanic eruption which left a lagoon with a volcano in the centre, and is surrounded by towering cliffs known as ‘caldera’. This area benefits us from mesmerizing sunsets, black volcanic sands, traditional white houses, view of the blue Aegean sea makes this place a perfect spot to propose and make unending promises. There is another spot in Santorini known as the ancient village of Akrotini which is just ‘perfect’ for a proposal. You can take a small fishing boat ride at the Red Beach, famous for its black and red rocks and stop at a quiet and alone place and ask the question, which will be just as romantic as in movies.





9. Phuket, Thailand




There is no way one can ignore the beautiful sunsets on a tropical beach and the lull of the waves when you are asking someone to marry you! If you are planning to propose in Phuket, any corner would do as it is so beautiful everywhere. If you are not the shy type, you can choose Chinese Junk Boats that tour the Bay. If you choose the sunset trips, you can pop the question at a candlelit dinner with red roses and a bottle of wine which is extremely romantic. If you want to keep it private, you can head to Rang Hill viewpoint in the moonlight while overlooking the city, which can be a very theatrical setting for a proposal.



8. Pont Des Arts, France




Paris is said to be a place of ‘love’. A place to find love and fall in love and Eiffel Tower is the most common among all the proposal sites. You will see dozens of guys proposing at the Eiffel Tower. If you are looking for something different, Paris has a lot to offer. Pont Des Arts is a bridge which crosses the Sein River. It can be a very romantic site for a proposal as couples take the attaching padlocks with their first name written and then throw the key into the river as a romantic gesture. This key is said to represent the ‘committed love’ of the couples. It is the same bridge where Big get together with Carrie Bradshaw from the Sex and the City. It is a perfect proposal place.



7. Disney Land, Florida




If you or your girl is a big believer of fairytales or happy endings, then proposal at Disney land can be a divine and memorable experience after all Disney land is said to be a place where all your dreams come true and there are tons of isolated nooks and corners where you can propose your girl. If you want to make your girl feel like a princess, propose her in front of Cinderella’s castle or the nightly fireworks. Another breath taking proposal can be at a giant balloon 400 feet above Downtown Disney where you have nothing but the beautiful sky and your beloved.


6. London Eye, London




This place is very famous for marriage proposals. It is quiet expensive but a very romantic place to pop the question. It is a giant wheel on the bank of river Thames in London. It is a 135 metre tall wheel which helps to see the spectacular view of London. A proposal here can actually convey a meaning to your beloved that you can possibly  go to any extent to prove your love. You can secure your private ‘cupid capsule’ where you will be served flowers and champagne and you will get some privacy. So you can bend on one knee, 135 metres above the Parliament House and have a lifetime romantic experience.



5. The Trevi Fountain, Rome




It is the most famous and remarkably beautiful fountain in all of Rome. It is the largest fountain in the city, 26.3 metres high and 49.15 metres wide and one of the most famous one too. The sound of the running water, the imposing façade and the exquisite sculptures sets a magnificent setting for a proposal. If you want to avoid the crowd, try to pop the question early morning or late at night. The fountain is illuminated, so the view is magical at night. Even the ‘Piazza Navona’ is the best known place of Rome having beautiful fountains and buildings. You can also get a beautiful portrait of your girlfriend from the street artists and bend down on one knee and can pop the question.



4. The Grand Canyon, Arizona




The Grand Canyon is scary but romantic for a proposal. It is astonishing and terrifying at the same time. It has a wild beauty which is like a painting created by God. Asking a woman to marry you while standing 4000 feet above nothing but the Earth’s deepest pothole can turn really good for you. Some bride-to-be will even say ‘yes’ for the fear of falling. But The Grand Canyon proposal can prove to be a great way to take the relationship to new heights.



3. Verona, Italy




The city of Verona, is said to be the home of the lovers Romeo and Juliet by Shakespeare. People from all around the world come to make a wedding proposal in Verona under the unforgettable Juliet’s balcony, in the courtyard of her house. It is considered a romantic gesture and people pop the questions so as to have a love story as unforgettable and everlasting as Romeo and Juliet. The renaissance flavor of the city created by Shakespeare years ago, still attract couples even today.



2. Niagara Falls, Canada




Niagara Falls was once known as the ‘honeymoon capital of the world’. But as the time is changing, the natural splendor of the falls gives a romantic opportunity to couples and can be the perfect site for the person who has a marriage proposal in mind. The thundering water of Niagara Falls, the beauty of nature and the love in air can definitely get you a ‘Yes’. You can also pop out the question while riding along the scenic Niagara Parkaway on the side of the Falls.



1. Neuschwanstein Castle, Germany





The one of the best places to express your love to your beloved is Neuschwanstein Castle. It is one of the breathtaking sights in Germany. The castle is surrounded by beautiful lakes and forest and the castle sits atop an impressive mountain range. It has huge towers and spires and is located on the highest point of the Pallat River Gorge. It was built by Ludwig II, it is the embodiment of 19thcentury romanticism.  It is one of the perfect place to propose.


 

Top 10 Worst Ways To Breakup







Erasing yourself from somebody’s life is not as simple as walking out the door.” This is absolutely true, breaking up is not easy and most people at some point of their life suffer a devastating break up. According to recent studies what people are worried about most is not ‘why they break up’ but instead ‘how they break up’. Can you imagine how worse ending a relationship can be sometimes if you break up in a wrong way? I have mentioned here 10 such worst ways to break up!


10. When Drunk



10. When Drunk

This is one awkward way to break up. If you are not happy with the relationship and want to back out of it then you have to break the news when your head is clear but not under the influence of booze. When you’re drunk you’re not completely aware of things you say and you’re not going to remember anything the next day. And surely it is not the right way to end things and you have to do the breaking up a little decently.




9. When you are on a Vacation



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There’s nothing like breaking up while on a vacation with your partner. It would be such a waste of money and time. To ruin what is supposed to be a fun trip is worse than one could think of. More worse is to leave the vacation with so much stress. You can’t even run away from the situation if you break up on a vacation! But if you are forced to break up due to the situation demanding it, then I would suggest using the vacation to get over the break up and exhilarating yourself.


8. At your Special Place



8. At your Special Place

Most lovers have a special place they are fond of. It might be the place where they first met or the restaurant where they expressed their love for each other or even a bench in a park where they used to sit and talk endlessly! This ‘special place’ might be the one that holds the best memories of their relationship. If you have such a place and happen to break up there then the happy memories of the place will turn into dark ones. Why break up in such a place? It is better to let the special place stay special. There are many other places to break up and never ever choose the special place to do this break up thing!


7. On Facebook or Twitter



7. On Facebook or Twitter

Breaking up on social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter will have more drastic emotional consequences than you know. This is a very public means of ending a relationship and you have to face its outcome. You may think of it as private but breaking up on social networking sites always leaves a paper trail and remember that it can always be used against you later. Beside this, the photos, posts on Facebook, tweets on Twitter and other reminders of your ex-lover may prolong your emotional pain of parting with your lover. Just think of how hard it is to go from ‘In a Relationship’ to ‘Single’ and changing the relationship status will not ease your pain. You’ll hurt a person more when you ditch him/her online whether on Facebook or Twitter and you become the selfish person here.


6. When the Family or Friends are around



6. When the Family or Friends are around

If you make it a family affair, then you are seriously going to regret it in future! The dumped person cannot have a normal reaction especially when your family is present. And if there is a follow-up fight, it is going to be so embarrassing. You will make a fool out of yourself in front of your family and friends for making them witness such an awkwardly uncomfortable scene. Would it be any good to hurt the person you were with by making this person cry in front of your family? I think this person definitely deserves the respect not to be treated like that before your family. It will be better not to involve your family in matters of your relationship. Think about it, will they treat you the same after you dump your girlfriend/boyfriend before their own eyes.


5. By Ignoring



5. By Ignoring

Ignoring is another worse way of ditching your lover. If you don’t want to continue the relationship then you just have to tell that person. Do you think ignoring them will do you any better? It may hurt less but it will have rough consequences if the person tries to figure out why you are not responding back. And it will be no wonder if the person shows up at your work place or college and even files a missing complaint! I believe you don’t want to be the laughing stock for your work mates or peers. Besides suddenly avoiding contact with the person can be psychologically disturbing and leave you uncertain as to whether or not you really mean it. The best thing would be to tell him/her off that you want to break up straight away. It will be such a relief to both of you to know where you stand even though it is heart breaking!


4. On Valentine’s Day



4. On Valentine’s Day

It’s a very sad thing to break up on Valentine’s Day while other couples are celebrating their love and some of them are even making their proposals. The worst thing is that from then on every Valentine’s Day might bring you the bad memories of your breakup ruining the special day forever in your life. If you can, just avoid breaking up on this day. It’s not really worth it to suffer a break up on such a precious day only meant for ‘love’!


3. Not in Person



3. Not in Person

Even though it is hard, it would be better to break up face-to-face than not in person. Leaving a voice mail saying “it’s not working between us” or texting that “it is over” are difficult to deal with than you think and will have serious impact on you. It may be easier to break up with your partner when you don’t have to look in the eye but ending your relationship by phone, text or email is way too harsh and cowardly. It would be very decent of you to end the relationship face-to-face rather than doing it indirectly through phone or texting. It is somewhat okay to break up on phone in a long distance relationship.


2. In Public



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It is going to be a very humiliating experience if you choose to break up in a place full of people. Also, publicly arguing is so disgusting. Some friends might suggest dumping your partner in public so that he/she cannot do anything crazy. But the reality is that if the person is going to get maniacal for getting dumped, he/she will do it no matter what. Breaking up in a wedding or a restaurant or any other place with lot of people is quite embarrassing and difficult to handle. If you are going to dump someone, better do it in private. The only instance you should dump a person in public is when you are genuinely afraid that this person is going to hurt you.


1. Getting caught while Cheating



1. Getting caught while Cheating

It is a very wrong thing to cheat in the first place and more worse is getting caught doing that! If you want to be with some other person break up with your partner first instead of breaking his/her heart later. What you have to know is that you are not just hurting the person you are dumping but also vexing the person you are cheating with. This will stop people from ever trusting you again. You may end up with the person you cheated with but that doesn’t justify your actions and the pain and agony you caused to your ex-partner. It is very hard to know that you’re being cheated on from someone or to watch your lover cheating you. According to me, this is the worst way to break up!